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Can you enjoy escorts/prossies without feeling like a pathetic john/trick/mark etc?

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  1. AnotherUsername

    AnotherUsername Registered Member

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    Im not getting any younger and I realise I'm probably never going to get the opportunity to f%^% a girl in the 8-10 rating scale range unless I do some kind of cheating to get around these weak beta male genes Ive been given.

    With that said someone recently suggested I give hookers a try.

    Browsing on adultwork it seems there is alot on offer.

    I am able to pull homely looking girls but they don't satitate my fantasies. Ive tried the pickup artist community stuff for years and that has barely improved my odds for the countless hours Ive wasted in clubs in my life. So Im thinking save up my money and get proper porn star experiences garauteed. Then maybe if I want to settle down I will end up settling for these homely girls once I got the f%**ing hot porn sluts out of my system

    Im so jealous when i watch Mike Adriano porn flicks thinking he has such a good life but then I figure he only pays for those girls so I potentially could get the same by hiring prossies.

    So do you think that prostitutes corrode your self esteem? Do they find you contemptuous gutter slime while you are f^&*ing them? It would ruin the experience if the girl obviously wasn't into me and just wanted me out the door. I know its just about the money but she should at least give me a good effort.

    Hey I figure guys like Tiger Woods and Charlie Sheen are winners in society's eyes and still f%^& prossies. It doesnt seem to bother them.
     
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    Don't do it dude. I know a dude who treats hookers like cocaine and another recreational user who can't seem to get off with his own wife anymore. It just always seems to bite ya. You may actually even get bit.. and not from her..

    P.S. - Try to be happier with what you've already got. It's far easier than feeling like there's always something better.
     
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    I'm running a book on what his alt username is.
     
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    The thing is that there's always something better...unless you're Bill Gates's son , in that case you got all on your side , money , time... well that's pretty much all you need
     
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    This should be posted in Blackhat SEO section.
     
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    What about prop forwards?

    They're much more aggressive.
     
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    It might sound great now, but in some few years to come, it would be weighing down on you, because having sex with your wife will be so out dated, that's the irony of watching porn, it seems to always shift into peoples thought.

    Call me 19th century guy, call me a priest, but the best part is to stop watching porn and find a recreational activity that will take your time and exhaust you mentally.
     
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    no. AD 0 - tomorrow.

    :D
     
  11. AnotherUsername

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    That is like trying to quench your hunger by sleeping.

    You hear of high level buddhist monks who throw off their robes becasue they had to get laid.

    The urge to procreate must be quenched!!!!!!!

     
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    Rappers and Athletes do it all the time without feeling like some loser. Its just feminazis that make weak minded men feel like losers over using an escort.


    If a Dancer stays over night she is escorting as well.

    http://espn.go.com/nfl/story/_/id/12123189/junior-galette-new-orleans-saints-arrested-disturbance-home
     
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  13. King_James

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    Just to whatever makes you happy. You don't need to be a winner in society eyes, but a winner in your eyes.

    You said you can't get laid, but I bet you actually didn't try hard enough.
     
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    That's a toxic way of thinking though mate. Just because Billy G makes more money than you, doesn't mean you can't be happy.
     
  15. AnotherUsername

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    Well you must know everything about me from the 20 or so words ive typed so far.

     
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    if you are pulling 4-5's now, get ripped, you'll move to 6-7 for sure.
    By that point, go for the make up artists.
    They can usually achieve the porn star look to look like a solid 9, but without it they look like a 7. also they have a lot of insecurity issues (that is why they put so much makeup) which is a plus because when going out, they will always want to look as close to 10 as possible.
     
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    IDK man at the end of the day life it's just about the quality of experiences and goods you can buy and the time you can spend enjoying them and as far as these parameters are taken in consideration Bill Gates's son is the best placed human being in the world right now , like i said plenty of money and plenty of time , the only downside is that he too has to die...
     
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    Every year is the year of the douche since douches always get the women.
     
  19. BreaknBrix

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    First, a fun fact.

    Heisenburg, aka Bryan Cranston, admitted to losing his virginity to a bunch of hookers in Holland when he was 16 (on Howard Stern). Him and his friends got $400 together for the trip (back in the 70's) and that's all they did the whole trip was fuck hookers. Today he has no regrets about it and he shouldn't have any regrets about it.

    Here is another thing I notice about males.

    Guys will bash other guys for using hookers the same way women will bash other women for dressing like a slut. The real reason men do this is jealousy. Cause believe it or not, it takes a confident man to have sex with hookers, admit it, and have no problems with it whatsoever. I've met many men in my life, very confident men, business owners, stock brokers, etc who regularly have sex with prostitutes and have tons of friends / respect / admiration.

