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Advice Needed …. My husband thinks he is in love with a Romanian Cam Girl

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by Sara, Jul 16, 2011.

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  1. Sara

    Sara Registered Member

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    OK ? I need some advice please, I have been married for almost 25 years and my husband as been acting differently recently. I was quite certain that he was having an affair; he showed all the signs even changed the password on his computer and laptop! Of course when I asked him what was going on he denied everything and tried to convince me that I was paranoid!

    Anyway so he has gone off for his bi-annual boys fishing trip so I decided to do some detective work! After 6 hours I managed to find and download some software to crack the password on his computer (which was Alexa) and get in.

    So what I first I found some photos of this 20yr old girl and then I started searching and found that he had sent her roses to Romania (never sent me flowers in our entire marriage!) that cost $150. Then I found that he sent her $400 via Western Union!

    So now I got online found his history hacked all his usernames and passwords and changed them all of course so he could no longer login in. The chat sounds like it is from a teenage boy not a man of 47years who until yesterday I considered to be quite intelligent! After two days of chat she is telling him she loves him and then he does the same.

    Then I found in his history that he had been frequenting MyFreeCams and had spent about $1500 in the last 3 months which is where he met the Romanian whore. I since changed his password and deleted his account (which included 2,000 frequent wanker points ) ?Wish I had of know earlier could have put some cookies on his PC and earned some affiliate commissions so to at least get some of our money back!

    I notice from reading the chat logs (pretty stupid of him to keep them) but anyway often she is saying to go over to MFC so that they can talk (obviously it?s how she earns a living!)

    His mother and our grown children are disgusted that he could be so stupid to think that this girl actually likes him; all we can see is a con artist making a living. I am sure that she is stringing him along lots of old gullible men like this and her and her boyfriend are probably laughing all the way to the bank!

    I have put all of his clothes and stuff into garbage bags and left it out the front of the house for when he gets back as he wont even answer my calls or texts!

    Any advice, has this happened to anyone you know ? would love to hear some stories, maybe I could show him this to get it into his thick head how stupid and totally gullible he is being ?
    or do you think that a 20yr Romanian Cam Girl might actually be in love with a 47 year old in Australia?

    Dont be too harsh on me please my heart is broken into tiny little bits :(
     
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  2. Roparadise

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    is it possible to pm me the name of the model?
     
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    ooooh Australian chicks are hot !

    I could type a long winded mass of text but I'll just say this,,
    he must be quite immature and naive to think a Cam girl sincerely cares about him.

    Sara if you're going to be in the USA next day or so,,

    :dancing:
     
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    Sounds like you weren't taking care of his needs properly ;)

    Lol seriously though, just forgive him. Guys are horny f*cks.
     
  5. xio1

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    Sara,

    Sorry to hear that this has happened to you, but you are right this girl is probably laughing all the way to the bank with her pimp, if it is a girl. I personally think your husband fell for one of those scams where they have these men sitting behind computers in africa, saw it on tv, and they try to act like a woman to scam horn dogs like your hubby.

    Wish you the best,

    X
     
  6. Sara

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    Yes well after 28 years together things can get pretty ho hum in the bedroom i admit, i had been trying pretty hard the spark back .. but it obviously wasnt enough.

    I texted him and said that if he came home I would be willing to try to forgive, but instead he setup a new user account to talk to the love of his life so as far as I am concerned he has made his choice
     
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  7. Roparadise

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    The only way that a cam girl will ever really like a guy from a website that they meet on is if a guy is:
    1. about the same age
    2. good looking
    3. nice guy and not a jerk

    So if your not all three,then your going to get scammed
     
  8. Sara

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    Thanks for the replies everyone, I don't want to talk to any of my friends yet as I feel totally humiliated ATM
     
  9. Roparadise

    Roparadise BANNED BANNED

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    Find a 20 year old guy and hookup with him,to get revenge.
     
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  10. Sara

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    not a bad idea - i am still pretty hot :yumyum:
     
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    Im avaible but only if you pay for plane ticket:D
     
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    Thanks for the offer ... Sorry my husband has spend all our money and I am a single mum now ;)
     
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    I think now is the right time for you to invest in implants, jk.

    He's probably really lonely thats why he resorted to that.
     
