Marrying A Girl You Dont Know...

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OP, in all seriousness I do not know what to tell you. In my society we pick our own mates. We generally ignore our parents advice on anything, and we really don't gaf what other people think of our life choices.

I always said if I was forced into an arranged marriage, I'd kill myself. Or that culture would kill me; I'm way too mouthy.
 
That's tough bro. The only thing to do is to face your parents. Better than a life of unhappiness.
 
Though I don't post here and there much but this is a genuine and mature suggestion I guess.I am an Indian too and my parents are totally cool with any decision I make! Though I understand some might not be that flexible but you should try convincing them.
Best is meet the girl and spend some time with her before marrying to know each other better. Who knows may be she is good for you and things go well. If not, then instead of fighting with parents try to tell them the truth that you can't spend your life with her. Fighting, running away, killing or dying are never the solutions!
 
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Tough decision, but tries to convince your parents or else tell a girl that you don't like her. But never leave your parents or run away.
 
OP I am an Indian too
My family has both arranged marriages and love marriages, actually we have one from European race too


Just because you didn't meet the girl before doesn't mean she is bad or good. She might be pretty, well behaved, intelligent or vice versa.
I understand your situation as an Indian and I think you should talk to your parents and make them understand you want to see her and need a time of at least 4 month to see if she fits in your life or not.

Probably, you may say your parents are not going to allow this but you have to make them understand. They love you and are in an illusion in 21st century where two completely strange people can live forever life.

I mean there are chances, perhaps high chances that even if you don't meet and talk to her before marriage you might develop interests with each other. But you shouldn't take any risk of destroying two lives and should certainly meet her and know each other.

And please don't fucking tell me you got another girl in your life. If you have then please let your parents kill you/kick you out etc etc but don't destroy her life
 
alwaysinvisible said:
OP, in all seriousness I do not know what to tell you. In my society we pick our own mates. We generally ignore our parents advice on anything, and we really don't gaf what other people think of our life choices.

I always said if I was
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alwaysinvisible said:
OP, in all seriousness I do not know what to tell you. In my society we pick our own mates. We generally ignore our parents advice on anything, and we really don't gaf what other people think of our life choices.

I always said if I was forced into an arranged marriage, I'd kill myself. Or that culture would kill me; I'm way too mouthy.
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Are you like not allowed to even meet her before the marriage?
 
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