Captaintj
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I am not sure about Affiliate marketing. I will look into it. Any good guide you recommend on BHW?
[Journey] Towards A Stable Life Of Happiness.
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charles133
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To make yoo better understand look on youtube for this guys as they have great tutorials on aff marketing .wisdom speak ,incognito money ,franklyn hatchet ,incognito money .You will thank me
I'm from Brazil and I find myself in a similar situation, my income today is just enough to pay my debts for the month, I'm studying affiliate marketing and Amazon FBA, what paths do you recommend me? (I'm from Brazil, but I have plans to move to Florida in January)
charles133
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Well me i think that affiliate marketing its more easy business than amaxon fba as amazon fba its more complex you need to ship products etc .But dont listen to me its better to try both and see whats work for toh .Some people find amazing succes woth amazon fba
Captaintj
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UPDATE 15
It is the end of the month, so let us see the finances first.
Earnings (Monthly) -
Private work = $0
Online Business = $0
Total Monthly Income of March = $874
Goal Monthly = $874 - $10000 = -$9126
Work + Personal Update -
Finally got a job!
I moved countries and started working last week. The first few months might be tough with taxes and basic expenses of living, but I am determined to make this my last stop for the next many years to come. I am working with not colleagues anymore but family it feels now. I am not related by blood, but the bond is like off brothers.
I don't have much money anymore and I still need to support my family financially, but I am in a better place than before. I will be working like a machine for a couple of years to come and hopefully, I can build a good life where I am currently.
The work is not mentally exhausting but it might become tiring in the coming future. But I am happy in the place and company that I am working in, and I am ready to take on any challenge that comes. I feel I have found my place in this world, I feel at home.
Soon I will start working around 12 hours a day and I am honestly quite happy with it. I will move out of my current relationship soon due to multiple reasons and then once I have healed I will start searching for a life partner again or one can say wait for her to find me or vice e versa.
I have a lot to say honestly guys, but the best I can say is, that hard work pays off. I know how much work has been put in not only by me, but people around me, to be in the place we are currently. I hope each one of you can find your place in this world with people who care for you like your own and love you with all their hearts.
Goals Until Next Month 1st -
1. Set up everything with work and get settled.
2. Get enough work to sustain me financially and save up for the coming months.
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# Keeping the traditions
" Thank you for everything that you have given me. "
~ Captaintj
Captaintj
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Update 16 -
Been a while since I updated this, been busy due to work and now things are starting to settle down, so I sought to take time out to write here. I will not be updating finances for personal reasons, but I will be updating on work, where I am in my life, and the steps that are being taken to make the best of what there is.
Work Update -
I have been working quite a lot for the last 2-3 months. The days have been long, but they are quite worth it. I haven't been able to save a lot due to expenses, but I hope in the long run that will change and I will be able to save money more.
I am quite proud of myself because seeing the progress here in BHW, I can see I have come far away from where I was when I started this journey. After working hard and well I could -
- Buy my first car.
- Rent my very first apartment. (First time living alone.)
Personal Update -
My family has been well. Financially we are the same way we have always been, but I am working hard to change it. But touch wood we are not in a dire need of money currently, hopefully, things only take a better turn.
Broke up with my ex 2 months back. I didn't have much time to really think about it, but now it is in the past. I have moved on and started to look for a partner now. Currently getting to know a local where I stay and honestly I am quite happy. We are nothing more than just friends, but let's see if things change in a more serious direction. I am trying to be more emotionally and mentally strong, need to meditate more on it.
Goals Until Next Month 1st -
1. Start saving some extra money monthly.
2. Send money back to the family to support them financially.
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# Keeping the traditions
" You can always choose to change your wife, but your kids cannot choose their mother. Choose wisely. "
~ Captaintj
tattooedbuddha
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Looks like it can only get better from here. Maybe I've missed it in the thread, but how old are you?
