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FML: 20 YRS having a Debt, No Work, being depressed, living in a vicious circle.

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by manistar, Oct 30, 2013.

  1. manistar

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    Hi Guys,

    I am here to share my personal feelings and hope someone of you has really good suggestion and or tips for me.

    I am 20 years old, living in the netherlands, having a debt of approx $3500.- no work, extremely depressed and unable to find my way out of this vicious circle, to the light.

    why? well' every day is the same bullshit, sleep - school, 4 more theoretical years to go. this and some serious tragic situations in my personal life has made me so depressed that I am thinking about suicide, really (although that, ofc not having the balls to do so.. but its a very bad mindset) normally I am a strong person but at this point I need help I can't tell what kind of help. I am not asking for money or something I need advice.

    Its the vicious circle, every day all of again its the same shit for me, looking for work getting rejected because there is none or 500 others applying for a simple part time job.

    Normally I am not sharing my feelings with anyone, I just can't stand it anymore BHW feels safe for me. I am normally a very open person and have a lot of friends but not that kind of friends where I can talk about this therefore I kindly ask for you help.

    Yep, I have been using the search button and this might not be the correct forum for this but you guys always have been so helpful and kind that I cannot resist to not just try and see where you guys come up with.

    please dont come up with that standard advice start a page, cpa, ppd blabla no guys, no its not about money but how I can live.
    my life again. pls help me find the light! im tired of my existence like how it is now.

    Please guys please...
     
  2. irfanrufi123

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    Well read some methods and start the work dude, and get ready to be bashed there are lots of haters as well here
     
  3. ipodtouchhackerisher

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    Wishing you luck, you have come to the right place. Put in work, dont give up, results will shows.
     
  4. Exaalion

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    Success is inevitable if you keep getting back up.
    The differential of somebody winning and losing nothing has to do with their current situation, or their potential.

    You're supposed to feel the pain and struggle you've never felt before, because it''s supposed to be that way.. it's life.

    Stop talking about it on forums and spend your time DOING something about it.

    The fact that you are here asking for advice IS the reason why you ended up as you are. You thought of suicide, that's as weak as you can go.

    Don't look for work, create your own. You were born alone, why work for others?

    You will never pay your 3.5k debt that way. I'm 18, and I've been where you are multiple times, but never in your mindset. If I can get out of it, so can you because not much differentiates us . If everyday is the same then you aren't doing anything different, how do you expect to change?
     
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  5. Rua999

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    ^^^

    Well said.. couldn't have put it better
     
  6. drei29

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    You can read some journey threads here and I'm sure you will learn a lot of methods but the important thing is that you take ACTION.

    Goodluck with your success OP.
     
  7. dreamyblue

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    Hey Manistar,

    Do you think this the right place for talking about all of this? You may register to another kind of forum to find a solution.

    This being said, if you feel depressed because you owe money and if this debt is the reason why you are dep, well hombre, it's not that important. Do you owe this $$ to a new jersey italian family? Well, I doubt it. F*** yer bank and student loan.

    Let's talk now about making fast money. Sorry mate. You came here trying to find a solution. Let me telle you that fast money does not exist, money means sweat, every black hat head here have worked a lot to master the processes. Money won't come in 15 days unfortunately.

    My tip is the following : change you way of thinking. You may read some interesting ebooks like "think and grow rich" of napoleon hill. A lot of wisdom to change one's mind and to start a happier life.

    Suerte,

    DB
     
  8. SnakePliskin

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    For every time you're knocked down, make it one more time you stand back up. Persistence is the key to your problem. Fight for those jobs. Learn how to design graphics or websites and offer those services. You have many options, don't give up.
     
  9. TheRealRazzy

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    you are crying for a debt of only $3500 ?

    ask your parents to help you, if you should have not taken debt then you might not have to see this day.

    you are on bhw since may 2012 and still crying for debt of $3.5k you might have got out of it until now.

    -=-
     
  11. mdsurf

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    sorry to who this offends but I fucking hate these threads.

    man the fuck up and do something about it. no one can change your life but YOU. you want to sit here on bhw and bitch all day that's fine but it's not going to get you anywhere.

    you joined this forum a year and a half ago and you obviously haven't taken action or tried anything. you have no one to blame but yourself for either your successes or your failures.

    there are people in this forum from countries like india and pakistan that are making bank and here you are attending college in the netherlands and you still have the nerve to bitch.
     
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  12. christianbed

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    Depression: see a doctor, it could be that you have a chemical imbalance that could be easily solved with something simple as a Prozac prescription.
    *Also, clean your room/flat today...seriously. Many depressed people feel a loss of control over their environment, and cleaning one's personal space is a great way to remind yourself that you are in control.
    *Go for a nice, long walk. Or, if you're in decent shape, exercise a bit. Make it a game: 'when i start telling myself negative thoughts, i'm going to do 10 pushups.' This way you substitute something positive for the negative, and you also become more aware of the negative thought patterns this way.

    Making money: I'll send you a pm with an easy method.

    Finally, keep this in mind:
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  13. derggt

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    Might I suggest lots and lots of drugs...

    $3.5 K is nothing. I owe something like 20 times that amount- I've lost track- and honestly couldn't give two shits. It's just money. Life is all about perception. If you have your health, that is what is important.
     
  14. jem001

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    never give up! If there's darkness, there's light! The almighty creator provides the way to the light! this light shall put all darkness a thing of the past!
     
  15. spmcnerd

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    Take steroids and start a journey! jp

    Take care of your business and get help in person if you feel like you cant hang.

    I prefer bathsalts. again...
     
  16. codexehow

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    Read The New Psycho-Cybernetics, it will change your life. You can find it online if you can't afford it right now.

    Read it. Trust me.
     
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    I know how it feels. I've been there before, probably worse than you, but it things got better for me now. Just do whatever you can to makes you feels better.

    If it is money that you need, go find one. By combining the method you mention, "start a page, cpa, ppd", you can already achieved at least $30/day in less than 1 month. I knew it because I've tried it. If you need a friends to talk with, you're a college student, go get some friends! If you have a health problems, go seek a doctor!
     
  18. xpresstechnologies

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    Hi Manistar,
    Iam Also Like you in first asking advice,But i had got the answers to search for my method,i know about cpa,ppd,seo,... so i concentrate in all methods but not full in anything i just know the basics of them so i cant make monkey after ill tried to concentrate in 1 method and now my problem is solved in finding my journey,try to concentrate in any one fields that you can.No body will spoon feed here,many of the pupils try their own methods and their ideas and no one is willing to give their methods.So Concentrate in any 1 solid method at first and surely you can make a lot.
     
  19. mickyfu

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    $3500? Lol that is nothing, I have owed over £20, 000 for the past 10 years and have no intentions in the slightest of paying it. I could pay it easy if I wanted to, but there is not much point when they can actually do fk all about the money other than send me letters. Don't let debts get you down, it is not worth it.
     
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  20. forethan

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    Find a girlriend and make a baby.
    Your life will be better after that.
    If you want to be happy, you musn't run behind money but run to hapiness.
    And in no way money will have a positive effects on you.
    Try to read napoleon hill and you will think good.