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Hey, just wanted to discuss with you all. I'm new to IM and learning so that I can make myself a proper and secured life without having to worry about money and having the fear of limited money.

Now, all of my friends, they do go regularly go to parties, discos, clubs etc and they have all sort of fun. They drink costly wines, smoke hookahs, and all other disgusting things and they always ask me to go with them but due to lack of money and time, I can't join them and that puts me off big time. Sometimes, I think that I'm in the process of doing something BIG and hence sacrifice is needed and sometimes I think they are having the best life ever. They are posting tons of pics of them dancing, eating fancy costly dishes, drinking costly wines, going here and there and shopping costly apparels and here I'm sitting at home learning IM and trying to make a life by myself as I've no family backup.

What do they do?
Couple of them have office jobs and a couple of them handle's their daddie's business and two girls work at the offices and the other one doesn't work but already rich. They just enjoy and spend money like air. The boys also do. They are already rich. I mean they seem so secured financially and in every way but some part of me says that some of them did nothing by themselves as they were handed their daddy's business by their daddies and some of them works at the office making around 800$ a month.

They come back from office at evening and go out to party and have fun and always.
And they always invite me but due to the shortage of money and time, I can't join them. It really feels embarrassing to go with them due to not having that kind of money to spend on costly foods and wines and plus I don't have a car and all of them has their own individual cars. They always say that I wouldn't have to spend anything ever but it just does not feel right that way. I'm not a moocher.

So, just wanted to know that do you guys go through the same phase and those who already stable in stable and those who are banking millions a year by doing IM, are you a party type now as you have plenty of money to spend OR you are still discipline and have self-control and you don't waste money on parties, bars, clubs and smoking this and that?

I heard discipline is MUST for being a millionaire and billionaire.

What are your thoughts on this and how do you enjoy yourself and refresh your mind after all day working in front of your computer?

Regards.
 
I think I know how you feel.
I've had a few rich friends in the past and hanging out with them never seemed to work out well.
They always want to go to all these fancy places and it's always hard for me to enjoy myself if somebody else is footing my bill.
Maybe it's just my personality, but it's easy for me to feel alienated, even when people are actually just trying to be nice.
 
I think I know how you feel.
I've had a few rich friends in the past and hanging out with them never seemed to work out well.
They always want to go to all these fancy places and it's always hard for me to enjoy myself if somebody else is footing my bill.
Maybe it's just my personality, but it's easy for me to feel alienated, even when people are actually just trying to be nice.

Yeah correct.

But I thought successful people always parties and goes to clubs etc.
 
work hard on your work (IM) & come back to this thread . you would have learned some few things . i know you asked a question but sometimes the grass is always greener on the other side because you think so rather than what it is . i'm a bit of both (partying and somewhat reserved )
 
Yeah correct.

But I thought successful people always parties and goes to clubs etc.

I think that is a common misconception, I now go to club a lot less compared to when I was broke, probably why I was broke in the first place lol.

Now I would rather read books, doing researches, networking rather than getting wasted on the weekend, it is a waste of time and it won't help me much in my career.
 
Hey, just wanted to discuss with you all. I'm new to IM and learning so that I can make myself a proper and secured life without having to worry about money and having the fear of limited money.
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s3x party or what party ?????
 
10 years ago I'm single. I go hang out, come to home early morning, go to work, have fun at weekend etc. I spent money just for myself. Nothing to worry about.

Now I'm married, I need to keep my family going. My kids need someone to help them study at evening and I'm not rich enough to hire babysitter, private teacher, driver, fancy car, expensive food, etc. Instead of worrying my friends life (some of them really have good career and money), I just enjoyed my own life with my family.