Captaintj
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Affiliate marketing is simply when you promote and sell a product or offer of another company/store/person. Almost this whole forum is about generating traffic to make money, for examply, by that kind of offer.
Even when I worked making money with affiliate offer for a lot of years by now I do recommend you to stick with what you love/desire to do. There is a lot of money in Jewelry markets but will be silly suggest to everyone to start a business there just based on how much money it's possible to receive. Same applies for affiliate marketing.
As https://www.blackhatworld.com/seo/journey-towards-a-stable-life-of-happiness.1240668/page-4#post-15516707 I like the fact that even at your age you seems to have perspective of life that doesn't limit to the general interest on the money.
However, happyness and stability are overestimated too. But maybe it's only understable once someone got enough of both.
Best wishes on your journey.
Captaintj
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Thanks for the message bro.
I am quite happy with my work and currently under alot of loans that need to be paid off, so working towards that. Once they are paid off, then can look into other things.
When it comes to affiliate marketing or anything like that, I personally do not like the idea of doing it, so I am just gonna stick to what I like because there is money to be made in longer run in my current work.
Life I believe is lived in totality and every part of life needs to be balanced for a healthy life. Like a good diet maybe. Hence I focus on everything and not think crazy like money money money, my life will be sorted if I'll be millionaire.
I think have a decent enough of Money, Love, Health and Happiness should be good for a good life.
Captaintj
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Update 17
Been a while since I updated this journey. I do not know if I have any major updates, but I guess once I start writing this post it will flow. I will keep it short and simple. General Update -
- My job is going fine. The work isn't a lot, it's a bit stressful here and there, but I am grateful.
- I am heavy on loans, they keep increasing, but I am determined to pay them off and start sending money to my family soon, which I haven't been able to do due to my financial conditions.
- Instead of crying, I use every energy to make my life better. I started learning in a new IT field in the mornings, job until the evening, and studying at night.
- I found a GF who supports me and is there for me, who I am grateful for.
- Being poor and having to think before I buy things!
- Not able to support my family financially.
- Not able to buy things. I borrow clothes and things from everyone because I have these huge loans that I need to pay off which keep increasing and I don't have any money to buy a phone while my current is broken, buy a laptop which is 10 years old, to go out and spend money on food, so I cook cheap food at home or tell my GF I am not hungry, whereas the truth is I don't have money and I hate this feeling!
- I hate seeing my friends buy iPhone Max 14, whereas I can't fucking afford a regular phone.
- I hate seeing people traveling and achieving their goals, I wish to have that money and that life also!
- I love struggling because I know I am a hard-working motherfucker who works all day, has goals, and has clarity and I will not stop until I reach those goals.
- I am not gonna cry at my circumstances, I will keep working hard until I pay these loans off, retire my parents, build a fortune and say fuck you to the rat race!.
- I will live the life that I dream of. Multiple passports, a loving and caring wife, a big house, an expensive sports car, millions in the bank, a country where I wish to settle down, ability to earn money from wherever I want, whenever I want.
~ Captaintj
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Update 18
Apologies for the lack of editing text. I am writing this from my phone.
My last update was on December 2022 (10 months ago). Alot has happened since, I'll try to keep in concise and to the point.
You might say, Captaintj, this journey is about stable life of happiness and all I see is problems (mostly)...
And you're not wrong... But I have a plan..
I'll make the big money and have all the things in life that I wish for very soon.
I know this update isn't that inspiring maybe, but I wanted to keep it short and simple. I'll write a big one once I have achieved the thing I wrote above.
Keep fighting, good times are near.
Yours truly,
Captaintj
Apologies for the lack of editing text. I am writing this from my phone.
My last update was on December 2022 (10 months ago). Alot has happened since, I'll try to keep in concise and to the point.
- Got job into my dream country... moved there... which turned into a nightmare and got me shit load of loans because someone who I trusted put me in a position which was bad for me. Had over 15000 dollars worth of loans.
- Paid it all off in 1.5 years of pure hard work.
- Currently having only 6k dollars in my bank account saved after working my ass off.
