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Being "On Top of your Game" .. Your Mojo & What It Means To You?

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by BreaknBrix, Jan 28, 2015.

  1. BreaknBrix

    BreaknBrix Power Member

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    I just had this very surreal but clear realization about "marketing mojo" and being on top of your game.

    2 years ago. I was having a conversation with this guy on Warrior Forum who was very desperately and frantically trying to find a way to make money. I could tell the guy was sharp by his writing so I wrote some crass, insensitive reply like, "Just man up. You obviously have a brain so use it and just get to work". I basically gave him a hard time.

    Then he came back and wrote something like, "look man, I've been in this game for 12 years and had a business making more in 1 day than you likely see in a week... you have NO IDEA what it's like to get your entire business wiped out by Google". And I basically ignored what he said and kept directly attacking his pussy like mindset.

    You know why? Cause my mojo was on fire at the time. I felt invincible. On top of my game. It was taking simple, fearless, blind action... and I was seeing awesome RESULTS.

    Everything was soooo simple back then because I was making money with Clickbank, my local biz was growing... all my numbers were pointing UP.

    Fast forward a year or so and Google decided to rape me in the ass. YT videos getting banned left and right. PBN supplier no longer working. Shit was getting real... real quick. And very slowly this insecurity and lack of control began to creep into my mojo. I started over analyzing everything. Over reading. Double, triple and quadruple checking all the things I was doing.

    And I realized today..... I am that guy I was telling 2 years ago to "man up". I'm basically in his shoes. I'm still making money and wasn't wiped out like him but my mojo suffered deeply. For the first time, 8-9 months ago I slowly got to feel what it's like to allow your mojo to be set on fire. And it can take MONTHS if not years just to put the flame out.

    But then I started thinking today, "what is the difference between me now, and me 2 years ago... what is REALLY different"?

    And it hit me pretty quick.

    2 years ago I did not give a fuck about anything. I didn't overanalyze shit. My days were incredibly simple. Nothing was "complicated". I didn't work my ass off. All the numbers were headed in the right direction. And I just had this laser clear focus, a blind confidence... and a FEARLESSNESS that propelled me through barriers without even noticing they were there in the first place.

    I find it ironic that I know so much more now... but I'm actually allowing that to work against me. Cause I'm using that knowledge to paralyze myself and overthink every single fucking thing I do rather than focus on my MOJO!

    There is no right or wrong decision. You just have to make a decision. The quicker you make them the quicker you learn in 2015 what decisions you shouldn't be making And you definitely do NOT gain control but trying to control everything. The solution is 100xs simpler than I thought.

    The solution is to invoke FEARLESSNESS. To uncomplicate things. To be CONFIDENT. You don't "take control". Control takes you. If you just FEEL you're in control, rather than seeking control, you WILL BE "in control".

    And to me, that's what being on top of your game is. That is marketing mojo.

    There's still a nagging little voice in the back of my head that keeps saying, "you can't just project yourself back into that state". Like, "lets be rational... things were just easier back then". But that is BULL-SHHHHIT.

    Things were "easy" cause I did. not. fucking. care. They were "easy" cause I KEPT IT EASY.

    BEFORE I was making any money.... I did-not-fucking-care. And that fearlessness is what helped me get results in the first place.

    So why am I so g/damn stressed over every little decision I make? Like yesterday I had 14 articles to upload to my site. Then I thought "oh no... I can't do this... that's too many articles too fast"! So I uploaded 3 like a fucking pussy. And that's nonsense. I uploaded 64 articles in 1 day the day I made my main money site. Google didn't care. Nothing bad happened. I didn't get a penalty. All that's happened is I fell of my mojo. And I'm doing the same shit with my PBN now. This is a new field to me. Building a PBN has gotta be complicated as all hell right? So I'm thinking dumb shit like, "I need to find the absolute perfect hosts for all my sites". "I need to get confirmation from 100 respected marketers that I'm using all the right hosts... everything's gotta be perfect". This is REAL shit that is going through my head. And I'm documenting this to embarass myself in public. THAT IS FUCKING RIDICULOUS.

    That is absolutely NOT being "on top of your game".

    I'm done overcomplicating minuscule bullshit. If I'm gonna do that I might as well shove my dick in a bucket of ice. I might as well just cut if off.

    Amiright or amiright? :)

    -BB
     
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  2. Keyboarding

    Keyboarding Regular Member

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    stop being a pussy. man up.



    But the fact is, your logic applied exactly as you intended it to. You're looking at it from the wrong angle, unlike when you had said it previously without realizing it.




    It all comes from confidence. What you built owns you, and now you're afraid it won't be there to back you up in the end. And it isn't it seems. Remember though, you once had nothing. But this is smoke as I have not achieved anything in the IM world yet.
    However,

    I'm at a wealth in other areas of my life; I dive into scarcities and escalate into abundance. It's how the game works and the concept that I have taken roots with. After a heavy decline comes massive success if you keep pushing through it.


    Hmu for my ebook. Not srs.