  14. suave

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    perhaps some therapy for your husband, most men like to watch other women for my 2 brothers is strip clubs, I lived in Vegas and never got the idea of getting a rub down spending all my money just to go home with a boner but to them it makes sense.
    perhaps send him with the romanian when he runs out of money she will dump him and he will come back crying this will give you the upper hand.:p
    Regards
    Suave
     
  15. truepals_forever

    truepals_forever Senior Member

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    Show him these:

    Code:
    http://forum.fiance.com/forum2.asp?Main=ShowTopic&forumid=1&topicid=4516
    Code:
    http://lmgtfy.com/?q=cam+girl+scam
     
  16. vector_hh

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    No , be sure romanian cam girl not in love with your 47 y o hubby. She do business, if she work in studio (most romanian girls work ifrom studios for boss) all money she share with director. Studiocamgirls looking like they do show not from living room but from special place with a light, color background ect. Australian men ideal target- far from Europe.
    The better girl - the more virtual lovers she have, ussually girls pretty experinced , know how to chat and when to ask for additional money(WU), girls prefer single men- they don't like scandals with wives, children.
    Best for you at the moment- just wait till hubby understand everything and loss few k of $, other way- you can chat with a girl and ask her leave your hubby or you will email/call policy in Romania and AUS for the scam and fraud. The girls do business and they don't want to be interrupted when around enough other clients
    Ussually girls looking for big fish- if your hubby millionaire they will try continue relations -not matter married he is or not, if he just an overage married man with childrens-they leave his easy.
     
  17. bluenose10

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    Cant see what the girl has done wrong shes just earning cash, your hubby has now hurt you badly and lost your trust so the question is can you forgive and forget and move on with your relashinship or will you persecute him for the rest of it.

    Do you give him another chance or do you move on ??

    PS. By the way i do free cam shows if you Fancie payback, even make him watch ,lol
     
  18. Roparadise

    Roparadise BANNED BANNED

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    Not all webcam models are scammers. Some are,but there are honest ones out there.
     
  19. beeHWfan

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    OK, heres the real deal. First of all I am married 11 years and never cheated, never kissed a girl nothing like that.
    Friends of mine on the other hand including someone very close to me who I know have had affairs. Once I had a guy laugh at me and not believe me when I told him I never cheated. One of my best friends since childhood has cheated so many times like hundreds, my close family member around 20 times. So many guys cheat it is ridiculous.

    I just thought of another guy who was a close friend and he would do any girl and did a bunch of them.

    The point . . . All that stuff you are seeing from your husband is so prevalent! Guys who cheat mostly are cheating NOT because their wife isn't hot or something like that, look at all the movie actresses. Most guys cheat because they love that feeling, they want the feeling with the girls, they want to have sex with as many girls as they can.

    Your husband would fall for ANY 20 year old girl who says I love you. Worst of all he lies to himself. I don't go to strip clubs but a lot of people I know do and one of my friends was honestly looking me in the eye telling me that this stripper was telling him how she was really into him! DUUUH!

    My family member had this one girl who LEFT her husband to be with him because he pursued her hard and told her how beautiful she was blah blah, then she leaves her husband my family member is married mind you, he would not leave his wife and finally the other girl moved on and then after she left my family member's crying to me telling me shes the one! Cmon man it's ridiculous.

    Do all men cheat no, are MOST men attracted to hot little young 20 y olds, YES.

    He will never change for you either, he might try but when your stupid like that you gotta get hit in the head pretty hard to change.

    Look at all the politicians, and Preachers, and Teachers. Sexual desire is very common huh.
    Sorry for your situation.

    Ok you may ask how or why I don't cheat.
    1. I am not a flirtatious person.
    2. I do not need or care for or want attention from other women.
    3. I am secure enough not to need to prove whether or not I could have sex with any girl.
    4. Women are pains in the asses I have the best wife in the world I promise, but she is a pain in the ass almost all the time. Why would I want another one?
    5. I hate relationships, I hate having to listen to other peoples bull crap and entertain them.
    6. I'm not FUGLY but I'm not James Bond either.
    7. I don't strike up conversations with people including girls hardly ever.
    8. I really don't care what people think and most the time it is negative because I'm not very outgoing, until you get to know me.

    And just so you don't think I had it easy this whole time I did alot of work on cruise ships 1 week to 1 month at a time, and do you think I could have cheated? YES.

    Should I go on?

    Maybe I should write a guide how to act in such a manner to minimize the possiblities of being in the position to cheat.

    Wish I could help I can't say whether you did the right thing but if you've had enough move on. My mother was abused from man to man, if a man abuses you once then you should leave him forever. I wish I had the chance to kick some guys ass while he is hitting a woman. But that is another topic. Never give an abuser a second chance because they will always screw it up every time.

    That goes for people too...
    AND FAMILY!
    Peace.
     
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  20. vector_hh

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    By the way -tell girl that you will inform myfreecam about WU , girls hate problems with a site where they ern money
     
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