- Having a stable job that pays bills but doesn't give me that much happiness anymore. (Because of my financial condition).
- Found someone I love and wish to spend my life with.
You might say, Captaintj, this journey is about stable life of happiness and all I see is problems (mostly)...
And you're not wrong... But I have a plan..
- Study Data Analysis and get a IT job to have 2 stable incomes.
- Start a business once I have a regular Data Analyst job, haven't decided what type, but let's see.
- Keep doing my current job as it pays the bills.
I'll make the big money and have all the things in life that I wish for very soon.
I know this update isn't that inspiring maybe, but I wanted to keep it short and simple. I'll write a big one once I have achieved the thing I wrote above.
Keep fighting, good times are near.
Yours truly,
Captaintj
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Update 19 -
As time has passed by my updates have gotten longer and longer. But here I am and I am happy to say things are better.
Financial Update -
I still haven't gotten over my loans, but finally I am away from the devils company which was sucking me dry financially. I will soon have my own company and hopefully then I will not have loans. I have a stable income which pays the bill. I have big ambitions and goals, I am trying to do better everyday and hopefully I reach my goals someday. I will let you guys know when I do better financially.
Relationship Update -
I found the love of my life only to lose her. Long story short, I found someone, fell in love, brought a ring, but later found out she had slept with my client (in the past before me) and many guys, including many married men and threesomes in her past before me.
It broke my heart, I picked up the pieces and moved on. She had told me all the information because she thought I will love her for her honesty, but somehow I could not find it in my heart to forgive for lying and have done the things she have. I was scared that she might cheat on me in the future and I left. We had both loved each other from all our hearts, but somehow it was broken ever since her past came to light. I am living alone since sometime now, healing slowly.
Family Update -
Things in my family are better, I have a good relationship with everyone and touch wood, we are financially better than when I had started this journey.
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Somehow guys life is tough, but I know I need to be tougher. I am all alone in a foreign country without love or family and the only way I see nirvana is financial freedom. I will work my ass of to become rich, be physically fit and mentally strong.
I will update when things get better.
Godspeed.
As time has passed by my updates have gotten longer and longer. But here I am and I am happy to say things are better.
Financial Update -
I still haven't gotten over my loans, but finally I am away from the devils company which was sucking me dry financially. I will soon have my own company and hopefully then I will not have loans. I have a stable income which pays the bill. I have big ambitions and goals, I am trying to do better everyday and hopefully I reach my goals someday. I will let you guys know when I do better financially.
Relationship Update -
I found the love of my life only to lose her. Long story short, I found someone, fell in love, brought a ring, but later found out she had slept with my client (in the past before me) and many guys, including many married men and threesomes in her past before me.
It broke my heart, I picked up the pieces and moved on. She had told me all the information because she thought I will love her for her honesty, but somehow I could not find it in my heart to forgive for lying and have done the things she have. I was scared that she might cheat on me in the future and I left. We had both loved each other from all our hearts, but somehow it was broken ever since her past came to light. I am living alone since sometime now, healing slowly.
Family Update -
Things in my family are better, I have a good relationship with everyone and touch wood, we are financially better than when I had started this journey.
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Somehow guys life is tough, but I know I need to be tougher. I am all alone in a foreign country without love or family and the only way I see nirvana is financial freedom. I will work my ass of to become rich, be physically fit and mentally strong.
I will update when things get better.
Godspeed.
Next Hubz Limited
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Your journey is so much hard. Try hard, you can do it. Best of luck always !!
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stay focused on your goals hard times don't last forever, and don't overdo it; you'll get burned out. Just trust the process everything will be fine
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Wish you success,I hope it comes soon..
A win is a win. Youre going in the righg direction
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I believe handling this solo would be rough.
Have you tried to consult a therapist?
From what I see, you could make a lot more money if you had a better plan for it.
Have you tried to consult a therapist?
From what I see, you could make a lot more money if you had a better plan for it.