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You I am so pist, I caught my girlfriend...

Discussion in 'BlackHat Lounge' started by donman, May 5, 2009.

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  1. donman

    donman BANNED BANNED

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    You, I am so pist right now! I caught my girlfriend having sex with her ex since December every month. I caught her when she used my laptop. Yeah, she used BHW member laptop. What was she thinking. She didn't know anyway. It was a good thing I found out. I really loved this woman. Obviously, she still has feelings for her ex when she told me she was done with him. The worst thing is her ex has a family and kids. He lied to her that is why she left him in the first place. Now, she lied to me just as he lied to her. I fucking trusted her. She has been meeting with him one Saturday every month and go to the hotel before 12 PM. What the hell did I do? I satisfied and made her scream in bed every time and everyday. I haven't spoken to her today. She kept leaving me voice mails and emailing me saying she is sorry. I don't even want to speak nor want to see this woman right now. Damn! If you were me, would you still take back this woman?
     
  2. vegasvillan

    vegasvillan Regular Member

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    FUCK NO!!!! Read my thread about seeing my ex in a strip club! lol don't stress it time heals all wounds and she will get whats getting to her!
     
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    whz up with everyone here?? I've just read 2 "Girlfriend" threads here...lolz...

    btw, chk ur GRUMMAR & SPALLING
     
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  4. MoneyMachine

    MoneyMachine Junior Member

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    Well the logical answer is no and I think most would agree, if she did it once she will do it again in the future. Although there are probably more complicated issues as is the case many times.
     
  5. tonz-sk8

    tonz-sk8 Newbie

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    Dude no second chances on that shit just give it time and another chic will show up... Some girls get crazy with that sorry bullshit and they'll go right back to being a whore. Don't fall into it man... Take my advice and just ignore her before she try's the I'm so sorry crying bullshit and the I care about you so much. You be better off if you don't even talk to her again.
     
  6. forgetyou

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    lol, no wonder she left you with this kind of grummar and spalling
    Hahahaha

    maybe the other guy just "reads" to her or they do "homework" together.

    sorry mate but this is too funny
     
  7. vegasvillan

    vegasvillan Regular Member

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    @frojat

    Thats fucked up...my boy is going through hard times
     
  8. swiper

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    Listen bro, I will fuking RAP for you OK!!!

    DITCH the BITCH

    Hope I got the point across. :)
     
  9. ifwearner

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    Yeah thats a no good situation dude.. tell the dude's wife for being a dick too.
     
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  10. popcrdom29

    popcrdom29 Jr. VIP Jr. VIP Premium Member

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    I have a very short answer for you. If you take her back you should change your screen name to doormat.
     
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  11. forgetyou

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    Hey Vegas, I was just kiddin bro, it was there and I had to take a hit LOL. TOO FUNNY.

    on a serious note though- this is BAD. BUT dude there are plenty of fish out there, so many that you got no idea.
    I say give her the boot and tell her to go fuck herself.
    sTAND TALL.
     
  12. jdog37

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    I would take her back on a trial basis. Provided that she gives up her ex for good and checks in with you at any and all times whenever you ask.
    Make her do your laundry, rub your stinky feet, and bring you breakfast in bed.
    During this time go out with your friends and stay out partying all night and dare her to ask where youve been. "I would never cheat on you!"
    During this time find your "next" true love and then dump her ass!
    Remember: Revenge is a dish best served cold.
    But good luck with whatever ya do Bro!
     
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  13. Mp3Mage

    Mp3Mage BANNED BANNED

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    Man ... why can't we all just find a nice girl.

    Some girls these days are messed up.

    :usa:
     
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    there are enough women in the world
     
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    love will find the way
    if you really love her calm down make strategy not emotion

    the diffrent man and women is
    man use logic brain and women is emotion
     
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    Fuck no. Kick her butt out of your life and move on.
     
  17. positivenote

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    To:donman

    Well..some of you guys just keep having a hard time looking for the right girl...

    if that was me..I would sit down and think back just to figure out what it is

    that "I" was trying to get out of the relationship..in most cases "donman"

    when people only care about whats on the outside and worry about looks only,

    what tends to happen is that after a few months of getting some action in bed etc

    girls as well as guys get bored and move to the next moving target..
     
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  18. donman

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    I just checked my voice mail. Now she is crying. She promised she will not do it again. But, I don't trust her no more. She said she was going to leave her ex. I am done with her. That bitch! Damn! I need to cool down. I have been hot headed all day.

    By the way I appreciate your advice guys.
     
  19. Mp3Mage

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    In all seriousness, Donman you are probably going through some hard emotional times right now. What I suggest, is to stop thinking about it for a while.

    Do some work, concentrate your efforts on something better such as play a video game or watch a movie. Give her time, and give her a second chance. If she lives up to your expectations, keep a close eye on her ... sorta like probation.

    But for now, give it time, and if she decides to choose that path with that other guy, then screw it ... find another girl. If she decides that she wants to be with you and truly apologizes, then by all means give her another shot.

    My 2 cents.

    :usa:
     
  20. turbotec

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    pretend to take her back, and pour a gallon of milk in between her bed matresses, and find the air conditioning vents in her house and put a fish behind the vents. then leave her ass. in a couple weeks things will start to smell around the house. then nail her best friend. u will feel much better
     
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