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Do yourself a favor, tell the truth.

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  1. Buzzika

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    an average person lies often, sometimes just to please others, sometimes to avoid an uncomfortable situation.

    i have had my fair share of white lies. it has only slowed me down. Your life becomes a constant loop of pretending to be someone you're not. Pretending to conform to the idea of what others think how you should be. Tell them who you really are.

    You will be much closer to your dreams if you adopt an approach of radical honesty in life. I am still learning the ropes. I grew up in a family and culture where there was script laid out for me, deviation from the script meant gravely dissappointing the people you love. I didn't have a secret that I hid, I just hid what my idea of life was. I thought I could follow the script and still be free. You cannot.

    I know it won't sound like a big deal in people who grew up in comparatively more liberal or affluent households, but I can only speak from my experience.

    It is okay to dissappoint people if that is what is going to happen as a result of your honesty.

    It will rescue your dreams and above all it will rescue you from the pangs of life.

    Please, do yourself a favor, next time someobody asks you a question, tell them the truth. Only good things will come out of it in the long run.
     
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    If this were true rappers won't sell records and guru's /pitchmen couldn't move products. People get in power by lying. Men get women by lying and women get men by lying. Your parents tell you lies and so do the teachers/professors and books. The world is full of lies and YOU or any one can't live without lying. If you say other wise, you are a liar.
     
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    The main thing is not lie to yourself. Nothing else matters
     
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    to all the people who are sayig otherwise in this thread, that might be true for you and for a lot of people out there. I dont know.

    I felt this urge to share what I felt, and I still believe it to be true from my life experiences. Hence this thread.
     
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    The whole world is lying. You can not change anything except yourself. This is the only truth.
     
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    Do yourself a Favor, Tell the Truth :

    Sometimes its hard to accept the Truth, when the lies was exactly what you wanted to hear ;)
     
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    you forgot to renew your domain and it still points as your homepage.

    i know my life is screwed no matter at which place im.
     
  9. Buzzika

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    nah the domain is fine, just need to fix the dns records. too lazy, it used to be my personal blog.

    i dont blog now.
     
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    Yes, but when all those people get found out, they end up a laughing stock. Like Mase, Charles Floate, and SEOSam. Even if they do get into a position of power, they lose it. Like Hillary Clinton.

    When women find out their man is lying, the man get's dumped. When children find out their parents are lying, the child starts disrespecting the parent. When professors lie, they lose credibility with their students.

    It's best to follow OP's advice and tell the truth. You get much further in life when you are honest.
     
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    I never lie. Not a single time in my whole life.
     
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    the worst kind of lies are the ones you tell to people you dint want to hurt.
     
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    The 3 greatest lies by blokes;

    Yes I love you.
    The cheque's in the post. ( or of course I'm paying you this week )
    I won't cum in your mouth.



    Sadly there are people who live their entire life in a big lie.
    Frank Abagnale Jr was a prime example of that.

    In the UK there's a FB group who hunt down Walter Mitty types who claim to have served in the military, then go after women and end up trying to scam them, after telling them they'd done 20 years in Special Forces and then MI5 and cover as blown and ............
     
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    Quality advice, it got to a point a few years back where I genuinely forgot what really happened in my life and the lies turned into real memories.
    Weird huh, long story short I don't bullshit as I don't really need to anymore.
     
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    Have to agree with you OP.

    It can be hard at times, I learnt the hard way that honesty is the best policy.

    People can't fuck with you if you tell the truth, get caught in a lie and your words mean nothing.

    Be known as somebody with integrity and you can hold your head up high.
     
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    It's all gotten to the point where telling the truth can put you in ridiculous situation these days. Everyone's living the Facebook/Instagram life, which is a lie. And people are used to lying.

    I know people who don't have enough food but are showing off stupid cars on Facebook. They owe 99% of the cars to the bank. They're living the lie.
     
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