getting indexed, my sitemap, and google webmaster tools help please

hi i have my site and i have XML Sitemap plugin installed, and when i search in google "site:mysiteurl" i see alot of my site pages, which i though meant that they are indexed. but when i log onto my google webmasters tool it only says that i have 14 pages in the google index. so i downloaded the "seoquake" toolbar to verify and it said that i had over 100 urls in the index, which i think is correct in the first place. so is google wrong or am i just crazy? -thanks for any of your help or input..

well, don't look all at that number. I see a lots of people tell that, mean the link was indexed maybe don't listed on google webmaster, btw don't worry about this number, not really seriously