For me, nothing wrong with people partying and have fun buying expensive things as long as they can afford it. They happy doing theirs and I'm happy doing mine also
 
Parties sucks because for me im sensitive to peoples energy and being in a room full of bouncing energy will override my system and it makes it hard to even look straight. Also being broke makes it less fun i just wanna be at home grinding until i have fuck you money but parties aren't meant for everyone i get invited to a lot of them and always flopped because i rather spend time at home trying to get my life straight ill party after im rich
 
Having discipline doesn't mean that you can't have fun anymore. Yeah, sometimes you have to work more and blow off your friends for that party, but it certainly doesn't mean that you can't go out anymore. It seems like you have some good friends if they keep asking you if you want to join their party/meetup/etc. - I suggest you find a good balance between social life and your internet marketing actions. Else you might lose your friends and land in a depression or become burned out. I've been there... its not fun.. -

So, just wanted to know that do you guys go through the same phase and those who already stable in stable and those who are banking millions a year by doing IM, are you a party type now as you have plenty of money to spend OR you are still discipline and have self-control and you don't waste money on parties, bars, clubs and smoking this and that?

Im not a millionaire but i think i have a good amount of money on my bank account at the moment, and yes. I sometimes go out, spend some money on food etc. but i don't overdo it. And you should go out with your friends as well. Sometimes it's just better to blow off some steam, shooting the shit with your friends and just party like a rockstar. You are working to live, not live to work..
 
10 years ago I'm single. I go hang out, come to home early morning, go to work, have fun at weekend etc. I spent money just for myself. Nothing to worry about.

Now I'm married, I need to keep my family going. My kids need someone to help them study at evening and I'm not rich enough to hire babysitter, private teacher, driver, fancy car, expensive food, etc. Instead of worrying my friends life (some of them really have good career and money), I just enjoyed my own life with my family.

For me, nothing wrong with people partying and have fun buying expensive things as long as they can afford it. They happy doing theirs and I'm happy doing mine also

Did you love your life more that was 10 years ago or you love the current one? Be honest please.

Parties sucks because for me im sensitive to peoples energy and being in a room full of bouncing energy will override my system and it makes it hard to even look straight. Also being broke makes it less fun i just wanna be at home grinding until i have fuck you money but parties aren't meant for everyone i get invited to a lot of them and always flopped because i rather spend time at home trying to get my life straight ill party after im rich

Yes me too. As soon as I'm on my feet and financially secure, I don't mind going to parties and clubs. :D

It's just that I feel I miss too much sometimes by not doing anything crazy haha.


Having discipline doesn't mean that you can't have fun anymore. Yeah, sometimes you have to work more and blow off your friends for that party, but it certainly doesn't mean that you can't go out anymore. It seems like you have some good friends if they keep asking you if you want to join their party/meetup/etc. - I suggest you find a good balance between social life and your internet marketing actions. Else you might lose your friends and land in a depression or become burned out. I've been there... its not fun.. -



Im not a millionaire but i think i have a good amount of money on my bank account at the moment, and yes. I sometimes go out, spend some money on food etc. but i don't overdo it. And you should go out with your friends as well. Sometimes it's just better to blow off some steam, shooting the shit with your friends and just party like a rockstar. You are working to live, not live to work..

Absolutely right, I do plan to go out with them as soon as I'm a bit secured in a financial way.
 
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Did you love your life more that was 10 years ago or you love the current one? Be honest please.



Yes me too. As soon as I'm on my feet and financially secure, I don't mind going to parties and clubs. :D

It's just that I feel I miss too much sometimes by not doing anything crazy haha.

Parties all follow the same theme anyway its just a bunch of people talking fuck that im not interested in any of that maybe if i wanted quick pussy id go but im focusing on saving as much energy as possible to put into my projects thats why im even trying to stop masturbation and now i feel like i can do any mind numbing task for hours like write if i go rub a nut i can barely open my eyes after i have a theory that porn is some sort of energy stealing i look in the pornstar eye and be like what the fuck i get the vibe its someone behind it collecting my energy and storing it for something else anywaytrust me bro you aint missing out on shit if anything they are missing out cause this forum is teaching us how to harvest the gold rush of today.
 
Depends what type of party it is and if it's night, but I go to the parking lot on my bike and stand in front of the drive in area and wave people to me that are driving into the parking lot for the party and say "It's $15 for parking".

Make doe and go
 
"no money and time" but you then saying you "discipline" for no going LOL
but yeah me no party too... has money and time but no party cos i prefer alone times.... prayers... nature walks.... tea times alone...... etc
 
Did you love your life more that was 10 years ago or you love the current one? Be honest please.

