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Girlfriend threads on BHW...

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by KeyzDT, Jul 6, 2011.

  1. KeyzDT

    KeyzDT Power Member

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    No not complaining about them. Actually I understand where they are coming from. It's easy to equate a "Blackhat mindset" to just about anything whether it be finding shortcuts to save time, thinking outside the box to solve a problem, or creating a type of system for yourself to accomplish a goal. Obviously the end game here is money but it's still the simple formula of BH'tting "A" to aquire "B". So while we are mainly here for funds occasional fun is the goal.

    a little background on me: 31yrs old and slept with 14 different girls. Technically double the average for men in the US although in this day and age that seems hard to believe but whatever.

    There is a technique I used that rarely fails to at least IMPROVE your chances of hooking up but it requires some nerve so if your new to talking to girls/virgin this might be tough at first however if you have played the field and have a few drinks in you try this out.

    the scene: a bar NOT club. too noisy and too many distractions. You actually want a decently lit bar/counter top where peoples voices can be heard and everyone can be seen regardless of where you are, Something like a sports bar. Obviosly you want ot be there when it is packed with many girls.

    what I do: locate the HOTTEST girl in the bar (everyone knows who she is but everyone pretends they dont). When you have a few drinks of liquid courage (and hopefully she does too) you are going to approach her. The goal is not to pick her up even though she thinks it is and more importantly...everyone watching you thinks it is. The goal is just that: to have everyone watching you talk to the hottest girl in the bar. SPECIFICALLY OTHER GIRLS. You may find this funny but girls will identify the hottest girl in the bar BEFORE guys do. why? simple: girls are I N S E C U R E. They want to see who the "threat" is ahahah. They play hard to get, make you approach them, and make the first move etc. all that because girs are insecure and rightully so...they're girls!

    So...when these girls are watching you say "Hello" to the queen they will actually be attracted to you more and actually be intimidated by you a bit too. Girls LOVE the fact that most guys are going to "shoot for the bottom" because its safe and you got a chance. "cold calling" the hotty. It rarely happens because chances are you wont score with her. hotties take time AND money in a lot of cases. just the way it is.

    If anything the hotty will be in awe that you actually have the balls to approach her ( I wish that was all it takes but no way hahaha) BUT chances are she will be polite and at least give you "the time of day" One thing I noticed about the most beautiful girl in the room...they ARE nice to everyone very rarely a bitch like that 8/10 on the other side of the room who you would totally bang too but she gets off on shooting guys down (she probably got burned and still hasnt gotten past it bitches are bitches and we dont call em bitches for no reason afterall).

    while you are talking to the queen with some chit chat like "I saw you over across the room just thought I say hi" or some generic shit like that keep calm and cool. Tell yourself your NOT trying to sleep with this chick you just want about 15-30 secs of lip service so that the other girls can see. this will calm you down. its thinking about how hot they are and how much we want to bang that makes us guys nervous. remember thats NOT the goal here so chill (then again if it happens you get the "SUPER GOAL UNEXPECTEDALY ACCOMPLISHED" badge of honor hahaha)

    This is where things get sneaky. At some point you want to have your phone out and refer to it so it LOOKS LIKE YOU ARE GETTING HER NUMBER. something like "I just got this new phone have you seen this its great!" (show some app or something. Act like its awesome even if its not. Dont worry she will be nice and pretend its awesome too.) We want the image of you holding your phone and her looking at the screen like your getting her number to broadcast out to EVERYONE. Of course you CAN actually ask for her number if you feel like she is digging you but DONT stay focuses on the goal or you will hear "sorry i have a boyfriend" and lose extra face time you could have had with her. I know. I couldnt resist the temptation a couple of times and got a sarcastic laugh or a polite sorry no and ended up cutting the convo short.

    get a good 30 secs in if you can but not too much. if she looks around or starts breaking eye contact with you your pushing it and its time to bail.

    ok so now its back to your friends circle in the bar. 2 things you will probably notice: A) you feel a strong "confidence rush" you just talked to the hottest girl in the bar and "survived" and B) other girls are checking you out, curious about you. Guys too. they probably want to know what your game is ha.

    girls will actually be more attracted to you if they saw that scene you just set up. remember: girls want what they cant have (I actually have gotten hit on by girls blatanly WITH my girlfriend present BECAUSE I have a girlfriend. Its sick but its true. Girls are like that) so in short you just elevated your social status in that bar IMMENSELY.

    I danced with the hottest chick in this clubbish bar (Lit up and playing rock not dark with annoying techno) and I HATE dancing but....other girls saw me dancing with the HOTTEST GIRL IN THE BAR SO THEY BECAME MORE ATTRACTED TO ME. She bailed shortly afterwards but several girls made eye contact with me after that and I got a number which later lead to a GF. how did I end up dancing with her? simply I strolled right up and said: "lets dance" she said "well Im kind of enjoying this drink" so I said "okay...I'll wait and just stood there looking at her emotionlessly (yes. bold). She probably thought I was a creep and gave me the dance to get rid of me but remember...not her I was after hahaha.

    so thats it really. You are essentially creating an illusion that you are good enough to fuck with the "hot chick" and in doing so become more attractive to the opposite sex.

    If anything think of it this way:

    You just talked to the hottest girl in the room....so you really think you are going to break a sweat over all these "leftover bitches" in the room?

    hahaha peace out and good luck

    K
     
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    SahL Elite Member

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    Casanova Conclusion: Being with Hot girls for sometime attract more girls to you ;) ... oh we didnt know that :rolleyes:
     
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  3. phluid

    phluid Power Member

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    14 girls at 31, So this works approx once a year? I could be wrong but I think there is no way that stat is right of most men only sleeping with 7 girls by the age of 31 unless when doing the poll they asked gay men how many women they had slept with. Or maybe everyone they asked had been in a lot of long term relationships.
     
  4. CYBERTRON

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    This is a number to brag about? hehehe

    Thats one semester in college my friend:3some:
     
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  5. t0mmy

    t0mmy Moderator Staff Member Moderator Jr. VIP

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    stupid tbh confidence and a sense of humour wins hands down trust me ;) and 14 girls at 31 is lame lol i'm 23 and had you beat long ago lol but i aint bragging i think most young people my age are the same now days, i now have a beautiful steady gf for the last year and i surely didnt use your technique lol
     
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    ahhahahaha... we already knew that hahahah
     
  7. hawke

    hawke Power Member

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    I was gonna say the same thing :)

    Confidence is key, and if you can make them laugh.... your golden :)
     
  8. timothywcrane

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    "14 girls at 31 is lame"

    I haven't counted, but for the last 14 years I have been with one that puts all of the other to shame, and no bar games for me to get a little whoopie...

    Now lets talk about how many times...

    With no looking, it make the multiplicity a cinch.
     
  9. hawke

    hawke Power Member

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    um... if you've been with only one girl for 14 years, you have nothing to compare her too :p

    Just sayin'.... so how do you know she puts the rest to shame?:p
     
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    timothywcrane Power Member

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    Because I lived many years more (and active ones at that) than the 14 I have been with her.
     
  11. Sombrero

    Sombrero Senior Member

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    I'm 18 and I still virgin (seriously). I'm trying to get rich until 24 to buy whores lol. Meh, I really want to fuck, I could date girls but time is money buddies, I want to get money and then fuck like a bull. Ya know! like a bull!
     
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    I feel like a whore....
     
  13. seocompanymail

    seocompanymail Regular Member

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    lol that is the funniest thing start showing her that your phone is cool and it does all this cool things.

    Me I usually just make them laugh and ease the tension then start telling them a stupid/funny thing that happened to me.

    If you really want to sleep with them then just ask them this and please if you are going to use this then give me some thanks/reps lol just kidding.

    Conversation (after introduction):
    You: Can I ask you something?
    Her: Sure....
    You: If there are three women sitting on a bench. One is licking an ice-cream. The other is bitting an ice-cream. The last one is gobbling the whole thing down.
    You: Which one is married?
    Her: The last one..I guess...
    You: The one with the ring on her finger but I like the way you think.
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  14. KeyzDT

    KeyzDT Power Member

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    I thought the number is low myself as I am not bragging and actually thought I was on the low side but no....apparently I'm above average.

    http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/1937421.../t/new-survey-tells-how-much-sex-were-having/

    never said I was bragging...I wonder if you are :rolleyes:

    they won't say "sure". Just ask the question. on second thought that shit is lame dont do it at all.....