A victim of one sided Love

Bigray

Bigray

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All my life, I always find myself loving someone that never loves my back.
Each time I decide to give up on love I get drawn to it over and over again.

But the worst part of me loving is because the people I love never loves me back.

This shit is making me depressed, and unmotivated to work harder on my goal, I really need a lady in my life.
I really don't know what to do
 
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Bigray said:
All my life, I always find myself loving someone that never loves my back.
Each time I decide to give up on love I get drawn to it over and over again.

But the worst part of me loving is because the people I love never loves me back.

This shit is making me depressed, and unmotivated to work harder on my goal, I really need a lady in my life.
I really don't know what to do
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I'll dare to say without the full context that it's not love but infatuation - idealizing someone. "It can feel intense, passionate, and beyond reason. Many may refer to it as love at first sight.".
Try to approach and see relationships for what they are and with reason rather than what you've imagined with the help of lust.
 
Bigray said:
All my life, I always find myself loving someone that never loves my back.
Each time I decide to give up on love I get drawn to it over and over again.

But the worst part of me loving is because the people I love never loves me back.

This shit is making me depressed, and unmotivated to work harder on my goal, I really need a lady in my life.
I really don't know what to do
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Play these every day mate.


 
Bigray said:
All my life, I always find myself loving someone that never loves my back.
Each time I decide to give up on love I get drawn to it over and over again.

But the worst part of me loving is because the people I love never loves me back.

This shit is making me depressed, and unmotivated to work harder on my goal, I really need a lady in my life.
I really don't know what to do
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If you don't mind me asking, how old are you?
 
Bigray said:
All my life, I always find myself loving someone that never loves my back.
Each time I decide to give up on love I get drawn to it over and over again.

But the worst part of me loving is because the people I love never loves me back.
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This is part of life!
Bigray said:
This shit is making me depressed, and unmotivated to work harder on my goal, I really need a lady in my life.
I really don't know what to do
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But, don't let it discourage you, mate; focus on yourself and your goals. You are still young [22], and you'll find love eventually.
 
Bigray said:
Am 22
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Well, you are still too young to see some things, trust me...

The right one will come at the right time for that, for now maybe everything should be like this because, for everything in life, there is a "why and because", as they say in my country.

The answers are all around us, you just need to see them and learn the lesson.

Everything is going to be alright ;)
 
The thing is you can control that. But it's for masters of emotions.

Only the harshest psychology masters can understand love feelings are universal.

As a psycho I can tell you it's just your little problem. The biggest problem is when you get into relationship without understanding the other person and going blindly into it cause of random feeling of probably melancholic emotions of love.

Put a little problem through a bunch of harsh filters. Start loving yourself. It's not narcissistic to love yourself.

I mean, just reason about it using some therapy book, self help, positive thinking, AA meetings, new job, another, more welcoming place. Don't try everything yourself. Try counseling. They'll explain to you.
 
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In the era of mental illness you have to be a therapist to get a long-term functional relationship. But mental health professionals guard their profession, just like any other person under capitalism. Nevertheless, you have to become psychologically literate because in the cultural hot pot of the modern world where cultures are mixed carelessly, there are a lot of ways for women (and men) to get messed up.
 
You talk to a therapist and you become a therapist of yourself with time.

Be careful. These depressed feelings can spiral down into drugs and alcohol. And weird lifestyle as you'll look for alternative.
 
reaaski said:
You talk to a therapist and you become a therapist of yourself with time.
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No, therapists withhold a lot of info. The framework they operate through is not taught via therapy.
 
Exchanger said:
No, therapists withhold a lot of info. The framework they operate through is not taught via therapy.
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Well, you can become a therapist. :D like you said

But before, you can try therapy yourself.

Every certified therapist has to go through therapy.

Framework? They just professional like engineers...
 
Good day, bro. I recommend you to up yourself and improve everyday and sometimes you`ll find your true love
I passed this like you and can say that the only way is self-development
 
Bigray said:
All my life, I always find myself loving someone that never loves my back.
Each time I decide to give up on love I get drawn to it over and over again.

But the worst part of me loving is because the people I love never loves me back.

This shit is making me depressed, and unmotivated to work harder on my goal, I really need a lady in my life.
I really don't know what to do
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The only person worthy of your love is yourself
Remember that if you can’t love yourself, you also can’t love anyone
 
Self victimization in this case is very dangerous. Try to not see yourself as the victim.
 
Around that age you begin to realize you exist and so on...

All changes, including this.

With time you'll discover your strength. You might be able to lift an elephant. That's impressive.

Truth is people are fully aged at the age of 25 - 30. Emotionally you grow up to 30. But even after that time mental / mindset / psychology work is important.
 
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