Let me start by saying sorry to hear you have Cancer, I hope you will fight it and get rid of it.
Well I don't believe in Christmas or any other holiday so there is nothing really changing it for me.
Only thing I like about Christmas is that most people are in better mod than usual.
Now to the point of helping, I have an uncle that gives just a bit of information on most things that people ask him, never the whole story or anything really useful, just couple of hints for you too look for.
If you can't figure out and get the information or what your trying to do after this hints your not worth having this information or what ever your looking for.
But if you find something else and tell him, yeah I found this and that, then he gives you a little more hints that are a little bit better.
So after going through the process of find out what you where looking for and the time that was spent on getting all the information and knowledge you become almost an expert in this area.
So it gets to be kind of like the fishing story or what its called.
Give a hungry man fish to eat and he will survive today, learn the hungry man to fish and he will be able to survive and support him self in the future.
Kandor
Every year I try to get in the CHristmas Spirit but as Christmas inches closer I seem to get more and more depressed. This year is kinda the worst because I found out that I have cancer a few weeks ago.I get Non stop sob stories in email and PMS and can't help everybody. I know it's strange but I didn't join BHW to make money did that well enough before I found this site I joined to help people but it seems that a lot of people want to be spoon fed or want you to give them all the tools for free. It kinda eats away at you. I want to help people but sometimes you have to ask is it worth it. Anybody else have a problem keeping the Christmas Spirit going?
can't really anything else than sit home , since everyone are with their families and such and cant go visit anywhere like that 
