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Girlfriend - To leave, or to stay?

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  1. seo-addict

    seo-addict Regular Member

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    I know there's a million "girlfriend" threads on the forum, but I couldn't resist getting other BHW'er opinions on my situation. Little background about me - I am a high earner, I do $thousands/day & have a lot of cash saved up.

    I have been dating this chick for about 6 months, and living with her for 3 months. She lets me work whenever, and is generally a pretty cool girl. However, since I moved in, we have started to argue a lot, and the emotional stress ends up directly affecting my productivity. At once point I didn't get shit done for like 7 days, just sitting in front of the PC not able to focus. When I lived alone, I didn't have to deal with this and was able to get a lot more work done.

    Well, I finally told her that I wanted to move out... and of course she said if I do, it's automatically the end of the relationship.

    So, my options are look for another downtown apartment, move on, and get back to hustling/hanging out with friends etc.

    OR

    Stay here, have virtually no bills because it's so cheap, save up more cash, deal with the stress & do my best to press forward.

    ... I like the girl, but in all honesty, I don't think I could see myself marrying her. :/
    And yea I know, I moved in way too soon -- But we had known each other for years before we started "dating".

    What do you think BHW?
     
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    Why are you asking just get rid...

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  3. IamNRE

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    If you make thousands per day some domestic bills should not be an issue for you. It's strange that you even consider it as a 'bonus'. IMO you should move on if the nerve wrecking battles are common - it will only get worse.
     
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  5. seo-addict

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    Lol - You want a pic of my girlfriend or my earnings?
    Her ass is maybe 9/10 but overall she's probably a 7/10...


     
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    if you are not comfortable dump her... but dont take too long to do so
     
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  7. seo-addict

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    It's not every day you meet a chick that lets you work whenever and isn't needy... if it was a needy girl bugging me about work it would be an easy decision.

     
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    'm sorry mate but when you said to her that you want to move out - its pretty much ended isnt it...
     
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    Let's here more does she smoke or prefer to suck!
     
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    what do you mean "She lets me work whenever"? why do you need her permission?
    and if you are making all this money, why cant you pay $500/month for a studio?
    something doesn't sound right here.
    if it were me, I would dump the bitch right away.
     
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    when it comes to chicks, never have 2 minds. you either stay or leave and find another one. 2 minds will kill you, ruin productivity, and you will end up as a total wreck
     
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    She smokes & great in bed - bit of a nympho at times can be annoying though...

    $thousands/day isn't enough for me, I won't slow down until I have $1mil+ Cash in the bank.

     
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    I'd leave if I were you, only because:

    You rated her ass. You're 6 months into a relationship and rating your girlfriend on a scale from 1 to 10.

    Get out of the relationship and start earning money again.
     
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    We need more does she take it up the ass too!
     
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    Both, GF and earning pics, if possible. :D

    Now, back to the original post.
    Well fellow addict, if you aren't sure of what to do, and came here for advice, that might mean something... ;)
    From the description you make of the relationship, I wonder why you are still together, and that's answer only you both can find.
     
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    ^^ i dont the OP rated his gfs ass but stating the size, us sizes:D
     
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    I can afford almost any apartment... I lived in one of the best & highest level apt in my city for 3+ years. I usually go for $1000-1500/month price range.

    Yea... that's probably what I'm going to do... But it's a pain in the ass to find a new place, have like 3 companies looking for me right now.

     
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  18. Razvan

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    I dont give a fuck about your relationship but i'm curious how you making thousands a day lol, seo , ppc ?
     
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    @Razvan thats not very nice is it?
     
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    SEO. Fired all my clients too, my revenue is now strictly from affiliate marketing ;)

     
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