Am I insane for haveing another child?

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My wife and I are trying for number 2, (3rd, one died as a fetus :( ). All my friends think I'm insane for wanting another one after seeing what it was like for the first :p. But we want a big family, Like 4-5 kids someday. Am I crazy? Should we stop at 2 and just get more cats lol?
 
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You can have another one for me of course. I'm not planning on having any!
 
Well I think 2 is definitely better than 1. I have 1 and I think my kid needs a sibling to play/fight with lol

After 2 I don't know, the misses wants 3. I can see that happening I guess. Any more than that and I'll start forgetting which ones which :eek:
 
yoyoyoshi said:
Well I think 2 is definitely better than 1. I have 1 and I think my kid needs a sibling to play/fight with lol

After 2 I don't know, the misses wants 3. I can see that happening I guess. Any more than that and I'll start forgetting which ones which :eek:
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Yeah, I think siblings are important to the healthy development of a child. Otherwise, you get spoiled cunts who don't know how to socialize or share.... (then again I had 2 brothers, and I'm still a spoiled cunt who doesn't like to share lol).
 
If you have economy strength to feed them, and give necessary things to them in their future, then there's no matter to make more babies. If your wife is OK with that make as much as you can. No need to ask from anyone.
 
That's Pretty normal bro , you can have as much kids as u want as long as you provide them everything they need .
 
Who cares what we think!

We have two. We lost our 3rd and never bothered to try again... wasn't planned... not trying to just dismiss it as such but such is life! Sucked at the time but we have moved on! :)

Wife is happy with two. Id like my own mini army but she's happy, I'm happy it's all good!

We also have 2 cats and 2 dogs (was 3 cats had the one put to sleep last year) id have more cats in a heart beat our older one is 15 now and she's a right grump cat so wouldn't be fair to introduce some new kittens.
 
t2van said:
Who cares what we think!

We have two. We lost our 3rd and never bothered to try again... wasn't planned... not trying to just dismiss it as such but such is life! Sucked at the time but we have moved on! :)

Wife is happy with two. Id like my own mini army but she's happy, I'm happy it's all good!

We also have 2 cats and 2 dogs (was 3 cats had the one put to sleep last year) id have more cats in a heart beat our older one is 15 now and she's a right grump cat so wouldn't be fair to introduce some new kittens.
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Sounds like our ideal life. A nice big homestead on a large farmland property with many children and 100's of barn cats roaming around :P
 
If you both want it and can provide a happy life for the kids then why not?
 
Not insane, but you need to evaluate if you will have enough time, a good income and a lot of patience to take care of them.
 
All the best :) I think you are the kind of person who kids will love and vice versa.
 
leechesBleechin said:
My wife and I are trying for number 2, (3rd, one died as a fetus :( ). All my friends think I'm insane for wanting another one after seeing what it was like for the first :p. But we want a big family, Like 4-5 kids someday. Am I crazy? Should we stop at 2 and just get more cats lol?
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You are nuts!!!!!
 
You are crazy.

I have only one child to keep that make me crazy every day.
It is really hard to keep one child that need to have a lot of time and energy.

But, in my mind, two Children are actually better than one.

If everything is ok for you, no problem and take two.
 
leechesBleechin said:
My wife and I are trying for number 2, (3rd, one died as a fetus :( ). All my friends think I'm insane for wanting another one after seeing what it was like for the first :p. But we want a big family, Like 4-5 kids someday. Am I crazy? Should we stop at 2 and just get more cats lol?
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If you are able to give them the best life ever then go for it ! Your friends thought means nothing.
 
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