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We just came across a good deal on a house in my hometown about 2 hours from the job opportunity. We've been looking out for an opportunity to move back that way because she prefers that school district. Looking into buying the house which would mean she wouldn't be able to do the internship...

Alright no problem, I'll post an update a little while after she starts.

Thanks everyone for replying to this thread. I was glad to get all of your opinions and I've come to the conclusion that I'm not crazy for worrying, but need to stop stressing about it. I'm going to stop coming back to this thread because I don't want to obsess about all the negative...

She wouldn't even be considering it if it wasn't paid. She'll be paid between 16 and 18 an hour. And her safety is one of my major concerns, I've been to enough bars to know that they aren't always the safest of places.

As much as that idea appeals to me, she would see it as me not trusting her. That and someone would probably feel up on her and I'd get pissed and end up getting her in trouble or something.

Thanks for that quote man, much needed. And you're right it should be good for her career. I would +Rep for the quote but I think reps gone.

Lol I'm pretty sure she wouldn't wear one of those. Yeah I've got it, keep my eyes open.

Thanks for the advice Kinlee, you're right. I'm normally not insecure with the relationship and my trust in her is what has kept this relationship going for as long as it has. No point throwing it out the window now. I'll look it it your way, like a test. Worrying about it day and night isn't...

I've been bumming about this for most of the day since finding out she got offered the job. She's already offered not to take it, but I know if I tell her not to shes going to resent me. She was just talking with her sister about the job and she's so excited about it. Stuck between a rock and a...

Fuck man, those two posts are probably the most depressing so far. You both raise some good points, and you're right. People can change when thrown into new situations. I trust her not to cheat on me now, but who knows if she will change when shes thrown into these exciting situations on a...

That's good to know, it makes sense that you would become somewhat immune to the flirting after a while of doing it, just like anything else in life. I should take your advice as good news overall. Hopefully the girls you hooked up with are quite a bit different than mine.

I'm not sure if the responses to this thread have made me feel better or worse about the situation. I guess it all comes down to how much I trust my girlfriend. Since nothing is likely to really happen at the club/bar itself, I only have to worry about her actively being unfaithful to me, and...

Thanks for the honest advice, I'm obviously not thrilled by what you're saying, but I have to trust that she will be faithful to me. I never gave too much thought to the staff working at the place. Just one more thing for me to consider.

It's cool that you're basically in the same boat at the other end of the spectrum. If you and you're GF have been able to make it work, I at least have hope for us. It sounds like you have a pretty great job too. I'll take your advice to heart and have a long talk with her before she starts the...

Hi kirkonpolttaja, I think if she cheats on me then she probably isn't the right person for me anyway. I don't think that will happen though. I agree that I just need to support her because it is her life and not mine. I'm not going to stoop to reading her phone messages, because I would hate if...

I agree with you that they may not give her the job, but the actual job isn't doing the same thing as the internship (which is paid btw) I think she has a pretty good shot at getting it when all is said and done, but who really knows. She may not even end up liking the job, I guess I just have...

Hah, thanks for the reassuring words. Guess I'll have to perfect my current technique and start paying her off. Nah, she's the type of woman who has to make her own money. Even if I made 100k+ she would still have a job. Damn woman.

Thanks for the advice Theodore, you're right, if I cause her to quit the job shes going to end up resenting me. I just have to suck it up and stick it out for the year. Hopefully it pans out for her in the end, but either way the experience should help her marketing career later on.

I agree with some of what you are saying. I'm really not worried about her cheating on me I think if that was a major concern for me we would already be broken up because she has had plenty of opportunities to do that. I'm more worried about her getting felt up by a bunch of horny guys that are...

Duffers - That's a nice thought but I'm pretty sure the kinds of guys I'm worried about messing with her are the same kinds of guys who don't care if a girl is taken or not.