CHEATING GIRLFRIEND

You can toss an airtag or other tracking device in her car and see the locations she'll be frequenting. If she's consistently lying about where she's going, it's safe to assume she's cheating on you.
 
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pxxxx said:
Fuck what all these trolls are talking about bro. They would rather TRY to be funny rather than giving a possible solution. As a guy who has no problems with getting women, this is where normal guys fall and it can happen to any man in love no matter what you look like or how much money you have. You overlook things and second guess yourself to stay in a shitty relationship rather than working on you and finding someone who actually fits with you. Dating isn't a game, I stay single and smash or have fwbs because dating is a very serious thing that will take time, money, and energy.

Plain and simple if you feel she is cheating dump her. Literally, no point in staying if you're not a paranoid person, and don't think hard if you are one or not simply because of this chick, you know if you overreact or not in other life situations deeming you so. Always listen to your gut, if she's not, she shouldn't be making you feel as if she is.

I say, fuck that bitch, dump her, and get on your physical, mental, and financial grind... but yall are still on that loverboy bullshit (which I definitely understand) so if you need a test, here's one as I know no intrusive methods past phishing which anyone can look up but success may be abysmal:

1. Let your phone die
2. Ask to use her phone saying you need to look something up - (if this bitch flinches, hesitates, questions, and doesn't give it up immediately.. bruh don't even trip on some hoe shit. just leave right there.)
3. If she gives the phone take her phone to look something random up that you're interested in.
4. Once you've pulled up a blog article on said thing, walk to the kitchen for a drink or find an excuse to walk away with her phone to see how she reacts.
5. If she doesn't overreact or has no concern, you have free range into her messengers.

If she needs you in the vicinity or to look at what you're doing she's likely cheating or hiding something like texts, images etc... don't even fight to keep the phone or question her as women are gaslighters when emotional and don't take accountability her cheating could be your fault in her head. Just leave, don't be emotional, accept it and try to be happy that regardless of it all, you saved yourself time, money, and energy. Don't stay with a cheater, you're expected to risk your life for this woman and shes likely messing around with others, have some self respect and leave if it is what it is, and don't be afraid to leave at any point if shes not and decides to act up. If you don't feel like this is easy to do past the emotional aspect its because you're not confident, and you're not confident because you aren't grinding improving yourself to be someone to be confident of. Which you can do in a relationship, easier single, but nothing wrong with being in a relationship. Being in a shitty one is, especially when your gut is telling you all isn't well.. AND YOU KNOW IF IT IS or ISN'T.

Another thing to check if she has an iPhone is her Bluetooth saved connections, and her cloud messenger backup in the settings area.

1. Bluetooth will show if shes been connecting to other peoples cars or home systems.

2. People think when they delete texts, images and videos that it's gone forever with apple products but nope, everything is saved as a backup no matter how long back until you delete them from your cloud backup so evidence is likely there.

Don't crashout or act crazy about a bitch bro, especially one that's like this, definitely not worth going to jail over or trying to get over on. The way a man shows people up is by being or becoming a success without them in your life to benefit because THEY WILL SEE IT. Especially with the internet today. Good luck, stay up, don't be surprised about shit, it was already in your gut, men pivot to the next.

I came here for day trading and online money opportunities, been on here for years never posting, and wound up talking bout chicks... that's enough BHW for me today.
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This guy gave some great advice, if you are looking for some serious options OP. Personally, I'd confront her with whatever evidence I have and then leave if her excuses make 0 sense.
 
noobman said:
I'm pretty sure that my girlfriend is cheating on me, but I want to make sure. Can anyone point me in the right direction for Messenger "Tools and/or Methods" to remotely verify this please?
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Strange, member from 2010 but sounding like a teenager.
Grown men don't have this issue, they tackle things directly and deal with it.
Only sad and controlling guys try to spy on their partner.

roydan said:
Break up with her.
Either she's cheating on you and doesn't deserve you, or you're falsely accusing her and trying to spy on her, which means you don't deserve her.
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Exactly this!
 
As other members have already said: they can't give you help to hack someone's messages, as that goes against the TOS of this forum.

But I want you to ask yourself: Why do you feel like you need proof? What benefit do you think you could gain from that? If you go through her messages and find nothing, will you go back to normal and feel OK again? I doubt it. You'll probably just think she is messaging someone somewhere else or deleting her messages to be sneaky.

Regardless of whether she is cheating or not, there is no trust in your relationship. Either she is cheating on you and you are correctly guessing this, or she isn't cheating but you don't trust her anyway.

Playing mind games to try and see if she is not trustworthy won't help you either. You should do some introspection and evaluate why you think she is cheating and if it is a problem with you or if you have a good instinct. Either way, you may need to make a hard decision about whether you should stay in your relationship, because it doesn't seem like you should if you are coming on here and asking questions like this.
 
noobman said:
I'm pretty sure that my girlfriend is cheating on me, but I want to make sure. Can anyone point me in the right direction for Messenger "Tools and/or Methods" to remotely verify this please?
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ask her for her phone
if she hesitate she is
say bye
OccultKingdoms said:
How much of an ignorant a person needs to be to call another person as "girl friend".
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what wrong with calling someone your girlfriend?
lol?
 
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There is no more trust, so just break up with her...if you were cheated or not, it doesn't matter anymore
 
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