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Do you have family problems?

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by tonlilaz, Jun 9, 2009.

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Do you have family issues?

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  1. tonlilaz

    tonlilaz Executive VIP Premium Member

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    yeah, so just wanted to do a quick poll to see if anybody has the 'perfect family' ..... or if i'm the only one that has to deal with family drama....

    not going to too much detail cuz i dont believe in airing out dirty laundry or anything.....and i've been happily married and gone for almost 12 years now....but my god, some members of family stills find new ways to drive me crazier and crazier each year with stupid drama that gets everybody upset and worked up....it's like i live in a soap opera

    am i the only one w/ nutty family members?

    right now i've got

    1 crazy uncle
    1 crazy sister
    a s.mom who's a walking lifetime drama movie moment
    a family member that talks $hit about other family members behind their back
    members who are so pissed at each other they haven't talked to one another in 10 + years

    the list goes on like i said, don't wanna air out laundry, that's not what i'm about....but i can't be the only one who faces family drama .....i tell my self everybody in the world has family issues....

    i don't know...do you have a perfect family?
     
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  2. netjedi

    netjedi Jr. VIP Jr. VIP Premium Member

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    No u r not :)
     
  3. thefallendevelopment

    thefallendevelopment Junior Member

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    jakeumms Regular Member

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    I have it pretty good, but back in the day we had serious money problems which restricted vacation and caused anxiety for many years.
     
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    There is no such thing as a perfect family...

    I am the youngest of 3...my brother & his wife have 6 kids...aged 20,15,13,12,6,3...they insist on homeschooling their children and refuse to enroll their children in online homeschooling (where they would get a FREE computer for each of their children as well as support and curriculum). The 13 year old (girl) is behind 1 year..and the 12 year old (boy) is behind 2 years. My brother was laid off and out of work for 9 months (he just started a new job today). He refused to let his wife get a job during that time to bring money in or to enroll the kids in school.

    My sister has 2 kids, a 19 year old girl who has already lived with 5 guys. Yes, 5. And she has a 16 year old son who sells drugs, rarely comes home, is in an alternative school because he didn't like his school... etc...and she just shruggs her shoulders..."gotta let the kids be kids" I guess...

    My sister's husband hates our brother and his wife...they ignore each other now...but have had several rumbles during family functions.

    Can't wait for Christmas!

    I could go on for days about my dad...but I save all of that crap for my psychotherapist!
     
  6. crashed

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    I got the perfect family simply by taking the action of disowning it when my parents kicked me out on the streets 5 years ago.
     
  7. Knoxgates

    Knoxgates Supreme Member

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    Everybody has family problems. Nobody is happy in this world.
     
  8. tymillz

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    I think the average family has some sort of dysfunction. You are not going to find too many families that does not have some sort of skeletons in their closet.

    But the family that discusses these problems, and address them, is the family that will strive.
     
  9. spaceinvader

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    yeah, my family an an entity is quite insane. Weddings = Fights, Funerals = Fights. I have a slightly more distant relative who is in prison for terrorism charges. I have a female cousin who is addicted to sex (pls dont ask for her number) i used to live with her and she sometimes had 3 men a day back to our house. Not to mention a few alcoholics and a few drug addicts... To be honest most of it is quite amusing. My immediate family are the most down to earth out of the lot tho... I put all the insanity down to the fact that we are of Irish origin :D;)
     
  10. tonlilaz

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    my sister homeschools w/online school that accredited....it's a nice program...her 5 year old is smarter than me...lol



    the
     
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    If you are the king or a President.
    No one gots a perfect family!

    Not even ours. Hehe!

    Fiance since 3,5 years ago.
    She got 2 kids from before. And i got 1 since before.

    Together we got one kid.. So that i want to told is that 4 kids overall ;)
    But our love to each other is strong, we argue alot, yes we do. Alot adult people do.. So it´s pretty normal. .. I´m 28 years of age. And that´s very rare for having 4 kids here in Sweden. Oldest daughter is 10, and then the rest of the gang is 7, 6 and 2 year.. :)

    Don´t take it serious becoming having problems, just be yourself, and don´t listen to other what they´ve say about your family trouble..

    //J
     
  12. the_demon

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    My family is going through a $hit ton of drama right now.

    My grandma passed away and I had an uncle who basically scammed my grandmother and his syblings into signing a revised version of her will so now my mom has to take him to court because she has 7 siblings total and 2 basically are getting everything when the original will said things were supposed to be split evenly. My family doesn't need the money by any stretch of the imagination but, unfortunately my mom's siblings are what I consider uneducated and don't realize what happened. So on a moral mission my mom and dad are doing this and the siblings are convinced she's being greedy. Which is utter bullshit.... This could go on but, hopefully OP and others know, your not alone in the F|_|CKED UP family situations.
     
  13. antsaoo

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    Not anything much i know of ;) been pretty much alone few months tho so dunno wtf is up lol :p Days passing by , feels bet absurd :p
     
  14. spaceinvader

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    this post has restored my faith in hating humanity :D