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✔️ A Different Kind Of Success Story Which Hopefully Gives You An Extra Push! (long ass read)✔️

Discussion in 'My Journey Discussions' started by Billy Batts, Apr 9, 2019.

  1. DixiPixi

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    Love the gifs :D Nice share tho:smirk:
     
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  2. Billy Batts

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    Sure, infrastructure is better over here but the homeless part. In tier 3 countries there are many more homeless people, you could say for some countries it's generally a part of society and you will find more people that share the same faith. Over here they look down on homeless people like you're some kind of criminal. Plus in most tier 3 countries it doesn't freeze at night but yeah I can imagine it's a lot more dangerous.

    Past friday I buried my grandfather and now I kinda feel like I don't have a family any more as I a useless mom and dad and buried my grandmother 6 months ago so feel kinda alone at this moment but you know me, I'll go through it.

    Thank you for reading man.

    Gheghe thanks! :smirk:
     
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    You are right
    But
    Here in my small world i see many (Examples) people who suffer from such things as you
    Lost parents
    Lost money
    Go to prison
    drugs addiction
    and much more
    But anyone can pass this levels of bad situation he become a Successful man
    So wait for this man (although i consider you a successful man from now )​

    Wait for a new family and a successful life​
     
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  4. Billy Batts

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    Yes, I know in many countries this is kinda a regular thing but not over here. Imo it makes it slightly harder because they look down on you like you're the worst. Being homeless in a tier 3 country with all respect people aren't surprised, it's part of every day society.
     
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    What a fascinating life you had. Really motivating. Thanks for sharing!
     
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  6. Billy Batts

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    Yeah..maybe fascinating for other to read :) would've preferred a different path but I'm still here at least :)
     
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    @Billy Batts - Inspiring :) I hope to see a very positive thread soon from you about your very own family that you gonna get... I wish you all the best, cheers!!
     
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    First off, I would like to thank you for your posts. I've been going through some tough times and your posts helped me to have some life perspective and get my shit together, so thank you.
    I heard about your grandparents man, sometimes life hit us hard like that and it really sucks. I hope you are fine, really. PM me if you need to talk.

    Now let me tell you something bro, I know you've been going through a lot of tough situations in your life and sometimes you might be constantly remembering this things and thinking about,
    but I think you should let all that go, really. Try your best to not be thinking about it. That's my honest opinion.

    This things will drag you down and slow your pace, then one day you will realize that you are depressed and don't want to do shit, as happened to me. Just don't let that happen.
    Don't even stop to think.
    Keep your mind busy and focus on the forward.

    Good luck, looking forward for your success :cool:
     
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  9. Billy Batts

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    lol :) Guess you will be waiting a long time then :D Thanks for reading.

    Thanks, nice to hear people still read my stuff because often I really don't think about it and more or less people still read it without liking or commenting so forget about that sometimes.

    I know what you're saying, there are a lot triggers though but this month I really had a nervous breakdown and boozed quite a lot till a point that last weekend I was in bed for 2 days feeling like I could have a stroke or heart attack at any moment and was really thinking about things and yeah, I need to let go of things but you already know that ain't easy.

    Currently detoxing again but I however do have the intention to switch it up. I just have to accept that my grandparents are gone, I will never have a dad or a mom that cares, the shit my stepdad put me through can't be reversed and I just have to move on. I don't like all these things but I can't do anything about it.

    I have so many ideas and plans within the IM spectrum and I will be focusing on that a lot more from now on while I try to stay sober. Currently finishing my site about Cloud Hosting and WP services which in 2 days I made more progress than the past 3 weeks.

    As soon as the money is rolling in a bit again I have some more room to start my other things on my list.

    Anyway, thanks for reading and your words man!
     
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    A refreshing account of a tough life. In spite of all you have been through, you're still able to have the presence of mind and ability to see the positives. This may seem insensitive/cliche but you may have learned more through what you have been through than any book or class could teach you. I appreciate the sincerity of the story.
     
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    Damned, if I were a director - I would definitely make a movie on this.
     
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    Just make it a R18 classification.

    On a serious note, @Billy Batts is one of a handful of guys I have met in real life and for all his billy big bollocks at times, he's a good guy.
    He was doing better for himself a couple of years back, so I said; grab a flight come down and kick back in Spain in the sun for a bit of a break.

    Yup, he did. Away from the big city and the crap that was going on in his life, to somewhere in the middle of nowhere where I was living with Sophie and our 3 dogs.

    There are things we don't always see eye to eye on, but I know if I ever needed help, BB would have my back.
     
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    If a girl ever arrived at my place not looking 100% like her photos, I'd slam the door! You must have a high tolerance level.

    Anyways:

    I respect your success story! Good luck on anything you do in life! :)
     
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    What a read of your OP! Inspiring indeed. What you said in quote above could have been where it all stemmed from and why you found yourself in so many terrible situation repeatedly before finally getting out of it.

    Having uncaring / or abusive parent(s) can cause many to go off the wrong path. ITS great to see you finally turned it all around. You have a purpose on earth hence why you re still here.

    Losing loved ones is sad, and can be traumatic. But you have an internal resolve and resilience which will get you back up in time.

    Don't give in to the alcohol. it ruins lives, try to beat it completely.

    Goodluck.
     
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  15. Billy Batts

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    That's for damn sure :D

    Well get one and I'll give you a cut :D

    At my door at home, sure, on the other side of the world, fuck it :D

    I'm trying :) Day 15 now, just walked on the edge of Budapest for 2 hours,a currently sitting sitting on a park bench cuz my feet hurt AF, bought a 5 day ticket for a gym so going to work out a bit along the week and just taking it one day at a time.
    Yeah, liked the silence and still miss that buffet :D But found an all you can eat in Budapest for €4,75 :)
     
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    amazing story... thank you