If you're already getting suspensions and verification failures, I wouldn't focus on cloaking or workarounds. Those usually increase the risk of permanent account issues.
For dating offers, I'd start by reviewing the landing page, ad copy, disclosures, and policy requirements very carefully. A lot of dating-related campaigns get flagged because of content, targeting, or compliance issues rather than the keywords themselves.
I'd also make sure the business information used for verification is consistent across the account and website. In my experience, fixing the underlying policy problems is much more effective than trying to hide the offer from reviewers.