what would you recommend if i want to push my parasite from page 2 or page one bottom to top 3 ?
I would not use any parasites first of all. Pointless to invest into building a site you don't control. Other than that, the usual stuff: RELEVANT onsite content, forum links and finally blog comments to spread keywords and to get these indexed.
Forum traffic is awesome. Do you use some more advanced thread starting/answering strategies?
One of the big elements is timing / patience. If you are using GSA SER or another tool, you want to publish links fast and build tiers on it. Forums work differently. The serious forums are moderated. So, instead of a link blast right from the beginning,
1) You start with creating the forum profiles. Update these after a couple of days. Mods will realize you are not pushing. Use serious email addresses, names, locations. Don't register as with an African name, living in Brazil, working in Zurich and with an Ukrainian email address. These accounts will never be activated. - I am running some forums based on phpbb myself and see the poor attempts of new registrations. Do the same with another project on the same sites. Repeat over a week or 10 days. All you want at this stage is profiles, no links yet.
2) Use the idle time in between to "read" and process the forums with XRumer's Anti-Spam mode. You'll collect information on the subforums, topics and content. Repeat. This also shows the mods that you are actively "reading" the forum posts rather than posting junk from day 1.
3) Start to reply in Anti-Spam mode. Your first posts will probably go through moderation but pass.
4) Update your profile again. Include a link to your homepage or a serious URL.
5) Edit the default GPT-texts in XRumer to make sure your posts are relevant to both the target site and your topic/site. Start posting. Record the URLs
6) Do the same for the other profiles and reply to your first profile with useful posts. Use the specific URLs of 5).
7) Optional - Monitor your catchall inbox for replies to the automatic posts made. Reply or "like" some of these by logging in manually. Your posts with the links will stay.
It takes a couple of days and is not about monitoring LpM or other funny parameters but traffic is almost guaranteed and links will stay online. My phpbb forums get crawled by Google once per hour - there is no better indexation rate.