    The OP asked "do you think hookers corrode your self esteem"?

    The answer is no, most of the time it does the exact opposite. It builds your self esteem or ego. Why? Cause men simply aren't designed to feel bad about having SEX with a HOT WOMAN. It goes against our nature. If anything, it's very liberating. Cause you don't have to whine and dine a woman, pay for her dinner, movie, etc, you pay a few bucks and have the SEXUAL FREEDOM to do things you'd have to beg, coerce, or indirectly pay other women to get.

    I think it should be mandatory, when all men turn 18, they read the book "Sperm Wars".

    Sperm Wars, till this day, and forever, will be my #1 favorite book about sex. This is a book that all men should be require to read when they turn 18. Because it speaks in great, revealing detail about sexual evolution.

    It talks about very controversial subjects like rape, sex, prostitution, etc from an evolutionary, scientific or functional perspective. And it uses real case studies too. There are some mind blowing things in that book that obliterate our social norms and everything we've been taught to believe. I'm not gonna talk about the crazy rape stories but I will talk about prostitution.

    Prostitution has existed before the invention of soap, condoms, whine, bread, it dates so far back it most likely was happening 200,000 years ago, BEFORE MEN became bipedal creatures and learned to walk on 2 legs.

    Prostitution is found everywhere in nature. Between male chimps giving female chimps bananas to mate with them. Spiders weaving food that they give to female spiders to mate with them. You'd be amazed how many different species engage in prostitution. And there are strong evolutionary benefits for both male and females. The male gains access to females / sex / reproduction. The female gains "access" to survival. Both parties benefit. Any I don't really think it comes down to confidence as much it comes down to just being smart. The older you get, the more you believe in your reality and identity. You realize you are the only king and master of your world. So you tend to not give a fuck what other people think.

    So what are the real "side effects" or consequences of prostitution?

    I'm not gonna speak about STDs cause 99% of hookers will remind you to strap up. At the same time, some hookers allow the "GF" experience where you'd allowed to kiss them. And those bitches are crazy. Cause you can transmit herpes through kissing. Along with that, all it takes is 1 microscopic bite or cut in your mouth to get HIV. So stay away from the womans mouth. That's rule #1, never kiss a hooker. Rule #2, never use a cheap condom. Rule #3, never kiss or lick a hookers boobs, but, thighs... ANYTHING if you see as much as a scratch on her skin.

    What are the psychological "side effects" of prostitution?

    Now, I already said that in most cases hookers can boost your ego. Which is a good thing. But like others have said, if you're a complete fucking moron, and can't moderate yourself, you can wind up with a sexual addiction which will empty your bank account.

    My own personal rant about women, prostitution and sex?

    Many years ago, I was in the seduction community for 4 years straight. Hookers, drugs and alcohol weren't allowed for any member of the group. We had to go out 4 nights a week and cold approach women. The first six months I want to say I got rejected at least 20-30 times a night 1 woman after another after another. I was very bad at getting a girls number. And not cause I was shy. After you approach the first couple women you get in the "zone" and approaching becomes very easy. I just wasn't socially calibrated. I didn't know how to build attraction. I'd ask for the number too quick or at the wrong time. It was 1 serious mind fuck to get through all the rejection.

    I'm a fairly good looking dude. I can talk about almost anything but I could NOT understand why I kept getting blown out 1 after another.

    And it took a good 6-12 months of rejection before I found my "sweet spot". I started learning all the things I was doing wrong. And I learned that approaching a woman is almost like auditioning for a tv show or movie. If you go in like you're trying to get a job (sex), you're never gonna get it. If you are desperate, doesn't matter how good your game face is ... it will always seep through your body language.

    I basically just learned to not give a fuck. It's 1 thing to tell yourself "I don't care" but when you genuinely don't give a fuck what happens, it skyrockets your status right through the roof. I stopped caring if I got the number. Stop caring if I got the date or sex. The conversations became a lot simpler. I stopped overcompensating. Stopped trying to impress women. Stopped supplicating to them. In a weird way, I became so detached from the outcome I was developing the traits of a sociopath. And around that same time, ironically... I started scoring number after number after number. I got my first 3 some. All a sudden I was a pimp. It's what guys call "being on top of your game". But it really didn't feel like a "game" anymore. I had just simply and fully realized that life is short, in another 80 years everyone I know, all the women I'm speaking to, my friends, my family... myself included - we're all gonna be dead. In 200 years, noone is gonna remember any of us.

