anyone know anything about child custody and father's rights?

bmminc · Jan 28, 2015

So reading through the laws I found this:

The following text: "Overnight if the noncustodial parent has exercised regular care responsibilities for the child but not to exceed one (1) 24 hour period per week."
I am not sure what it means by "exercised regular care". I was not allowed to see my child since her birth due to the mother keeping her from me, so obviously I couldn't exercise care at that point.
So, am I allowed to have her overnight or not? Seems really dumb if I'm not allowed to have her overnight because her mother kept her from me...Please help!

keadams26 · Jan 28, 2015

Laws are relative to where you reside and where the child reside. Where are you and where is your child?

Duffers5000 · Jan 28, 2015

You know there are people called Lawyers(or even Solicitors) and they are trained to give you expert advise on this subject.

If you cant pony up $200 for a consultation then you are probably not safe to be taking care of children.

bmminc · Jan 29, 2015

Duffers5000 said:
You know there are people called Lawyers(or even Solicitors) and they are trained to give you expert advise on this subject.

If you cant pony up $200 for a consultation then you are probably not safe to be taking care of children.

Thank you for that fantastic observation. I was simply asking a question to get conversation going. Believe it or not, sometimes the best information comes from people who have been through things similar. Not all lawyers are good, and it takes time to find a good one. I am currently searching for that lawyer.

In the mean time, I figured I would see if anyone here had any experience in the situation. But I suppose there are always assholes out there too.

And I'm from Indiana. I was just confirming my suspicion that the more you have been kept away from your daughter the more the state can fuck you over. It really is a horrible policy.

Capo Dei Capi · Jan 29, 2015

You really need to check out a lawyer, Indiana has a bad reputation when it comes to f*cking over men in custody cases.

http://liveinthecourt.com/2013/03/06/indiana-blogger-father-of-2-girls-arrested-for-intimidation-after-exposing-the-judge-and-family-court-psychologist-in-his-custody-battle/

sexwork101 · Jan 29, 2015

According to my cousin and Alec Baldwin your rights are thin.

Men get fucked when it comes to divorce and custody of the children.

Cratos · Jan 29, 2015

sexwork101 said:
According to my cousin and Alec Baldwin your rights are thin.

Men get fucked when it comes to divorce and custody of the children.

yes, get prepared to get fucked. There is no way out. Females have the upper hand always. unless your girl is a crack head or something similar.

DunDidIt2X · Jan 29, 2015

I have tons of experience, and what that means is that as long as you have a stable place for her to come see you, then you get the child for an overnight once per week.

The best advice I can give you is screw getting a lawyer and going to court . Just work it out on a personal level with your ex. Its about the kid not you or the other. Court battles put our children at too much fucked up stuff. I find lifestyle bribing works most effectively with an ex determined to fight to the end like me.

redrubies · Jan 30, 2015

Are you paying child support and is it on time? File a motion for visitation and ask for a mediator. If that doesn't work, then you're going to have to get a lawyer.

zebrahat · Jan 30, 2015

When it comes to family court today, what fathers' rights?? I have a business partner who has been entirely unsuccessful in regaining custody of his son, after the mother: 1) broke into his house last summer looking to take the child, and punched the father during the incident, 2) snatched the child from school once it started, and took him back to her home, across state lines, 3) has failed to answer every motion filed in court over this in the months since.

If the father had committed breaking and entering, assault or kidnapping as above, he would almost certainly be in jail by now. But the judge in this case has simply failed to rule against the mother over any of these actions, failed to rule her in default on the motions, and lets her retain custody for the child. And yes, the father is using an attorney.

wizard04 · Jan 30, 2015

Fathers rights? are we talking about Atlantis because its the same shit... its a fucking myth.

There are no fathers rights, In this society the women is on top enjoying there special privileges.

Capo Dei Capi · Jan 30, 2015

wizard04 said:
Fathers rights? are we talking about Atlantis because its the same shit... its a fucking myth.

There are no fathers rights, In this society the women is on top enjoying there special privileges.

Women do not have anymore special priveleges than men, In Western Society its men with all the power the majority just do not assume power.

The key consideration is whether the father was equally (or more) involved in the children's lives and took a vested interest on a daily basis in parenting. Examples include the following: taking the children to school, attending PTA meetings, making meals for the children, managing doctor appointments, choosing extracurricular activities and the like. Here, the court seeks to maintain what is closest to continuity for the children.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/natalie-gregg/fathers-rights-in-divorce_b_2903819.html

bmminc · Jan 31, 2015

STKMKTFTGRU said:
Women do not have anymore special priveleges than men, In Western Society its men with all the power the majority just do not assume power.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/natalie-gregg/fathers-rights-in-divorce_b_2903819.html

And that means fuck all when I wasn't even allowed to be at her birth. She is only 3 months old.

I currently get 2 hours for 3 days a week visit. Trying to figure out if I can make her bring her to my place half the time, or if I'm required to go to her place every time.
I have to pay $70 a week.

Seriously, everyone talks shit about dead-beat dads who don't try to see their kids. Fuck. I want to but the system is so fucked up.

BillyPart · Feb 1, 2015

Duffers5000 said:
If you cant pony up $200 for a consultation then you are probably not safe to be taking care of children.

If you can't avoid making comments like that to someone asking for help, then you need to "pony-up" $200 for "How to stop being and a-s-s-h-o-l-e" therapy. You've obviously been on this forum for too long, and are too comfortable, and I think someone needs for you to move along. There's other places to be. You should go there, and be somewhere else, and change. This place has made you ugly, and mean.

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