A little life lesson some may need to read

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So I was reading through a thread in the lounge earlier where someone was complaining about a situation and instead of listening to the reasoning, accepting the response of "it's the rules" and getting on with his day decided to have a go at everyone and blame them for his life's woes.

Listen; we all have bad times, go through some shit that doesn't feel fair and we may make bad decisions along the way that get us into trouble. We all have made mistakes and absolutely nobody is perfect.

But sometimes you need to shut the fuck up and take your licks.

If everyone around you is saying you are wrong, you probably are wrong and you should just man (or woman) grow a pair and accept that you are wrong.

There is no shame in showing that you have learnt from a mistake but there is a lot wrong with being a total twat and continuing on down the "woe is me" the "world is out to get me" shtick. That shit may get you some sympathy in the short term in the real world but will get you absolutely nowhere online.
 
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Self-pity is a bitch. And to be honest I had the tendency to fall victim to it.

The main problem with self-pity is that it allows the person to “blame” (every)thing(s) on the outside world, thus avoiding having to ask hard questions about his/her own behavior and (in)actions.

In my case I got the opportunity to relativize a lot of self-pity shit due to, or thanks to, the situation I found myself in.

In a strange way living on the fringes of society offers you lot of perspective. Both positive and negative, but always in a manner that helps to “relativize” past situation that you found yourself in. And a lot of times the answers turned out to be that it had something to do with an action that I should, or shouldn’t, have taken.

Up to this day I try to counter self-pity with having a good look in the mirror and then have a good laugh about how “sorry” I feel, and follow it up with some anger and rage.

In the end it’s like you say; “Grow a pair.” and stop whining.
 

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So I was reading through a thread in the lounge earlier where someone was complaining about a situation and instead of listening to the reasoning, accepting the response of "it's the rules" and getting on with his day decided to have a go at everyone and blame them for his life's woes.

Listen; we all have bad times, go through some shit that doesn't feel fair and we may make bad decisions along the way that get us into trouble. We all have made mistakes and absolutely nobody is perfect.

But sometimes you need to shut the fuck up and take your licks.

If everyone around you is saying you are wrong, you probably are wrong and you should just man (or woman) grow a pair and accept that you are wrong.

There is no shame in showing that you have learnt from a mistake but there is a lot wrong with being a total twat and continuing on down the "woe is me" the "world is out to get me" shtick. That shit may get you some sympathy in the short term in the real world but will get you absolutely nowhere online.
Surely if you're a woman it wouldn't be an idea to how a pair, that may screw you up after pulling on a Saturday night lol!
" are wrong and you should just man (or woman) grow a pair and accept that you are wrong. "
 

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Surely if you're a woman it wouldn't be an idea to how a pair, that may screw you up after pulling on a Saturday night lol!
" are wrong and you should just man (or woman) grow a pair and accept that you are wrong. "
Pair of ovaries you racist

Just joking, I don't think you are a racist
 
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Just let the man gamble, he has a new crazy idea/new thread every few months

Gambling is perfectly fine but stealing from BHW and taking business from those that pay for the privilege to solicit that business is not.
 

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The worst mistakes of my life was losing confidence, I done everything right by simply being myself and playing cool, but then anxiety hits and you feel like you're a piece of trash fooling everyone, and I ended up messing everything up, things are better now tho.
 

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Just let the man gamble, he has a new crazy idea/new thread every few months
This was another person, I know gets confusing with all these weird threads haha. The one you referring to is back from temp ban, the other I think is on a temp ban (did not check if perma)
 
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