    And that's when I developed an abundance type mindset. I became an opportunist, eagle eyed sexual pathogen. I realized I didn't have to cold approach women. All I had to do was recognize the opportunity. So many men are BLIND to the natural opportunities that exist all around them. They are blind to how easy it is to CREATE opportunity. We have this mindset that everything has to be complicated. There was this artist (Rube Goldberg) who use to paint pictures of outrageous machines that were designed to do really simple things like crack open an egg. Or stir up some pancakes. I suggest you look at some of his art: Rube on Google Images. That's man in a nutshell.

    Always busy trying to put together elaborate systems, overcompensating in every way possible to do things that are 10000000xs simpler than we think.

    Because many men have this mindset, many are terrible with women. Like a few months ago I was shopping in the meat department of shoprite. I saw this hot blonde about 5 ft to the right of me. I saw her looking around in a confused way. She looked at me, I looked back, went back to looking at the meat. She looks at me again, I look back and say, "do you need help with something"? She asks if I know how to make shake and bake chicken. I have no idea wtf she's talking about. So I say, "yes, it's actually very easy! All you do is grab the chicken, you shake it like a polaroid picture... then you bake it". She bursts out laughing hysterically. I keep a straight face and ask her name. We start talking, and I could have easily gotten her number but turns out she was weird as hell. I don't know if she was nervous or what but she started saying some really freaky shit and I basically just said "it was nice to meet you" and bounced.

    Then again at Lowes. I'm shopping in the plumbing section. I see a hot milf looking at all the brass fittings and pipes. Again, it's a confused woman who has no idea what she's doing. And I don't mean to sound sexist but you can find these types of opportunities almost every day if you actually LEAVE YOUR HOUSE. So I intentionally start "browsing" my way right next to her. I didn't wanna get too close but I start taking pipes off the shelf, ripping the bags open and piecing together a brass torch head. That's what I was actually there to do but I decided to show off a bit.

    Then she asks "excuse me, do you know what FIP and MIP mean?" And I think in my head "yes! this is the PERFECT question".

    So I take a brass FIP fitting off the shelf, I point at the end of the pipe and say "you see those threads deep inside the hole?" she says "yes". I say "ok, great". Then I take out an MIP pipe that's approx 6 inches long and somewhat resembles a penis. As I grab the pipe off the shelf I see her face do this twitchy smile type thing like she can sense something weird is about to happen.

    Then I say, "ok now, you see this pipe?" she says "yes". I say, "you see the threads on the OUTSIDE of the pipe?" She says "yes". I enthusiastically say, "great! you're doing an excellent job right now". She's now smiling and looks like she's trying to restrain herself from laughing... but I also sense she's a bit freaked out. So I say, "ok, now grab this pipe with both your hands". She hesitates then grabs the 6" MIP with 1 hand. I say, "look, this will work much easier if you just use both your hands". Then I take the FIP pipe and start slowly screwing it in the pipe she's holding that looks like a penis. And I mean SLOWLY screwing it in. After about 3 seconds she starts cracking up, shouts "thats enough, thank you, I get it I get it". I say "FIP means FEMALE iron pipe... can you guess what MIP means"? She's laughing harder now and asks "do you work here?" I say "absolutely not". She shouts "thank god!!!".

    Then I ask "is there anything else I can help you with today?" She says "no, I think I'm good". I ask "THINK"? She says "no.. I KNOW I'm good". I say "are you sure cause you still look a bit flustered right now? .. like you might need more help?". She then breaks out the "I'm sorry but I'm married" speech. Explains how the demonstration was "cute" but she was really "in a rush" and needed to get home. I decided to call her bluff, take out my wallet, hand her my business card and say, "well, it was nice to meet you and I don't see a ring so if you ever need help with plumbing again just call that number". She takes it, thanks me and immediately leaves.

    What's funny is she never called but 2 months later I got a business referral from 1 of her friends (and ftr, I am not a plumber).

    But the moral of this long rant is that opportunity is everywhere. You just need to look for it. Sometimes the opportunities are so small you can barely see them. But if you get good at exploiting opportunity, naturally - more opportunity will come your way.

    Paying for sex isn't a bad thing.

    I will never judge or bash a man for doing it. If you gotta get your rocks off just go for it dude. Don't feel bad about it. Just be safe and moderate yourself. And remember, you are never "hopeless" when it comes to women or sex. You are merely what you've conditioned yourself to believe. Perception IS indeed reality. So go get those hookers. But never give up on developing your natural game. As you get older you WILL change. Nature gave you a penis for a reason. Life is short. Wayy too short to sacrifice your dick just for hookers for the rest of your life. Cause there are plenty of women out there. All it comes down to is just recognizing, exploiting and seizing upon the opportunity.

    -BB
     
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    Holly shit... You have truly evolved to be an Alpha male. Now please write a book. Half the forum will buy it!

    This is my best read today :)
     
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