i'm guessing that getting access to server logs is not that easy? i mean, should i be worried in any way? (just said something stupid in a moment of anger... now she says she "knows where I am"... any truth to it?)
Only somebody that has access to the server log files.
When you are paranoid about your IP leaking use Tubemogul.
In Tubemogul you load your vids and Tubemogul posts them with the title, tags and description to YouTube.
Their IP gets registered at YouTube, not yours.
Are you saying I don't need to use proxies, just this Tubemogul???
she says she "knows where I am"... any truth to it?)