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[GET] My solitude - Today is my birthday

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by zx123, Jul 22, 2012.

  1. zx123

    zx123 Senior Member

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    Today is my 31 birthday. I am very sad. I am alone. Probably this is the worst birthday I've ever done.
    Sorry for the post.
     
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  2. lilmasta

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    Happy birthday mate , dont be sad :)
    GOD Bless you
     
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  3. zoyaraymonds

    zoyaraymonds Regular Member

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    Hey don't feel alone BHW is with u all the time.

    Happy b'day..
     
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  4. smmexpert

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    Happy Birthday Mate.
     
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  5. Duffers5000

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    Happy Birthday !.....you need to read Mcnastys guide to getting................Never be alone again !

    Have a good one solitude is under rated
     
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    happy bday matey, can i ask you to do something? just leave your pc/laptop and come out of your house and go for a drive, have a drink - trust me it helps mate.

    Regards,
     
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    So you are 31.

    Happy birthday!!!



    and I have one question:
    Why do you live?
     
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  10. WizGizmo

    WizGizmo Super Moderator Staff Member Premium Member

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    Happy Birthday zx123:

    No need to be sad. You have friends right here on BHW.

    Happiness is a choice . . . It's up to you. :)

    Here's an idea . . . Find a children's hospital and cheer
    up some kids who are very ill or who are dying of
    cancer. I guarantee that when you walk out of that
    place, you will have a new attitude and be more
    grateful for your life. Plus, you will feel much better
    about yourself. :)

    Cheers! - Your Pal - "Wiz"
     
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  11. xTiger

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    Happy birthday. we all go through bad and lonely times i hope everything will work out for you.
    Be grateful for life, choose to be happy :)
     
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    Don't turn inward but turn outward! Reach out to others, make those connections because going it alone is quite a slog!
     
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  13. jazzc

    jazzc Moderator Staff Member Moderator Jr. VIP

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    Happy birthday!

    Don't worry, the yoke makes us strong!

    When you hit rock bottom, the only way is up. Use your desire to change as fuel to success (in anything)!
     
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  14. zx123

    zx123 Senior Member

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    Yes I need to go up. My love story of 10 years was end in may... now with her I lost everything :(
    I hope to get back with her, I dont think that after 10 years a love end because at 31 years old I dont married her. I want, but the economic situation is not good at moment
     
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    Happy 31st Bday! Hope you have a great one!

    Dont worry, just keep doing what you're doing. Soon you'll be free from all financial difficulties. Dont give up!
    Goodluck to you :)
     
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    The best way to look it at is to realize that if you are involved in life, i.e. engaged in IM and with people, all of that can turn around with a message or the smile of a pretty girl! The key is to stay engaged and to be involved with life. We have all been there and most of manage to muddle along waiting for the moment to change or if you more proactive change the moment yourself!
     
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    DUDE, Don't be sad.
    There's nothing shameful or embarassing being alone or in solitude, whether is it during your birthday or going out, .etc
    Don't compare your life with others. There's nothing wrong and be happy with who you are.
    I do have friends but I, myself, prefers to be alone most of the time.

    And happy birthday! You have us :) :D
    So just pig out and enjoy, man! Call the pizza-man or KFC delivery or any fast food delivery... just pig out! Or if you prefer to go out, just go any restaurant or bar and enjoy!

    And adopt a pet (Cat or Dog), they do make you feel awesome :D

    P.S: I believe you're a person of above-average intelligence :)
     
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  18. chapter2

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    Happy birthday, man!

    Don't be sad, I'm sure you can find a way out of this. If the money is what's stopping you from getting back with her (the economic situation you mention), then find something profitable to do, and work, work like a maniac, don't waste time depressing yourself and going back into the past, just keep working and thinking about what you're doing to fix your situation. :)
     
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    Happy birthday my friend. We are all with you.
     
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  20. shadowmk

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    Happy BD, and dont be sad, ;-)