Looking for proxies/hosting with good privacy

Been tightening up my compartmentalization and feels the weak point isn't the runtime setup, it's the buying. Every proxy or hosting order the seller ends up holding something that ties back to me, an email, a card or payment trail, sometimes a KYC step, and over enough orders those breadcrumbs quietly connect identities I meant to keep apart
What I keep getting stuck on is whether reputation and privacy just pull in opposite directions. The big trusted names, like google aws and similar all want ID and a real payment method before they hand you anything, so going with someone reputable means giving up exactly what links me. The ones that take monero and ask nothing tend to be the sketchy end where you're just swapping that for a different risk.

yeah privacy and reputation usually pull opposite ways… for anything important i’d rather use a reputable provider and separate projects with legit business emails/payment methods than trust a no-KYC host that can disappear overnight

i think the days were submiting id is viable are a long
distant thing of the past sadly

It might be worth looking for providers that collect as little data as possible and asking what information they collect and how long they keep it.

High privacy and high reliability rarely go together. Email registration is unavoidable for account access, and strict identity checks are what keep IP pools clean and unblacklisted.
You’re ultimately trading identity privacy for infrastructure quality...

I stopped trying to solve this with one provider. For anything that matters, I keep one clean business identity per project and never mix billing between projects. Chasing no-KYC everywhere usually just moves the risk, not removes it.

Buy 1 sim per mobile ISP, put in a dongle, hook up to a dedicated PC, install and configure some opensource proxy software. You get unbeatable price, unbeatable speed, unbeatable latency, unbeatable reliability.

What you don't get is 100s of IPs, but you don't need them for most tasks, because your public mobile IP is not just yours anyways, you are one of many 1000s.

But look at it this way: what provider will give you, say only a 100 outgoing requests at a given time with 100 different mobile IPs? That's basically renting a 100 mobile proxies. Probably going to cost you 2000 bucks per month minimum. Closer to 4-5k tbh.

Unless they'll be shared, slow, fail often, then you might get it for under $500, you'll pay for 100 threads and in practice never reach 25 from your applications POV.

You just can't beat your own infra.

It's definitely a tradeoff. Good OPSEC and consistent separation of identities usually matter more than finding a perfectly anonymous provider.