Of course all the alpha males jump in and say 'yo dude no1 would EVER try that shit with me you must be asking for it!' Watching him he does this to loads of people but to me it just happens to piss me off. I imagine it makes other people uncomfortable too. He seems like a nice enough guy, ie not a total low self esteem guy who does it in a spiteful way. But it's more that he assumes too much familiarity. I go to this club several times a week so it is really an issue that has to be corrected. For example the other day I was standing in the queue and he had crept up behind me and JABS ME HARD SEVERAL TIMES IN THE RIBS causing me to yelp loudly like a girl since I wasn't expecting any such nonesense. If you've ever been jabbed in the ribs you know how horrible the feeling is; that sharp tickling sensation. Last night, since I shaved my hair to number 0, he walked up to me then SLAPS MY HEAD HARD AND SQUEEZES MY HEAD. This time I retaliated a little by grabbing his arms to brace both of them and I said 'what are you doing?' or something of that nature. But I doubt he got the message. I am a grown man of over 30 years old yet he is grabbing me around like I'm his 5 year old nephew on his knee. I don't even know the guy it's just as soon as he recognized me from going to the club regular he starts with this shit like we are lifelong friends. Really inappropriate. Again let me state I see him doing this to loads of other guy's too; girls too come to think of it. Not that it makes it any better but just saying I'm not the only one. Not sure how to handle this now? because he is always there and it's the main club I go to. I think I have to somehow say something which makes it seem like he's the insecure one rather than trying to say it seriously. Maybe accuse him of being gay since I guess bouncers are very insecure about that with wanting to look macho and all.