Am I a selfish, bad brother?

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Just to be clear, because people seem to be getting confused. In the very beginning I posted on the same forum but i abandoned it just as quick as a i joined because my bro bitched and moaned. Nothing came of it. The point of this post is that he still hates on and resents the fact that i offer the same services as him. Not that I posted on the same forum as his some 5 years ago and abandoned it right way. So if you want to come across as having an intelligent response, don't cling onto a moot point.

BassTrackerBoats said:
Tell him to post then.

Let him discuss the pros and cons since you could care less.
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I did as he asked. Made a post so everyone could tell me how pathetic I am. You can tell him yourself, if you want.
 
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SYAWEDIS said:
I did as he asked. Made a post so everyone could tell me how pathetic I am. You can tell him yourself, if you want.
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I won't tell him; he didn't post here and I never mentioned anyone being pathetic.

Have him post to get opinions since you could care less.
 
I mean the one thing I've learned in life is there are two sides to every story and people will always tell their side in a way to make themselves look better. The notion he flipped out over you asking about a button being too long seems kind of unlikely and maybe there's a missing pieces to the story. Maybe I am wrong. I'm sure someones already posted that though so if you addressed it my bad.

There's nothing that wrong with getting into the same industry as him in my opinion...brothers take inspiration from each other all the time..but I can see why he'd be upset that you come to the same forums to do the same work as him because even if it isn't your intent, it does potentially take business away from him. It seems more logical to work things out and form a business together.
 
Alphabet said:
I mean the one thing I've learned in life is there are two sides to every story and people will always tell their side in a way to make themselves look better. The notion he flipped out over you asking about a button being too long seems kind of unlikely and maybe there's a missing pieces to the story. Maybe I am wrong. I'm sure someones already posted that though so if you addressed it my bad.

There's nothing that wrong with getting into the same industry as him in my opinion...brothers take inspiration from each other all the time..but I can see why he'd be upset that you come to the same forums to do the same work as him because even if it isn't your intent, it does potentially take business away from him. It seems more logical to work things out and form a business together.
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Yeah no doubt. And I've learned that if you throw around bullshit that noone will believe you. Maybe it's because he wasn't very proficient with photoshop or dreamworks and thinking of one little change when he was doing the site for almost free caused him massive stress . Hell if I know. But you don't act like a baby about it and delete a client's (much less your own brother's) website because of it.

I can see why he'd be upset about the forum too. I don't agree with it, but I let him have it.

And believe me when I say I've tried and tried and tried to work together, because we'd absolutely kill it (if we didn't kill each other first) since we both bring completely different things to the table. But some things (or people) are just impossible, unfortunately =\
 
SYAWEDIS said:
Yeah no doubt. And I've learned that if you throw around bullshit that noone will believe you. Maybe it's because he wasn't very proficient with photoshop or dreamworks and thinking of one little change when he was doing the site for almost free caused him massive stress . Hell if I know. But you don't act like a baby about it and delete a client's (much less your own brother's) website because of it.

I can see why he'd be upset about the forum too. I don't agree with it, but I let him have it.

And believe me when I say I've tried and tried and tried to work together, because we'd absolutely kill it (if we didn't kill each other first) since we both bring completely different things to the table. But some things (or people) are just impossible, unfortunately =\
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And you keep on posting your point of view yet you could care less... who does that?
 
your brother should have helped you instead of bitching about you being in the same niche as him...
anyway why wouldn't you just merge into one company and make it a familly business
 
BassTrackerBoats said:
What is real is your inability to be transparent in that you are asking for your brother as opposed to wanting people to agree with your POV.
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I'll state it again, just to clear up the confusion. My conscience is 100% clean. I don't care what people think about me, much less yourself (who seems to be part of a certain fan club, and that's fine I won't judge you). He wanted me to create this post so that people would agree with him and that people could tell me how pathetic I am (for what I have no idea exactly).

If someone wants to fight and you fight back does that mean you 'care' what they think? or do you just fight back because you're not a bitch?

Rcad bctwcern tne lires, dudc
 
SYAWEDIS said:
I'll state it again, just to clear up the confusion. My conscience is 100% clean. I don't care what people think about me, much less yourself (who seems to be part of a certain fan club, and that's fine I won't judge you). He wanted me to create this post so that people would agree with him and that people could tell me how pathetic I am (for what I have no idea exactly).

If someone wants to fight and you fight back does that mean you 'care' what they think? or do you just fight back because you're not a bitch?

Rcad bctwcern tne lires, dudc
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I'm not part of any club... anyone that knows me on a personal level would tell you that for sure nor do I care if you judge me.

If your brother wants opinions give him the opportunity to post here; why you are posting and then defending your position makes no sense since you could care less.
 
you came here to ask if you are selfish? only god can tell you
Ask a shrink
 
BassTrackerBoats said:
I'm not part of any club... anyone that knows me on a personal level would tell you that for sure nor do I care if you judge me.

If your brother wants opinions give him the opportunity to post here; why you are posting and then defending your position makes no sense since you could care less.
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I sent him the link when I posted it. If he wants to chime in he's completely free to do so. You don't need to keep acting like the mom.
 
Slap him then show him some brotherly love! Not the asshole.. oh wait this isn't reddit
 
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