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girls that lead you on

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by nonai, Apr 19, 2014.

  1. nonai

    nonai Power Member

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    sometimes when you talk to a girl, she is nice and talkative, laughs at your jokes. us guys have a bad habit of misinterpreting these things as "she is attracted to me" and we get "led on" only to find out 2 hours later she has a boyfriend.

    look, I know the girl is just being nice. I dont blame her, I appreciate nice people. but I dont like being led on. how can you find out early on whether or not a girl has a boyfriend so you dont waste your time? you cant ask her "do you have a boyfriend" because that's lame. or can you?
     
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    "are you single?" Stop being a pussy, nothing is lame unless you are.
     
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    CPADominate Junior Member

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    Don't give a f*ck mentality is the best.
     
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  4. mistercasanova

    mistercasanova Junior Member

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    Be more flirtatious. Having boring conversation and small talk can only bring you so far. If you're sneakily flirtatious, you will find out. Girls flirting and girls being nice to you isn't so hard to differentiate.
     
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    oxonbeef BANNED BANNED

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    Assume she has.
    Don't care.
    Alpha male her.
    Send her home smelling of you.
    Job done.
     
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    asap1 Jr. VIP Jr. VIP

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    Asking her does she have a boyfriend is lame?

    Well buddy you can waste your time if you like
     
  7. nonai

    nonai Power Member

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    Thanks man, I think this is the correct answer. you are right, my conversation was boring.
     
  8. WormWH

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    Even if she has a boyfriend - who cares? I used to go out with a girl that had 3+ years relationship, the first time i asked her to go out, she was really shy, i told her i don't want your boyfriend and i am not taking him, i want you. :D

    If you think too much and care about every single detail, you will end up with nothing. Go with the flow. :)
     
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    The Scarlet Pimp Jr. VIP Jr. VIP Premium Member

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    1-(900)-date

    :D
     
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    just cause she has a boyfriend doesnt mean she aint DTF, so ask her where can you stick your penis. She waves you in or you might get slapped. You dont ask you will never get any ass.
     
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    Hahaha seriously how hard is it to ask ''Are you single?'' Wow you computer guys really over think shit!!
     
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    I assume that the first thing you do when you walk to a girl is state your intentions. Ask her if she has a boyfriend before you continue.
     
  13. webwars

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    Females lie too (some far more than us guys), so even if you ask her if she has a boyfriend or ever flirt with her she could still hold back that fact if she has a boyfriend or not - especially if she's finding you interesting and hard to resist. In this case she could just flirt, smile, look flirt and send mixed signals to you and this could end up just wasting your dayum time if she does have a boyfriend and is just playing games or whatever. So you have to do something to have to do something to "smoke the truth out". Something where she will be forced to to fess up or F'off!

    P.S. Even if you want to deal with her either way you still need to know whether or not she has a boyfriend so you'll know exactly what you're dealing with.
     
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    I have this great book you can read :p. Dealing with girls is a skill much like IM, I think some dudes are just more naturally in tune with women than others.
     
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    she has a boyfriend? tell her to find a better man.
     
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    lol, talk to her and after some time you'll know whether she has a bf or not! :p asking if she has bf or not is not lame dude! :D :p saves you a lot of effort and pain! :)
     
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    Escalate physically (sexual) early on and you will get your answer.
     
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    This is off-topic, but dude, your banner is fucking sick!
     
  20. StackinPaper714

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    def ask her, women are still flattered to know you're interested..