Whores

[ijof9]

Saw this thread, also saw what OP is asking. And it's going to sound science-fiction for most of you.

We as men have neurological triggers that make us think hot girls who we don't know are better material than we already have. On the other hand if you establish a long term relationship with one of this bitches, it'll turn out to be repeating after a few months. Your hot girl that now loves you becomes obsolete, and hot fresh bitches will turn to look better, much more good.

I personally preferred to say stay with the girl that I am right now. And I did chose wisely, I won:
- a heart & a soul, which feels good for the both of us
- a person who knows who I am, the software side of me
- the benefits of a comforting, long term relationship

If you want to be the hot-shot popular alpha-club-male, you are also entitled to go for it, but know it's not going to benefit you in the long run. Sometimes you will get a moment of solitude when you won't know where your home is anymore. It's just human nature.

 

[TheArticleMan]

You guys look at things too black and white. Would you care if a girl slept with 50 girls? I wouldn't. I would be turned on.

It has to do more with the fact that men are disgusting and being penetrated is different then penetrating something.

If a guy told me he has had sex with 5 guys, I wouldn't really care. If a guy told me he had sex with 50 guys, I would think he is a nasty whore. No homo.

Just sayin'

Not even bro. I guess everyone has their own way in which to go about attracting their partners.

Personally, if a girl has slept with 50 guys to ME she obviously has little respect for herself and doesn't sound like she is actively seeking a long term partner.

Im still 20 and young a free so to me whores are good

 

[icysfx]

Saw this thread, also saw what OP is asking. And it's going to sound science-fiction for most of you.

We as men have neurological triggers that make us think hot girls who we don't know are better material than we already have. On the other hand if you establish a long term relationship with one of this bitches, it'll turn out to be repeating after a few months. Your hot girl that now loves you becomes obsolete, and hot fresh bitches will turn to look better, much more good.

I personally preferred to say stay with the girl that I am right now. And I did chose wisely, I won:
- a heart & a soul, which feels good for the both of us
- a person who knows who I am, the software side of me
- the benefits of a comforting, long term relationship

If you want to be the hot-shot popular alpha-club-male, you are also entitled to go for it, but know it's not going to benefit you in the long run. Sometimes you will get a moment of solitude when you won't know where your home is anymore. It's just human nature.

Good post buddy.

 

[Kickflip]

If you want to be the hot-shot popular alpha-club-male, you are also entitled to go for it, but know it's not going to benefit you in the long run. Sometimes you will get a moment of solitude when you won't know where your home is anymore. It's just human nature.

How can you say it isn't going to benefit someone in the long run? Do you know everyone in the world? Are you saying there are no 100% content single people?

There are a lot of people in relationships who end up killing themselves because they can't handle the stress that their spouse puts on them. Don't you think those people would have been better off staying single hot-shot popular alpha-club-males? Or did them killing themselves somehow benefit them in the long run?

 

[icysfx]

How can you say it isn't going to benefit someone in the long run? Do you know everyone in the world? Are you saying there are no 100% content single people?

There are a lot of people in relationships who end up killing themselves because they can't handle the stress that their spouse puts on them. Don't you think those people would have been better off staying single hot-shot popular alpha-club-males? Or did them killing themselves somehow benefit them in the long run?

Hm, I agree & interesting point of view. However I doubt he was really making that statement on a individualistic basis.

 

[Kickflip]

Personally, if a girl has slept with 50 guys to ME she obviously has little respect for herself and doesn't sound like she is actively seeking a long term partner.

I actually know several girls who sleep with 2-3 men each year, which is NOT a lot of different partners. They are in relationships with these men. These men promise them the world. They promise they want to be with that girl forever and marry them.

But then the guy cheats on them. They break up. She stays single for 1 month. And a new guy comes along. Promises her the world. And the cycle begins over again.

I don't see how that looks badly on the girl, or shows anything about her respecting herself. From age 20-30 if you get jerked around by many different guys, those numbers add up real quick. I don't get anyone who thinks a woman doesn't respect herself because she has multiple sexual partners. That argument never made sense to me.

Like, I would date a porn star. If she was a sweet girl who truly loved me. I wouldn't think twice about what she did on camera.

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If this girl told me she loved me, and cooked me breakfast in bed, I would be sold.

 

[TheArticleMan]

I actually know several girls who sleep with 2-3 men each year, which is NOT a lot of different partners. They are in relationships with these men. These men promise them the world. They promise they want to be with that girl forever and marry them.

But then the guy cheats on them. They break up. She stays single for 1 month. And a new guy comes along. Promises her the world. And the cycle begins over again.

I don't see how that looks badly on the girl, or shows anything about her respecting herself. From age 20-30 if you get jerked around by many different guys, those numbers add up real quick. I don't get anyone who thinks a woman doesn't respect herself because she has multiple sexual partners. That argument never made sense to me.

Like, I would date a porn star. If she was a sweet girl who truly loved me. I wouldn't think twice about what she did on camera.



If this girl told me she loved me, and cooked me breakfast in bed, I would be sold.

I totally understand it from that way. Over the years for sure it will clock up and it isn't exactly the woman's fault.

I'm just saying as a 20 year old man, some girls I see/know sleeping with more men that I'd care to count which shows the value aspect I was referring to.

 

[ijof9]

How can you say it isn't going to benefit someone in the long run? Do you know everyone in the world? Are you saying there are no 100% content single people?

There are a lot of people in relationships who end up killing themselves because they can't handle the stress that their spouse puts on them. Don't you think those people would have been better off staying single hot-shot popular alpha-club-males? Or did them killing themselves somehow benefit them in the long run?

