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depressed because of parents - they don't like internet marketing

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by Envyliciouz, Mar 19, 2012.

  1. Envyliciouz

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    Hi friends (the only from this world i have),

    First to say is that my parents are the single persons I care in this world. I don't have a girlfriend or any real friends because I'm sure that all will hurt me very bad sooner or later. Sadly in the last month when I'm very focused on IM and making money my parents are yeling at me everyday.

    I'm 17 right now and all I care is to make their days more easy, we have debts everywhere and I'm just trying to give them a help as I can. They keep saying that I'm staying to much in front of computer and I'm not doing anything else and believe me guys thats correct but I don't have will or power to do anything else because that's what I want. I want to help my parents and get better days for all. Now I don't understand why they keep treat me like this. I'm very depressed and powerless simply because all I have done till now was for them, I mean they were that persons which pushed me to continue. I don't want an xbox, a girlfriend, fashion clothes or any other shit because that's nothing. All I wanted was to have careless days. I really don't understand why they keep shoot me with all these bad words saying that they don't want my money or why do you stay that much in front of computer. My mind is full of fuck right simply because I don't want to do anything else, I don't have will to do something. I'm just staying thinking like a god damn stupid at what's happening to me. And I really can't find any answers.

    Since all good friends I have are from online and since BHW is the best community I'm opening this thread being desperate. I have this depression from 3-4 days ago and I'm feeling I don't want to do something. I simply don't have for what to fight or to live... I didn't thought I will say something like this one day but now I'm really crazy.

    That's a long, silly and confusing post but I know that BHW is the best community and I hope that I will get some advices. Hope to hear something from you guys. I don't have any real friend which I can talk with and you guys helped me 1 month ago when I had a bad mood (that was easy, this is crazy...)

    Thank you
     
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  2. Envyliciouz

    Envyliciouz BANNED BANNED

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    I don't have for what to continue or to work...
     
  3. mojamalatajna

    mojamalatajna Regular Member

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    Dont make your friends less important then IM, yes they sometimes may "betray" and stuff but you cant live without friends :)
     
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  4. wke102

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    Well you could slack off a few days more and chill out until you have your mood back!
    Good luck friend :)
     
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  5. Envyliciouz

    Envyliciouz BANNED BANNED

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    but how is supposed to make friends when i dont even have a good relationship with my parents?
     
  6. speedy5044

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    Show them the money and they will understand , this happened to me when i started doing IM but they changed their mind when they saw that i make more than both of them ;)
     
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  7. Roobin22

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    man im feeling you.. stay strong !
     
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  8. Envyliciouz

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    that's what I'm making right now, every penny I make I'm getting home and they keep saying me that i have school and to get out of this shit computer wtf :( that's what I don't understand
     
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    they dont get it until you start making something

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    Work hard, then show them what you've developed and the success you've generated.

    They want the best for you. Parents don't quite understand just how much socializing and entertainment occurs online these days (partially because there really isn't all that much for young people to do offline that isn't shameful/illegal/dangerous) and they think that spending too much time online is spending time alone.

    Things will be fine, you'll see
     
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  11. TNphoneman

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    First off, you are only 17 and you will have much worse problems in your life than this so suck it up. Now for the rest.

    This is because they do not understand IM and never will. If you are not making money enough to support yourself then you need to get a real job. There are going to be many times in your life where you will have to do things that you do not want to do, they just have to be done. Don't whine that there are no jobs, what you really meant to say is that there are no jobs that you are willing to do. There is no place where you will start at the top of the ladder so you have to work at it and sometimes that means doing stuff that you do not like.

    I know it sounds harsh but a reality check is better than some that will blow smoke up your ass to cloud your vision. Life is not fair, get used to it.
     
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  12. GunzZ

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    All parents talk the same bullsch1ts, not just yours. They can not understand the IM, you can try to explain in details (which will probably fail). All the time same qustions. "Why do you stay all day in front of computer?", "Are you criminal?", "Get a real job.", "Your future is so unsecure.". Just wait one more year and lieve them. Help them with some money, but if they dont accept...it is their choice.
     
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  13. ferma231

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    Well why they do that ? you make money , try to talk with them. say that it is better then you sit at PC and make some money rather then sit at pc and do some useless things..

    Well i had depressions, but i just got over it , maybe you can PM me so we can talk ;)
     
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  14. Envyliciouz

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    TNphoneman: hey man thanks, I just think that you understood wrong, sorry for my english. I'm just saying that I'm working at computer full time and they don't like this...
     
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    you sound like a baby crying.

    GO TO WORK NOW
     
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  16. hat_world

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    Well may be you can give them some gift or something :) well my family also don't understand it when i try to discuss usually people treat it as if I am building castles in the sky..:cool:
     
  17. ferma231

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    Dude are stupid ? Looks like you have never been in his situation, it isnt best thing in the world + depression that sucks a lot
     
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    I think I may offer some nice advice here, since I was/am in your shoes as well.

    When I started out IM, my parents had no clue what I was doing. Whever they asked, all I said was that I was playing games (I was 14 or 15 back then, so it made sense to them). Around 7 months ago, I started making some real moolah (talking thousands per month). I needed to withdraw that money to the bank account, but couldn't as I needed my parents' permission. I was so anxious and confused as to how to confront things to them.

    Then, one evening, when my father came in home, I was still at my computer. I instantly opened my blogs, called my dad, and said him this, "Dad, you wanted me to do something creative online than to keep playing games. See what I did". Then I showed him my PayPal balance. He was totally confused. He had no idea what I did, and how I got that much money. It took me like 3 months to explain him things I did, and yet he doesn't understand things completely. But I don't blame him for this.

    Ever since then, he has not been so much strict with me. I have been able to help my brother a lot, my parents a bit.

    It really means a lot how you think. I really like the way you think. The only thing that matter in the world the most is parents. They have done so much for us, and at some point in time, we will have to do it for them.

    The only thing you can do right now is tell them everything you do online. Explain them everything. Tell them your goals of life.

    Best of luck.
     
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  19. ferma231

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    I think what could help you . :) well i see you at my position few days later :D or weeks,

    i just turned 18
     
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  20. Envyliciouz

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    I've explained them what I'm doing, they know a little bit but I don't understand why they try to stop me. I just want to live my dream, and live the life I want with them. :|