age difference [relationship]

[h3rmit]

Hey people...

I know most of you guys are jokers, but this is a serious question here... I'm 21 and the girl I'm "dating" is 16 years old, is it weird? I mean, she's a bit childish, but mentally developed on a level where I feel comfortable being with her, talking to her etc. I have her as a girlfriend now, but don't know whether I should keep doing it or not.. I mean, we're not doing anything, not even lip kissing lol, cause I know it's a bit early for her to do that.. It's childish of me, but she's caring, lovely and a good person in general, so I wanna be with her.. she's my girlfriend right now.. is there anything weird about this?

 

[TheVigilante]

GTFO you prick....this is not a dating advice forum.

 

[SamLewis]

yes.... Half your age+7 is the rule

 

[PrinceVisi]

I don't see anything weird in that.

Plus, girls are always childish my friend or like to play that card at least.

 

[wizard04]

Are you fucking kidding me she is 16 years old, haw can you not see a problem. AND YES they tend to be childish when they are still fucking kids!

 

[oscilay]

Yes, it is. You say she's your girlfriend, but you did not kiss her yet? Also, are you gonna wait for her to be 18 in order to bang her?

 

[h3rmit]

abhi007
you don't fucking say? somehow, I know that already

osclay
girlfriend doesn't necessary mean physical contact such as kissing, sex etc. hugging and other small stuff are fine..

why are you reacting in such a weird way? I'm not raping anyone lol, just having a relationship with someone..

 

[KHR]

GTFO you prick....this is not a dating advice forum.

Agreed. This is not a dating advice forum.

But, 5-7 Years Age difference is Good Enough. Personally I dont prefer big difference.
You should Date with her when she is at least 17.

 

[neverquitting]

Why don't you have a seat over there...

 

[Peter Ngo]

There is nothing weird about it, as long as you love with your heart not your weenie.

 

[Trepanated]

So just to recap...

You are a grown man
You are dating a 16 year old kid
And even though she is only 16, she is childish for her age
You haven't kissed her because she is too young

And you want to know if it's weird?

Go and ask her father - see what he has to say (or do) about it

 

[oscilay]

osclay
girlfriend doesn't necessary mean physical contact such as kissing, sex etc. hugging and other small stuff are fine..

Well, then you might as well get yourself a plushie. It will fulfil your needs.

 

[SamLewis]

Just so people know, in the UK 16 is legal. But yes, it is weird and a little bit disgusting.

 

[h3rmit]

alright, some of you may be assholes, but thanks anyway

 

[KHR]

yes.... Half your age+7 is the rule

Is this rule ? Who made this broken rules ?

If Boy =15 then 15/2+7= 14.5, (Girls age & Boys age almost same)

If Boy =21 then 21/2+7= 17.5, (4.5 Years Gap)

If Man =30 then 30/2+7= 22, (8 Years Gap)

If Man =50 then 50/2+7= 32, (12 Years Gap)

Do you think, Old man needs more younger girl ?

 

[pxoxrxn]

It is a bit weird but if she makes you happy then so be it. Having said that, I know your type. The only men I know that date women that much younger than them are the types of men that cannot get a girlfriend his own age. They are often immature themselves and get romanced by a young girl just because she shows interest. If you want a relationship that's worth something, that will truly make you happy then grow up and et a girlfriend your own age.

 

[lilmasta]

Jokes, but on the serious note if you really love her and want her to marry you then don't rush things (getting physical)

 

[neverquitting]

Is this rule ? Who made this broken rules ?

If Boy =15 then 15/2+7= 14.5, (Girls age & Boys age almost same)

If Boy =21 then 21/2+7= 17.5, (4.5 Years Gap)

If Man =30 then 30/2+7= 22, (8 Years Gap)

If Man =50 then 50/2+7= 32, (12 Years Gap)

Do you think, Old man needs more younger girl ?

Have you seriously never heard of this "rule"? It tells you how young you can go. Obviously it's really aimed at adults with the exactly same question as OP. So, no, it's not very useful for a 15 year old. But for a 21 year old, it's essentially saying she's gotta be legal. What's so surprising about that? Obviously this isn't some law or anything, but it's a nice (lighthearted) rule of thumb.

 

[h3rmit]

pxoxrxn
who the heck said that? I've dated girls 3-5 years older than me, not for just s#x, but for relationship.. and just so you know, I wouldn't be interested in 16 year old, unless she wasn't something else..

 

[pxoxrxn]

(getting physical)

I've never understood this logic. I've never ruined a relationship from making sweet love.

pxoxrxn
who the heck said that.

I did. Just then.

To be honest OP, you sound immature. You joined in October 2014 and your first three posts are about getting relationship advice. Why, of all the forums on the internet, did you pick an internet marketing forum to confide in? It looks like your seeking attention.