I believe the real problem is that everyone expects something for nothing. People tend to believe that they can create a business which will pay them thousands of dollars and they won't have to invest a penny. No one wants to invest to find out "
how to" set up a site or how to acquire paying members. People insist upon reinventing the wheel.
Contrary to what some believe this was a
REAL site.

And, there's a reason for the auto responder. The auto responder was for the
drip method and control the flow of information.
Yes, the gurus have tens of thousands of subscribers on their list. But ask them how many actually buy? Then the numbers plummet to 10%. Then you have gurus like Sh awn Ca sey who just hammers people day after day after day with one sales pitch after another. Ask him what his attrition rate is. I made the mistake of buying something from him and canceled my subscription by the fourth day. Others I know have canceled because they were tired of being "sold" all the time. (There's a reason why people use throw away emails when buying or subscribing to guru websites)
Sales conversions are much higher with the type of site I built than the type the gurus use. Ask the gurus and they'll tell you that a membership site is usually only good for about three months then they start hitting a high attrition rate with very few new members. On the other hand the site I created continues to have a very low attrition and very high sales conversion.
When I sold the membership site I had a little more than 800 paid subscribers. I spoke to the woman who purchased it from me and she has it built up to a little more than 1200 paid members with no additional marketing on her part. All using a "lame auto responder".

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Consider that's 1200 paid members at $10 each. Growth has slowed but attrition rate is almost nil. The membership fee isn't where the profits are. She's making a killing on selling PLR stuff and Click2Sell products.
As for the postcards I only used them for the first two to three months. After that the site went viral because of what I was doing and how I was doing it. Not because it was a membership site. I did it without any cronies sending to their lists.
Again, everyone is trying to reinvent the wheel when it comes to the postcard. I've seen everything from "get rich quick" to "dry" with no call to action.
(sorry I can't show the postcard to you due to legal obligations to the new owner)
It took me about two days to set up the membership site, with no membership script, and between teleseminars and phone consultations I was giving. In other words a lot of interruptions. (site creation is not my forte

)The second day was primarily because of problems I was having producing the video which some BHW members have purchased their own custom versions of. (I maintained the rights on the video) The video was powerful because it spoke directly to the concerns of the prospect. It was emotional. It allowed their own fears to prey on them and to compel them to join.
You don't have to have all the content on the site at once. Just the first fourteen days or about seven pages of content. After that it takes about an hour to add one month of content per month (10 pages). The lady I sold my membership to added a month's worth of content every day for ten days. She now has a little more than a year's worth of content and can pretty much "
set and forget" it.
There's quite a lot of good information out there on membership sites. I'm no longer doing any membership sites or joint ventures on membership sites. My primary company is pretty much keeping my busy full time just trying to keep up.