This may or may not be proper to post here.. but I feel I must write about it somewhere. Code: http://www.tennessean.com/article/20090702/NEWS03/90702097/Mt.+Juliet+man+charged+in+death+of+wife I don't want to pass judgement on the husband, whom I know and in fact talked with only recently at a caving convention, but the wife Shelley was a close friend and will be missed by many. Love is precious, many times I've taken friends from granted, then when they are gone it is too late to say "I love you man", or "You've been a good friend" In the case of Shelley, I was able to speak with her just recently and while we didn't talk of life, at least we spoke. I miss her, and while she wasn't part of the BHW... she and I worked on multiple music video and film projects over the years. That's all... just wanted some of you to send a thought out to her (in spiritual form) and to her family (two children) who are left behind.