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Bullying And Kids Just Being Pussies

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by funkybunker, Mar 6, 2014.

  1. funkybunker

    funkybunker Supreme Member

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    I remember being a kid, and bullies have ALWAYS existed.
    When I told my dad I was getting messed with at school, or even in my neighborhood -
    "When he's calling you names, just walk away. When he hits you...you knock him to the floor. He won't do it again."

    He shared a story with me about a group of kids who messed with him because of his weight (large) and to "even the odds"
    he grabbed a steel pipe that was nearby. You guess the rest.

    Todays kids are so coddled that it begs to question "are bullies truly worse, or is the generation of 'Tell An Adult' bullshit ads on TV causing kids to allow bullies
    to harm them" convinced defending yourself is bad, while the bully breaks the rules anyway.

    I'm not saying become a bully - stopping someone from harming you is not bullying. That's like saying because Hitler breathed oxygen and we ALL breathe oxygen,
    we're all bad.

    I'm just seeing the same preachings about standing up and telling someone. Fuck telling someone who can't legally punch the kid(s) because violence isn't the answer.
    You only learn fire hurts after it burns you.
    Just my opinion.​
     
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  2. akshdalal

    akshdalal Regular Member

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    We don't call that bullying here in my region, it's always a gang war. When I am alone I get beaten up, when I find the bullies alone, their mother gets f****d.

    (Sorry! MODs, abusing the bad guys not any1 on forum) :)
     
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  3. LakeForest

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    A pretty easy way to be bully free is joining athletics. Sure, you'll get into competition now, but if you practice and are above average and possibly better than the bully, it's a huge blow to their ego and you have people that back you up.

    There is strength in numbers, so make friends and join clubs.

    Stand for something, be about something, it shows strength.

    Work out, talk to girls, do cool things, have a personality, and you will see how naturally bullies get repelled.

    That being said, be cautious about fighting. Fighting is not about getting even, it's about devastation. If you fight someone, they should not be the same after the fight as they were before. You must change their physiology and psychology. Fighting is not the same as bullying, but can make you feel like a bully.This can be far too much stress for kids to deal with who don't like to fight, and is a large reason why people don't defend themselves. It isn't weakness, it's potential guilt and becoming the bad person.
     
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    Right or wrong is decided by political process. One of those political process is whether people stand up to bullying or not. Have friends. Tell adult. Fight back. If lose, cry or make a scene.
     
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    Fighting back will get you in more trouble compared to the troubles the bully will face.

    Also, I don't know if bullying is worse now but I think it's more mental, and that can be just as bad.
     
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    Being a school kid is like a game of chess:

    you maybe being bullied, but striking back out of anger will make you lose the game. But doing nothing will also lose the game.

    turning around and hitting the bully will cause you to be punished far more by the school AND the bullies friends. Because remember, bullies only bully in large numbers.

    I was bullied, but I stopped it myself using 2 methods.

    Self respect and befriending the bullies friends. If you make allies with the bullies allies, the bully will be the one with no back up therefore the bully will be too afraid to do anything to you.
     
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    Someone once laughed and said to me, "I bet you've got a really small penis", so I pulled it out and he was in shock by how big it was and the bullying stopped right there!
     
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    Wait..this is getting interesting. Did he plug it inside their a-holes?
     
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    Sick and disgusting. Do you still do this?
     
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    Nothing a good old crack can't fix!

    You Americans live with guns, and shoot at will if someone as much as steps on your lawn, but yet you worry about punching a bully in the face because he hits you, or says mean things to you?

    Survival of the fittest. Stop a bully in his tracks, before it gets out of hand, and nobody will mess with you again!
     
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    So you're telling us you got a boner from this? As otherwise it wouldn't be erect? Unless that's how you roll?
     
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    kids are raised like pussies now a days, there parents are pussies.

    Its okay to fight! sometime thats the only way to settle things.
     
  13. NX_NULL

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    I bet your girl friend has got really small boobs
     
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    It wasn't erect but yet it was still 12 inches...

    What boobs? I only go out with transvestites!
     
  15. akshdalal

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    We need this for reproducing babies, not tearing pussies! :)

    And I bet you masturbate a lot...
     
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    That's how you win medals.
     
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    really ?
     
  18. Vic Sage

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    I got beaten to death by bullies when I was 11. Now bullies can't even dare to eyeball me. Became a big man and learned how to defend myself (I am kind of an expert in Krav Maga. Yeah, I actually did stop once a guy who tried to stab me. Within minutes, his knife was in my hand.)

    If you are a pu$$y or something, start hitting the weights and learn to throw a punch. Bullying can't be stopped. Better be powerful than being beaten by the powerful.

    Lifting weights will make one mentally strong as well. After all, it's all in the mind. You will be what you think you will be. As Arnold Schwarzenegger said, "I already reached my goal in my mind. Now it's just a matter of going through the motions".


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    I agree, that's why I don't support MLK and Gandhi teaching ... Turn the other cheek and peaceful resistance/protest? Nah, grab a gun and protect yourself and your people.
     
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    A fantastic end to bullying.