hello, I bought something from this guy on ebay. After I paid, I asked him a simple question: The shipping is so high, can you ship by ups ground instead of 2nd day air, and charge me less? He got all pissed off and refunded me and said "I dont have time for this" and he relisted for a higher price, so I guess he was using that as a excuse to sell for higher. now i am pissed. I want to destroy this guys reputation on ebay. Any safe way to do this without getting my account suspended?