Have you ever wondered why some people seem to have all the success while others struggle for years and never seem to get anywhere? Are you one of those who always seem to struggle? Below are some hints on you can become one of those who achieve success. *Try stepping outside your comfort zone once in a while. Great things come to pass when you make friends with your discomfort zone. *Don't be afraid to make mistakes. There is an old saying that people who haven't made mistakes haven't made anything. Make mistakes and learn from them. *Be aware of any negative thoughts you hold about yourself - challenge them, are they really true, if so what is the evidence? Are you giving yourself a hard time? *Make an effort to try and look on the bright side of things. Purposely find something positive about the issue and focus on that. You can almost always see another side of things. It just depends where your bias is. *Read some good uplifting books, *Train yourself to finish what you start. Follow through - you owe it to yourself and others. *Focus on the present moment. When you live in the past too much you stop living now. *Learn what is important to you in life - is it love? Is it money? Is it your family? What do you love doing? Who/what makes you happy? *Realize that setbacks and knocks are just a normal part of life. If life were brilliant all the time we would take it for granted and not appreciate it. *Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could.. Tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense.