@ Beingakrant,
You have this chance from me, because I treated you like my son. I even told my wife that here is a man, just like our son, who is a hard-worker, a genius in his field, and a well-mannered boy. He has a promising future... I got to tell her about this thread now....
Before that, I will ask you only his:
Everyone trusted you and showered well wishes. Those members included top members like Wiz too. There were other mods and people like 2011nfl and so many other member with real reputation...
So did you tell any one of them the truth about your past on this forum?
Do you now think that you should have, given the fact that they all trusted and liked you?
What would have happened if you had told? May be you would have been banned again, but that would have been still acceptable for you because they all thought that you deserved their admiration. Do you understand now of how much pain would be caused to them because of this thread?
Of course the time for that has passed now. But please reply to this when you find time... it will do immense good to you over the coming years.
And there shouldn't be any if's and but's. The OP must be refunded his amount at least because he lost his own business and the trust that he built over many weeks and may be years with his own customers. Your business negligence cost him his good clients.
Remember, you wanted me to see and check something th other day? I tried to do that even as I had lost my uncle not 12 hours before that, and I couldn't even go see him because I am almost dying myself, and so my relatives hid the fact that the best person in my life left me so suddenly. I was really dazed then, but I still gave you something which you had requested, and told you only after completing it that I wouldn't be of much help to you becuase I had just lost my uncle who had loved me the most... there was no money business that I had with you then, and I could've easily stayed away from replying to your pm, but I knew you had an urgency.
I guess, that you could have done the same to OP while your cousin was breathing her last. May her soul R.I.P., and I acknowledge that the death and the life immediately before that would have been so painful for her and all near her, but that would have been an ideal service by you towards your client/s, and that she too would have loved it immensely.
I wish you a great life ahead. God bless. And yes, I'm hurt...