No, it is going to benefit somebody, but not even aiming towards my level of education, or yours for that matter. Mating in general is a human instinct.

But yes, a woman would do better if she'd just quit her date, and end the stress. But a woman can (in her 4th dimension) see through her emotional history with that guy. And she won't leave him, unless someone or something (nowadays pharmaceuticals) teach her to turn down her instinct, and rationalize the relationship. But if she does it alone, on her own, without pills or external help, if she honestly sees the stress, then she gets educated. She will become more valuable, and maybe then she has the right amount of value to be right for you.

But all this? Not in the club. At least I personally won't look for real value in a club. Yes maybe she's sexy, maybe she knows how to dress or make up well, maybe her hair looks gorgeous and she's got puppy eyes, but I'll take only 40% of all that, and for the rest I want a big heart, a childlike curiosity, an equal friend, and much, much love. That's value.

P.S.: I'm 21.

 

[moromete]

just take her and make a lot of little black hatters...

 

[Roparadise]

Is BHW a misogynist only website? I really dont gdt people like the OP.

 

[Kickflip]

No, it is going to benefit somebody, but not even aiming towards my level of education, or yours for that matter. Mating in general is a human instinct.

But all this? Not in the club. At least I personally won't look for real value in a club. Yes maybe she's sexy, maybe she knows how to dress or make up well, maybe her hair looks gorgeous and she's got puppy eyes, but I'll take only 40% of all that, and for the rest I want a big heart, a childlike curiosity, an equal friend, and much, much love. That's value.

I'm scared to death of mating. I really don't want it. I understand the general instinct, but mating and being with 1 person forever are not the same thing. Many men are programmed to spread their seed among multiple woman, because it gives a greater probability of survival of their genes.

Also, 9 months is too long for some men to wait to see if the results will meet their requirements (Healthy child) so they don't take the chance, they start the process with another woman while the first is still pregnant. This way if there is any deformities, health complications etc, they have a backup plan.

The instinct to produce offspring is so much more complicated then just finding a mate and having a baby.

I myself believe I will be a better asset to the world if I stay single and focused. If I want to teach a kid to play baseball or something, I can join the Big Brothers association.

 

[icysfx]

Is BHW a misogynist only website? I really dont gdt people like the OP.

For posting a discussion on a forum? Great logic homie.

 

[Kickflip]

Is BHW a misogynist only website? I really dont gdt people like the OP.

OP already said, he is just trying to get people to talk and discuss. The views of the original post do not necessarily reflect his full and actual point of view in life. He is just going to the extreme to get discussion going. Maybe you can give us your point of view on relationships and people who have multiple sexual partners?

How many people have you had sex with? Are you male or female? How old are you?

 

[icysfx]

OP already said, he is just trying to get people to talk and discuss. The views of the original post do not necessarily reflect his full and actual point of view in life. He is just going to the extreme to get discussion going. Maybe you can give us your point of view on relationships and people who have multiple sexual partners?

How many people have you had sex with? Are you male or female? How old are you?

Thats exactly it, thanks for pointing that out.

 

[ijof9]

Men judge women and put on them "whore" labels when they do not have the balls to step up and claim them. When they see her walking down the street and have no idea how to approach or what to say. Fear of women is very common among men but very few of us will admit we have it.

You only judge what you desire the most in the darkest, most isolated and deep recesses of your mind.

That's what PUA communities are for, all over the place.

Anyway, love the thread title, very catchy.

 

[Tytus]

Only a whore can give a men freedom which he needs.

 

[Mokodoki]

I don't personally believe that just having multiple sex partners makes a woman a whore. Sex is a very natural part of our lives, and some of us are driven to engage in it more than others. As long as you are having sex with healthy partners for the right reasons and being discreet, I don't think it's really anyone's business what happens between the sheets.

Also, if women had the same standards about men, you would never get laid.

 

[Roundhouse]

I try not to have double standards or be hypocritial when it comes to how many partners a guy or girl has had, but I just can't get over a certain mind set.

I do find it filthy if a girl has slept with 30+ guys in her life. I would never date her no matter how she treated me. As someone said above, its like she is the one being penetrated by the guy, the one getting fucked. Like she is giving up her body only for the guy to have sexual pleasure. Even though I know girls have strong sexual desires as much as a guy does, it seems to me that a girl should hold herself higher then that.

I would have sex with a girl even if she has been with 200+ guys. But I would never show her respect or think highly of her.

And some of the best relationships I been the girl was smoking hot and not a slut (banged about 3 guys in their life). But I ended up fucking the relationship up.

Anyways,
Girl - 30+ Partners - No Respsect for self and slut
Guy - 50+ Partners - Has some self respect issue as well and douche

Yes, above is how I look at things. Is it a double standard view? Yes. Is it a hypocritial view? Yes. Do I wish I could bang 100 girls? Very much so

 

[jb2008]

I don't care how cool the girl is, you are only screwing your SELF if you settle for fucking one girl for the rest of your life. Every time I got a gf that I really liked at the start, thought similar things to you about her, after 3 months of having sex with the same person, however good the sex is, I start to go insane and find myself jacking it to pr0n just to see another girl's vagina. Men are designed to impregnate as many hot girls as possible, if you think anything else then you are denying nature and it will hurt in the end.

 

[jb2008]

I don't personally believe that just having multiple sex partners makes a woman a whore. Sex is a very natural part of our lives, and some of us are driven to engage in it more than others. As long as you are having sex with healthy partners for the right reasons and being discreet, I don't think it's really anyone's business what happens between the sheets.

Also, if women had the same standards about men, you would never get laid.

Mokidoki, tits or GTFO :driver: