GF Got Robbed

Man o man o man o man o man. So I get home yesterday to find that my gf was held at gunpoint and robbed last night. In our own home no less. The worst part? She was under the impression that she was letting friends of friends into the house, but when she confronted the friend he said he really did not know the mates well at all--that he was actually trying to remember who they were. Yet he told her specifically that this mate was a friend of his. I was mortified. Mates got out with $400 and our personal fun stash [ ], but more than that, they put a gun in her face. I want to kill them.

I mean they were some stupid mates too. They didn't the computers, the two portable dvd players that were sitting out in plain site, the two digital cameras [granted one was in its case], or the TVs. I can understand not taking the big stuff, but to not take the little things? lol. Makes me think her 'friend' [I always hated the guy myself] was in on it for something more because he is the one with the better idea of how much actual cash we have in our house at a given time. The mates even asked her where everything else was and she told them they had everything. In actuality, the good stuff was hidden and the $1,100+ they could have had was in a box that holds the ziploc bags lol [which they incidentally had picked up when they went to grab the bag of quarters and dimes my gf was collecting for her mother].

I have such a weird feeling over me. I don't know what to do. What direction to take. I just feel like I'm in daze and running around like a chicken with my head cut off. I just don't want to do anything today. I did come into the office and I feel bad for that, but I just did not know what to do. I made sure a mate that I do trust was there with her, but I couldn't just be at home. Funny though-- I didn't want to be at home cause I didn't want to be doing nothing [wanted to occupy myself as best possible] but now that I'm at work, I don't want to do anything. :/

My gf says she is ok but I can't get a read on her. I don't know what to do. :/ I'm a 5'2 and 3/4 chick that hates guns. Even though she wanted one in the house, I was always against it. Now I'm reconsidering. :/

I hope she is ok I was in a bank when it got robbed its not something you forget. At least no one was hurt.

Man, I'm sorry to hear this. It would piss me off beyond reason. I had my vehicle broken into a couple years ago and they stole speakers and cd players and shoes and about $1000 worth of stuff total. That feeling was unexplainable, but I can't even imagine the feeling you have because of a gun being involved and the well-being of a loved one. The whole gun-in-the-house debate is a can of worms in itself, but things could have went way different if there was one.

Did you call the cops?

Guns Guns Guns, everyone needs it

uhm...assuming she HAD a gun...how do you think it woul've gone then...


Guys come in house...surprise GF and pull gun, demand money
GF: "Oh wait guys!! Let me just quickly get the gun.."
Guys: "Ok, but hurry up."
GF: "Be right back with gun. Don't go away please!"


What i want to say is..that in this particular situation a gun in the house wouldnt been of much use.

DESPITES:..its its FOOLISH to "counter-attack" some robbers with a gun...you fvcking risk your LIFE over some change or some digital camera? Yeah right, pull your gun on them if TEHY pull their gun on YOU: Very, very intelligent solution

blackhaze said:

uhm...assuming she HAD a gun...how do you think it woul've gone then...


Guys come in house...surprise GF and pull gun, demand money
GF: "Oh wait guys!! Let me just quickly get the gun.."
Guys: "Ok, but hurry up."
GF: "Be right back with gun. Don't go away please!"


What i want to say is..that in this particular situation a gun in the house wouldnt been of much use.

DESPITES:..its its FOOLISH to "counter-attack" some robbers with a gun...you fvcking risk your LIFE over some change or some digital camera? Yeah right, pull your gun on them if TEHY pull their gun on YOU: Very, very intelligent solution

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I agree with you in the fact that if the g/f had a gun with her it would have been useless in this situation.

However, guns in general are not useless at all.

A LOT of robbers come into a house with the intention to kill everyone in it, then take all of the money, electronics, etc. So guns could be the difference between life and death. Or better yet, what if a hit man was hired to find and kill you?

If someone came into my house, let's say in the middle of the night, and I heard him, I would grab my guns and do my best to kill the enemy. You never know what intentions someone has, they could be there to kill my whole family (and kids, if I had some). That's not a risk I'm willing to take. Get yourself a good lawyer and be completely honest with police, and you'll be fine.

Also, I highly recommend a CCW. Having guns in the car is invaluable if somebody with road rage were to come after you. Most people don't have guns and you automatically win any situation.

Always always always always call the police as well. If they know you did what you could to rectify the situation with police, then the situation is no longer as bad as what it could have been.

I feel for you in this situation man. If someone were to rob my gf or anybody I know, I would want their head on a silver platter.

The friend was in on it. Someone semi-close is always in on it.

Anytime you're jacking druggery you don't take electronics or anything that will be reported to the cops.

What I would do is, get that gun, get that "friend", make him remember, go rob them.

Get that gun, but also an early warning system. Cameras, alarm, better locks.

And Make Sure She Locks The Door!

I used to take part in this extreme blackhat method, if you can't tell...

It's all part of the drug game, get used to it or get out.

That sucks.

But, you should be able to get the cops involved, your GF can have the pussy sent to jail, get the money back, and sue for the emotional distress. It's clear that somebody knows him and all so get his ass in jail.

Just say they stole the cash. Nobody will believe the drugs weren't his to begin with.

yeah, go for cops. if they don't do anything, you can make it personal.

I'd personally fuck there lives up. My girl (well, ex "technically") is my world, and if anything ever happened to her, blood would be spilled without a thought.

Sucks that it happened, but it could of gone alot worse so i'd be looking on the brightside. Although thats *ALOT* easier to say than do =[

Hope you're ok dude