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Advice needed: I suspect my husband is having an affair

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  1. thutrangdhd

    thutrangdhd Newbie

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    Hi, BHWers
    I need your advice
    My story: I and my husband married 11 years. We have 2 girls. He is bridge engineer and often away from home. He is honest person but recently I found he tells lies about something example the place where he is...Exactly 4 times he tells lie
    My gut tells me he is cheating and he is having affair
    What should I do in this situation? Tell him my feelings?Ask him”Are you having affair”? I don’t think he’ll admit it
    What should I do?
     
  2. Danquids

    Danquids Regular Member

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    And you are asking advice for advice on BlackHat forum
     
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  4. Bookmaker

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    Investigate him. Take a taxi or the car of a friend and look with who he meets. If he cheats he wouldn‘t admit
     
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    ask him - why you always lying?
     
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    If you have already taken an std test in your life and you never cheated, take another one and see if there is a change...
     
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    thutrangdhd Newbie

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    Please, this is my true story
    I don’t know what to do now
     
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    Why would he have an affair???

    Maybe you not delivering the need :)
     
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    Call Baba at +91 01585683854257, I hear they can resolve martial issues and will tell you exactly what you need to do. Goodluck bro.
     
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    I think the only right thing to do in this position is to go on the offensive. Speak to him about it, asking clearly if he feels there are any issues in your relationship. There are obvious trust issues, but whether they are justified or not is the question. Let your husband know how you feel about him working away from home, and that you cannot help but wonder what he is up to sometimes.

    But before you do, gather a group of his friends and let them run a train on you. You will have the upper hand in this conversation!
     
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    Thanks
     
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    I think you should seek support on a relationship forum.
     
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    You're asking advice from marketing people who bend the rules to leverage profits. Awesome! Following.
     
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    He has some reasons to lie.
    A husband lies to his wife does mean he loves her.
    Keep that in your mind!
    I m always lying to my wife xD
     
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    Check his phone. Most men hide their personal lives in their mobile phones. If you don't find any reason to suspect, then either you're over thinking or he is over smart.
     
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    I ask your and bhwers advice because I know most members here are male. I think I need advice from men (men know men ?) or a person who had experience with this
    Very confusing
    if you don’t want to give advice, please don’t laugh at my hurt
     
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    How do we know that you aren't trolling lol
     
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    Build more backlinks to him so Google Trusts you. Then you need to lower your bounce rate so he won't go to other websites. Also, dwell time sometimes fucks up the correlation between backlinks and rankings.
     
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