Loss of purpose, loss of motivation

Soltiade

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Hi dear BHW members,

I wanted to share and, hopefully, learn from your experiences here today.

I have been successful in an online business for about a year. About a year ago, I decided to close my business, take a break, and look for something new. I've felt burnt out, and couldn't find the drive to do anything with it anymore. So I put everything on hold, moved on from it completely.

Now, one year later, I find myself with no motivation to do anything, really. And I keep having thoughts about why my past venture succeeded and why I cannot just jump into something new again.
These thoughts do not go away, and I came to the conclusion that the reason for success was the fact that it was a passion of mine, which aligned very well with my values, and I was simply curious and always wanted to get better; it did not feel like work (until the later stages of the business, the last 1-2 years).

Now, I find myself with no passion, or perhaps with a passion, but I am too afraid to pursue it, because I think to myself that it is the wrong path to go on. So I have no purpose, I have nothing pushing me to do things. Yes, I have ideas that might be good, and might work out, but I simply do not have the drive to go through with them because everything feels like work, I do not have the same curiosity, and I do not have the same passion for becoming better at the thing I am doing. I just need the money.

If you found yourself in such a situation, how did you get out of it? What did you do?
Do I have to just suck it up and do work? Or do I try to find something that creates that spark in my brain & delve deep into it? And if so, how do I find it?
I just feel lost, I often feel a bit lost, but this time I just do not really know what I want from life, besides having enough money to not have to work & be comfortable.

Thank you for taking your time to read.
 
there are two phases of getting successful.
1. hard work and patience, keep working hard with emphasize on management and believe on god.
2. If you have a supporting and loving partner, it is the key of getting successful, It is mandatory, without a loving partner earning money motivation and efforts do not get put in
 
Hi dear BHW members,

I wanted to share and, hopefully, learn from your experiences here today.

I have been successful in an online business for about a year. About a year ago, I decided to close my business, take a break, and look for something new. I've felt burnt out, and couldn't find the drive to do anything with it anymore. So I put everything on hold, moved on from it completely.

Now, one year later, I find myself with no motivation to do anything, really. And I keep having thoughts about why my past venture succeeded and why I cannot just jump into something new again.
These thoughts do not go away, and I came to the conclusion that the reason for success was the fact that it was a passion of mine, which aligned very well with my values, and I was simply curious and always wanted to get better; it did not feel like work (until the later stages of the business, the last 1-2 years).

Now, I find myself with no passion, or perhaps with a passion, but I am too afraid to pursue it, because I think to myself that it is the wrong path to go on. So I have no purpose, I have nothing pushing me to do things. Yes, I have ideas that might be good, and might work out, but I simply do not have the drive to go through with them because everything feels like work, I do not have the same curiosity, and I do not have the same passion for becoming better at the thing I am doing. I just need the money.

If you found yourself in such a situation, how did you get out of it? What did you do?
Do I have to just suck it up and do work? Or do I try to find something that creates that spark in my brain & delve deep into it? And if so, how do I find it?
I just feel lost, I often feel a bit lost, but this time I just do not really know what I want from life, besides having enough money to not have to work & be comfortable.

Thank you for taking your time to read.
Maybe you have just been exhausted from the past 1–2 years, with too many moments that should have been used for rest being filled with work and building your business.

Everyone has limited energy. Maybe it’s time to slow down for a while and truly take a break, go sit in a park, feel the ocean breeze by the seaside, and use your senses to experience the beautiful side of the world.

Give yourself some time to recharge and regain the energy you need to keep working hard and moving forward!
 
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