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Found out my Mom has Stage 3 Lung Cancer

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by ibmethatswhoib, Nov 20, 2012.

  1. ibmethatswhoib

    ibmethatswhoib Jr. VIP Jr. VIP Premium Member

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    Not sure why I'm telling an IM forum but wanted to vent and let people know not to take your love ones for granted. Sounds like stage 3 is incurable and not much we can do but fight what we can. Enjoy your time with family and friends cause you never know what can happen, also try and quit the smoking if you can, this is what got her here.
     
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    Sorry to hear that buddy :( Will pray for your mom and let's God bless her... If you need something or want to talk with someone PM me I'll give you my skype

    Regards
    Petko
     
  3. NoobGuru

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    Damn.Im very sorry,it must be the most horrific feeling. I hope the best for her,just never give up man,she will need your support now than ever is the time to man up.Its understandable though if your angry thats only natural,just try and get passed it.I remember when my friends mom got cancer he was really depressed but thank god she managed to pull through,Im not sure what stage cancer it was but I remember she needed bone marrow.All he could do though is be there for her which is the most important thing.
     
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    Whatever happens I hope that you will stay strong, family is all we have, family is all that matters. I always tell my parents I love them, sometimes even a few times a day.

    My prayers are with you.
     
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    My heart goes out to you and your family Fam. If either you or your Mother are the least bit receptive
    or curious about alternative health practices, now is the time.

    All the best.
     
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    Really sorry to hear that hope she pulls through my thoughts and prayers are for you all.
     
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    Be strong and supportive - it 's very hard but it 's the best thing you can do for your family and you will feel relief in the future for doing the best in the worst of times.

    I hope everything turns out well for you no matter how slim the chance.
     
  8. AnotherOne

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    I am sorry to hear that sad news but nothing is impossible/incurable no matter what doctor or science said. One of my relative was given 6 months time to live from doctors 8 years ago, they said he'll die after that (I don't remember the disease but it has something to do with lungs) but Alhamdullilah he's still alive.

    Try your best to spend time with her, make her happy and help her in fighting that disease. My prayers are with your mom.
     
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    Sorry to hear that bro. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your mom.
     
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    All my prayers to your mom. Keep your faith strong bro and keep helping her in this fight , don't let sadness feed the cancer.
     
  11. bigkapp

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    Sorry too hear that ibmethatswhoib , I know how you must feel having a close family member being sick. Hope she over comes it and feels better soon.
     
  12. dunhill

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    Mate..

    Try to get 4life transfer factor .. It's good to "cure" cancer. Try to check it..
     
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    I'm sorry to hear that man. Your mother will be in my prayers.
     
  14. roxiea90

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    sorry to hear that,
    i couldnt imagine if this things happen to me..
    i love my mother so much..
    im doing this just for my family..
    yeah love your family and make a lot of good memories with them..
     
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    My Prayers are with you and your mom, keep your faith and help her fighting that disease.
     
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    I lost my MOM to cancer which was too bad.. She was miles away from anything that can be a cause.. Its our Ill-fate which takes them there.. I miss her bad.. REAL BAD.. :(

    Be Strong
     
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  17. JimmyWong

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    I'm truly sorry to hear this. Fight that demon head on with all you have and stay strong for her. My thoughts are with you all.
     
  18. Madruga

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    :( I feel sorry for you man, I really do. I still hope that there will be a miracle or such, just try do some reasearch about stage 3 survivors. But besides that, try to make your mom feel like she did a good job and left behind a wonderful kid like you (no matter if you have 20 years old or 40, you are still a kid for her and always will be) as grown up man that knows what he wants to do from his life and such.

    Now I shouldn't say this, yet I will because I know it will help you. In case if the thing will happen and I hope it won't, but in case it will, I hope you have a gf or you will make one. It will help you much more to move on.

    I sometimes imagine what will be like when my parents will go away, but even if I think about it, I can't realize this as a real event that one day will happen.

    Stay strong! Find something to fill your time besides IM as well. Go to the gym or something, like do something new. I won't mention why and such for all the advices I gave you, because it would take me too much time to write and take your time to read it all, but everything I wrote above is strongly sustained by important factors.

    I never did this, like pray for another person I don't know, but I promise I will do this for you and your mom.
     
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    I'm sorry about the bad news, I also lost my mom for the same problem but since then I've learned some things. First of all I must tell you that you must fight for your mom until the last second, never give up fighting. You must help her psycaly and morally keep her positive and strong, this is very IMPORTANT. The development of the cancer cells is based on " SUGAR ( GLUCOSE )" is like the fuel for the car, more sugar you give them, more quicker is the development. They multiply and form tumors through the blood, normaly a person with cancer has a <5 PH also called " ACID PH ". Your mother's body needs oxygen, big dosis of organic multivitamins specially ( Vitamin C 100x times more than healthy person ) & minerals. The traditional medicine " Quemo Therapy, Radio Therapy " will destroy even more her inmune system, the nature have the cure. Please search about this on G00gle you will find tons of documents, document yourself. Read about PH, Sodium Bicarbonate, Organic Vitamins & Minerals etc. And the most importand thing of all PRAY GOD, He will help you.
     
  20. marusia

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    Sorry to hear that and wishing the best for your family.