- May 5, 2020
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To me, selfish means consistently putting your own wants, needs, or interests ahead of other people's without giving reasonable consideration to how your actions affect them.
According to you what does selfish mean exactly ?
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MeninaJohn
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- Sep 10, 2026
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For me selfish is when your benefit regularly comes at someone else's expense and you dgaf. Saying no or protecting your own time isn't selfish.
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Yup your explanation is correct but what do you suggest to be ?
Its a dog eat dog world, putting yourself first isn’t always “selfish”
barin.bennett
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- Jul 1, 2026
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Yeah, but there’s a distinction between setting your boundaries and simply being rude. Sometimes, you have to say no to avoid exhausting yourself helping others all the time.