Hey guys, what's up : )) long time no see.... :music: I've come up with a decision in my mind, just now... Well, if you know, I'm that kind of person who helps his friends, anytime, but I guess I should stop. I have many friends but a few closest ones, one of them, whom I love the most asked me for help, he wants me to buy a new notebook for him, he doesn't get computer stuff etc etc.. I gladly said "no problem", yesterday we were browsing some computer websites, choosing etc ... Just a few minutes ago, I texted him "Did your father already give you money for a new computer?" and here's the message I got back from him "You've got two days left, than we'll go to buy one"... Hm... WHAT THE FUCK?! This message means "Yea, search, find, come with me and buy it for me"... You may think it's just an accident and I don't have to pay any attention but no, unfortunately NO! The ones I help (even the kindests) start to act arrogant and play an important person. I'd never think that things would turn this way, I kept thinking "Don't ignore him, he's your friend, help him", as I can see now, too much help harms, keeps you arrogant and turns you into a disgusting person, or am I wrong ? The one I was talking about is the most credulous and childish person I've ever met but even he could become a person like that. When I think about it, my self-esteem goes down damn it, I'm close to the thought that I have to act a little arrogant and say "No, some other time" when they ask for help, right ? Any advises ? Thanks, xrumering.