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Advice needed: I suspect my husband is having an affair

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by thutrangdhd, Apr 13, 2019.

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  1. William702

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    I really don’t know how to give you a proof that I’m having really trouble in my relationship with my husband

    You don’t have to believe me
     
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    I personally would take out my robe and my wizard hat, but thats just me.
     
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    Almost every male cheats or wishes to cheat, simply accept it in good faith and move on with your life else you gon wreck yourself for nothing
     
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    i think this is BHW forum you will get black hat suggestions for your problem :p
     
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    Hope I didn't accidentally out my alter ego :smirk:
     
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    Yep. “Accept it”. Easier said than done
     
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    Mod, please close my thread
    I received laughs more than advice...☹️
     
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    Puh-lease! There is also a "Bridge Engineer" who posted "I think my wife knows I'm having an affair". This is trolling spam.
    @BassTrackerBoats
     
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    Yeah, which is more easier...Accepting reality or living in falsehood?
     
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    He lies to you, if the reason is affair its possible that he wont stop lying so asking him directly what is the cause may not give you honest answer. Lets say you ask him directly about this situation, he either tell you - the reason is YYY (where YYY can be anything), he can tell you - i have someone else or he is going to tell you - "all is ok, i love you honey". Will you believe in "all is ok, i love you honey" in your situation?
    If you would belive him - ask him directly.
    If not investigate, try to get proof before talking directly to him.

    My friend had a problem with his wife, she was no longer interested in sex etc, it last for long weeks, maybe even months. He started to think that she is cheating on him, so he asked his close friend to spy her. It turned out that his wife do nothing special - kids to school, shopping etc, no signs of another man. After that my friend asked her directly what the duck is the cause of all problems? She started to cry and she told him she have some problems with health and she have problems with sex because of some kinda of pain.

    Btw - if your husband would have affair he should be less interested in you (you know what i mean ;) ). Ask yourself how sexy you are for him?
     
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    I feel like this is the wrong demographic
     
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    Is this a social experiment or something i don't understand why troll posts are being made other than to see the hypocrisy of macho males
     
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    Honestly i lies sometime to get private moment or chill with friends. An engineering is a depressed job, and if you found no proof. Shouldn't consider he is guilty for some lies. I think you could talk to your partner like share things. A men with 11years of marriage and kids know which is important to him.
     
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