It?s not that I didn?t always have a strong connection with my eldest daughter. It?s just that recently, as she?s running headlong into her fifth year of life, we?ve started to connect in ways I didn?t expect. For example, this weekend we spent most of early Sunday morning building Lego models together. How did that happen? How did she suddenly get into stuff I remember liking as a child? I know everyone always talks about how quickly kids grow up. I don?t agree with that at all.