Don't ever get married

I know a little about being married at one time and then not being married due to divorce.

The sooner you lose the bitterness, no matter how much it costs you in terms of emotional distress and money, the better off you and your children will be.

OP - you mentioned your children will be fine because they are teenagers. Hopefully they will be but do not think for 1/2 a second this will not affect them so be sure to address that however you and they interact.
Words of a wise man. Kudos man!

I'm sorry that happened, I wish you the best of luck in your future endeavors. Please don't hate on all women because of that, they are as miserable as us man, I had a similar experience and now I've been together for 2 years with a wonderful woman, who also happened to hate men before me.
Ah thats the dream, man. Dream sold!
 
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I don't think most people bother getting married these days. In the UK you are considered an outcast at school these days if you don't have two step brothers a step sister or two and seven stepdads. Whereas when I was a kid, you was considered an outcast if your parents were separated.

I think it shows times are changing. Well certainly in the UK.
Are you also considered an outcast if your kid's stepmom was as young as your kid's friends?

I have been married twice. Both marriages were great while they lasted, but things change and people move on.

Now my new motto is: "A different day, a different wife." It keeps things interesting that way. :)
When is the next wedding bro?
 
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you still lost bro if she taking a penny of your income bro you have to understand that this girls is narcissistic as fuck she probably is lost if i had a wife for that long i would teach her about spirituality because maybe then she would have some morals but the way she acting is because you triggered something in her subconscious and her hoe friends are probably out there sucking cock you honestly dont know but anyway you can make the money back but i look at it like throwing money off a building because she obviously spending the money on her self. anyway reddit.com/r/theredpill(the material there apply for both men and women)has a lot of content that will help you find a better wife and this time i recommended actually teaching her like what i would do with my wife is. read about the shit test part thats very important you probably kept on failing her shit tests.

i would help her induce an ego death then she will have this intelligence from another place after that she'll be more aware of her actions and will actually be long term relationship material.
Finally someone talks about the red pill. Yup, totally true.

I have heard people say "Marriage is a great institution", but they forget that federal prisons and mental hospitals are also called "institutions." :)
Hey, at least, you also get to get sex at prison, man.
 
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you still lost bro if she taking a penny of your income bro you have to understand that this girls is narcissistic as fuck she probably is lost if i had a wife for that long i would teach her about spirituality because maybe then she would have some morals but the way she acting is because you triggered something in her subconscious and her hoe friends are probably out there sucking cock you honestly dont know but anyway you can make the money back but i look at it like throwing money off a building because she obviously spending the money on her self. anyway reddit.com/r/theredpill(the material there apply for both men and women)has a lot of content that will help you find a better wife and this time i recommended actually teaching her like what i would do with my wife is. read about the shit test part thats very important you probably kept on failing her shit tests.

i would help her induce an ego death then she will have this intelligence from another place after that she'll be more aware of her actions and will actually be long term relationship material.
Triggered something into her subconscious, like what? I am always interested into psychology and why people cheat or change behaviour so if you could develop more so that I may learn something new...
 
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Finally someone talks about the red pill. Yup, totally true.
The red pill gave me abilities to fuck bitches before i was a hopeless fucker.

Triggered something into her subconscious, like what? I am always interested into psychology and why people cheat or change behaviour so if you could develop more so that I may learn something new...

you know when someone says something and you immediate react with anger? That is your subconscious speaking for you. Im someone who only thinks with my subconscious because i developed the ability to discern whats an illusion. well actually this whole reality is a well planned out joke.
 
Dude, you are too weak. You are not true blackhatter if you can read a full thread about relationships advice in an internet marketing forum.
Someone's got to make money and make people money.

At the same time though, it is rough. Reading through a bit of it, suffering is suffering amiright?
 
Because if you then end up getting divorced, it's Hell.

And women can bear a grudge and be nasty far better than we can.

As you can tell, I'm getting divorced, and I'm as miserable as flip with it all :(

Hope you're not in Arizona with kids, bro. Hell, or any other "mother State" for that matter. Keep your head up. Eventually it'll land between two gloriously majestic mounds and you will be able to ride that motorboat to happiness and FREEDOM!
 
i do not agree with anyone of you here , who say getting married is not good. You people might be unlucky to not find the women you can love without her physical appearance for which testosterone should be blamed.

Marriage is just a attachment invented by society to keep you slave to them. Married man works harder then normal person , because he has his kids and wife in mind whom he has to take care of. (which is our string and we are puppets)

Anyways good luck to you
 
Thanks for all your input good people of BHW.

I don't know if it's the cathartic effect of moaning like fuck to a load of strangers on a forum, or reading the red pill stuff yesterday, but....

Today I feel 1000% better and so will now STFU about my problems and get back to making some money, and I hope you all make a shit ton of money too.

Peace out (and good luck in your own romatic endeavours).
 
Thanks for all your input good people of BHW.

I don't know if it's the cathartic effect of moaning like fuck to a load of strangers on a forum, or reading the red pill stuff yesterday, but....

Today I feel 1000% better and so will now STFU about my problems and get back to making some money, and I hope you all make a shit ton of money too.

Peace out (and good luck in your own romatic endeavours).

Good luck on your endeavors man. These days it is very difficult to hope in the "happy ending" feeling and have it actually come somewhat true. I've been through the same situation (only difference being we aren't married and most likely will never be now) whereas she was out with her 2 other cousins and 3 other single men. She went out to have a drink and was blowing my phone up, up until she got too drunk and the "phone died". Didn't have a phone call until 9am the next morning claiming she just came in the house and went to sleep without putting the phone on the charger. Could be true, or it could be another one of her compulsive lies to keep me around.

It is instances like these where I feel as a man you should just be strong and alert in mind and reluctant in committed relations because even though everyone is not the same, most people will continuously exhaust their free will to do whatever they feel at the cost of your caring feelings. In today's time, restraint and self-control and understanding have been replaced with narcissism and self fulfilling agendas. That is why I made it crucial to just focus on our two children and my business ventures and accumulation because I've come to the realization that I don't have the tolerance for these little hypocritical narcissistic mind games that people like to play. It is tiring and exhaustive. You only have ONE life to live and enjoy and you'll never even know when your time is up. People will have you playing with them and as soon as they see the actual one they desire they will immediately change to be who they were supposed to be. Or they'll just never change. But YOU can change YOU and your reactions.
 
And these are the threads I didn't miss while I was gone.

The more things change, the more they stay the same. :rolleyes:
 
just left my girlfriend of 7 years.. she was whining for 2 days straight. I had enough and actually left.. Dunno what to do now.
 
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