10 Years ago what I liked :
- Have sooo much me time, I can do whatever I want as long I can do it and afford it.
- Not much to worry about.
- I'm not married so I can flirt with other girls :D (just kidding)
- Etc etc etc

Current time, what I liked :
- I have kids, can't describe how happy about that
- Every morning nice delicious breakfast already in the table. Just wake up, shower and eat. Easy. No need to buy myself or make it before eat.
- My life is in healthy rythm. No more headache because very late sleep (Home at 3am and work at 8am)
- Etc etc etc

Both have fun things and bad things. If I need to choose, I prefer the current one. When you accept the present and feel grateful, you will happy. Happy not means you have no trouble at all, everyone has their own problem.

C'mon man, enjoy your life. Go party if you want or stay at home working your IM business. You free to choose, why so sad :)
 
Parties all follow the same theme anyway its just a bunch of people talking fuck that im not interested in any of that maybe if i wanted quick pussy id go but im focusing on saving as much energy as possible to put into my projects thats why im even trying to stop masturbation and now i feel like i can do any mind numbing task for hours like write if i go rub a nut i can barely open my eyes after i have a theory that porn is some sort of energy stealing i look in the pornstar eye and be like what the fuck i get the vibe its someone behind it collecting my energy and storing it for something else anywaytrust me bro you aint missing out on shit if anything they are missing out cause this forum is teaching us how to harvest the gold rush of today.

Yeah, I noticed that too lol. Whenever I masturbate, I tend to feel less energized. Don't know why but if I don't I'm always fully energized.

Do any of you experience the same thing?

10 Years ago what I liked :
- Have sooo much me time, I can do whatever I want as long I can do it and afford it.
- Not much to worry about.
- I'm not married so I can flirt with other girls :D (just kidding)
- Etc etc etc

Current time, what I liked :
- I have kids, can't describe how happy about that
- Every morning nice delicious breakfast already in the table. Just wake up, shower and eat. Easy. No need to buy myself or make it before eat.
- My life is in healthy rythm. No more headache because very late sleep (Home at 3am and work at 8am)
- Etc etc etc

Both have fun things and bad things. If I need to choose, I prefer the current one. When you accept the present and feel grateful, you will happy. Happy not means you have no trouble at all, everyone has their own problem.

C'mon man, enjoy your life. Go party if you want or stay at home working your IM business. You free to choose, why so sad :)

Thing is I had a toxic family and relatives and I moved out couple of months ago so slowly getting back at proper routine and yes I'm trying to enjoy myself.

And yes bro, I do respect your lifestyle that but one thing and it's my way to look at things (no offense brother haha) and that's I would never settle with one woman. I don't like the same taste everyday IYKWIM ;) xD

When I get successful I wouldn't mind spending a couple of grand on hiring pornstars to have fun and such and plus I would travel the world.
I don't like commitment because I've seen like 80% of the married couples getting divorced in the long run so...its actually wasting my money on big wedding ceremonies and spending money for actually inviting headaches, stress, tantrums and drama for little to no reason at all.
 
And yes bro, I do respect your lifestyle that but one thing and it's my way to look at things (no offense brother haha) and that's I would never settle with one woman. I don't like the same taste everyday IYKWIM ;) xD

When I get successful I wouldn't mind spending a couple of grand on hiring pornstars to have fun and such and plus I would travel the world.
I don't like commitment because I've seen like 80% of the married couples getting divorced in the long run so...its actually wasting my money on big wedding ceremonies and spending money for actually inviting headaches, stress, tantrums and drama for little to no reason at all.

No problem at all. We live in free world (mostly). Do what you like to do. I have many friends like you, changing girls like changing cloth, almost every time. It's not a problem for me as long as he is not date with my wife hahaha...

Good luck bro
 
No problem at all. We live in free world (mostly). Do what you like to do. I have many friends like you, changing girls like changing cloth, almost every time. It's not a problem for me as long as he is not date with my wife hahaha...

Good luck bro
Haha yeah, thanks for the support brother :D

I hope to get financially secured soon and enjoy my life. ^_^
 
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