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getting kicked out of my house.. lol

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by imontie, Jan 18, 2011.

  1. imontie

    imontie Junior Member

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    well me and my dad have been fighting a lot recently and he's been yelling at my mom a lot and finally we just had one final blow up. he decided that i'm going to have to start paying rent (i'm 19) so i said okay. i'm about to get up and leave in like 15 minutes. i'm making okay money selling websites, about 300 a week and i can do that from anywhere. but the potential for me making more is definitely there it just is taking some time. the biggest problem is that my dad has the title to my car (it has my name on it, but he paid for some of it). idk what's gonna happen there.
     
  2. Kickflip

    Kickflip BANNED BANNED

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    Where are you going to go? Make sure you have internet access.
     
  3. imontie

    imontie Junior Member

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    i can stay with friends for a little while. there are rooms on craigslist that i can get for cheap month by month. i will, there are free wifi places all over and i'm taking my laptop with.
     
  4. isaiahz

    isaiahz Junior Member

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    Don't stress about it...I've seen people that loose their job...they are destroyed on the inside and cry and stress so much about it. Too much stress on the body causing sickness....
    They couldn't find any work so they were forced to start their own business...they are now worth millions of dollars....
    If they would have not have lost their job..they would still be there today...like a machine not advancing...

    Our blessings sometime come when we least expect them....

    Stay up....
     
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  5. negligence

    negligence Regular Member

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    Those CraigsList ads are just me...

    And we require you to do a background check first ;)
     
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  6. mrmmarketing

    mrmmarketing Newbie

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    Hey
    Sorry to hear about you family problems it seems the family can just put you in the worst positions. As far as your car I wouldn't worry about it if you live in an area with wifi all over then there is public transportation all over to! But seriously look at it this way real life sells so the first thing I would do is brand your self put your struggle out there show how you have succeeded with website flipping give a free pdf out the make your own system and hell well probably see you on early morning tv next year along side of anthony morrison or who ever that gonna make you a millionaire for selling my credit card affiliate links is.Hell if you need help setting that up let my know sounds like money to me.
     
  7. englandrm

    englandrm Senior Member

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    Try trading a website for an apartment. I just traded one for a beach house for a month. Talk about how professional a website looks, and mention SEO.
     
  8. ctwain

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    LOL..... trade website for sex...
     
  9. pirondi

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    Life is not easy,it is like a battlefield.

    But just as a battlefield the bigger the lost,the bigger will be the knowledge that you will adquire.

    The most important think is to not lost your will..

    Just deal with this like a challenge,the only way to move forward is to not lost the courage and will...
     
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  10. xboxps3wow

    xboxps3wow Power Member

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    I almost got kicked out a couple of times... but i have the same problem.. my car is my dad's name and I can't afford to buy a new car and rent at the same time.. so im saving some money and then moving out.. another problem for me is that rent is fucking expensive in chicago :(
     
  11. imontie

    imontie Junior Member

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    that's actually a good idea. who would i offer the website service to though... realtors??

    thanks for the support though guys. the hardest part is goign to be figuring out where to stay in the beginning. i don't really have THAT much money lol
     
  12. holduphehe

    holduphehe Newbie

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    move at my place :p
     
  13. goins

    goins Regular Member

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    You just gotta think this might be a good push for you to want to work harder. We dont work at full potential all the time when we have what we need.
     
  14. terry56

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    Sorry to hear about your situation. Please dont think it's the end of the world.

    My wife had something like that at 19 years old. She got pregnant and her Dad kicked her out within one day. The baby was still born, and so he felt like an idiot for his actions.

    Maybe not now, but sometime in the future you and your Dad may be good friends again.

    He must be under a lot of stress with money right now, so take that into account, as I am sure when you get married and have a Family, you will be worried about how to take care of your dependents.

    Life aint a bowl of cherries all the time. Sometimes you have to eat grapes :)
     
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    how are you selling websites now? How are you finding clients? If you could improve on that, then you could easily do more than $300/wk.
     
  16. blackhataffiliate

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    Be praying for ya. Life is hard right now on a lot of people and your dad is probably stressed. Before I started doing IM and struck out on my own, I was the same way with my wife and son. Dont take it personally and do what you got to do to survive. Stay with friends and take any job to eat and pay the bills. Then work at night and start building your business reinvesting all or the majority if you can't afford all. Before long, you will be banking enough to live and then you can start doing IM/design full time.

    How much you charge for design work? Might have a project for you.

    Good luck
     
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  17. meathead1234

    meathead1234 Moderator Staff Member Moderator Premium Member

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    PM me your email. I'll fire across a copy of my old flipping ebook... should be able to scale up that $300/wk quickly.
     
  18. yousefgreat

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    Hard times like these usually end up leading you to great success... Since you are making 300 a week, you probably have enough money to rent a room. Make sure you have internet access. You will be finally working in peace and unleashing your full potential :)

    I have been there bro!
     
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    If you're really stuck for a place to stay you should try couchsurfing.org
     
  20. imontie

    imontie Junior Member

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    idk if it's just me but i can't PM anyone lol it won't load on my phone or on my computer.

    i think it's time i get my ass in gear and start cold calling