Ok, so I put this up earlier today:

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http://www.blackhatworld.com/blackha...you-think.html

…and received a lot of PM’s from people saying that is how they look at it from people saying that when you break it down like that it seems so achievable…but I also got a lot of messages from people that asked for tips on how not to fail. Shit, if I had all of those answers I would be selling WSO’s haha….kidding, kidding

Anyway, I started thinking. It is midnight here and the clock just turned to “March 14” – three years ago today my Dad lost a nasty battle with cancer. It was the hardest day of my life. There isn’t a day that goes by that I do not think about him. He was self employed and worked his ass off – and he always told me, “Son, never work for anyone but yourself. Find what you love and turn it into a career. You will be much more happy.”

…but he also told me that it wouldn’t be perfect…he made me fully aware that it would be more work than the 9 – 5 office jockey working a desk job in corporate America. When the clock strikes 5 on a Friday they are out of there with no worries about the operation…they don’t turn their mind back into “work mode” until Monday morning at 9am.

As I sit here and reflect on some of the best days of my life with him I wanted to share 5 things that he taught me at an early age and continued to reinforce as I grew up. Hopefully they make sense and can help some people. So, here we go…


#1: YOU ARE GOING TO FAIL. This is unavoidable, and you may fail 3,4,5….6…or more times before you “make it” and for this reason 99.9999% of people will give up. They will get knocked down the first time and give up. Then the second failure will weed the numbers down more. Show me someone that failed multiple times but got right back up – and that is someone that has what it takes to become successful.


#2: DO NOT TAKE ADVICE FROM OTHERS THAT DO NOT HAVE THE SAME MINDSET. Would you take advice from someone who is content working a crappy job for $50k a year? Ever hear, “you should get a real job” before? Ignore those people. We can’t all be rock stars. The world needs janitors and waiters. Let them be, but never take advice from them or let them influence your dreams.


#3: DON’T BE SCARED! Every amazing idea has started as a dream and vision. Those that were not scared to take chances and risks are the ones that turned their dreams into reality. You don’t stand a chance if you aren’t willing to take a chance. Life is too short to waste time. If you want something, go after it. Now. Not tomorrow, not the next day.


#4: SURROUND YOURSELF WITH WINNERS. If you have negative people in your life get rid of them. Right now. They are hurting you in many ways. Surround yourself with successful people and you too will become successful. Don’t be afraid to cut ties and sever relationships. It is for your own benefit.


#5: UNDERSTAND IT IS NOT GOING TO BE EASY. Nothing is easy and it is going to be hard. Very freaking hard. You will have sleepless nights. You will work weekends. People see the guy driving a Lambo and say that they want that life BUT they aren’t willing to do what he did to get there. The sacrifices. The chances. If they knew what he endured to “make it” the average person would instantly not want that lifestyle.


My dad emphasized these 5 points to me all the time and I will never forget them.

RIP Dad – Miss you.

great post and yes i am surrounded by winners around me.

great post man.almost made me cry because it hard to lose someone who very dear to your heart man. RIP and hope that you take the words your dad told you to heart. like i always tell many IMers make a seed.water that seed.grow that seed.also dont forget to sunlight the seed.

great post , great dad ! RIP

Originally Posted by abhi007

great post and yes i am surrounded by winners around me.

Surrounded by winners and you will never fail

Originally Posted by giftedwizard

great post man.almost made me cry because it hard to lose someone who very dear to your heart man. RIP and hope that you take the words your dad told you to heart. like i always tell many IMers make a seed.water that seed.grow that seed.also dont forget to sunlight the seed.

Thanks man...everyone has the same opportunity to grow their seed but many aren't willing to put that time in

Originally Posted by dummydecoy

great post , great dad ! RIP

Thank you

sorry to hear that about your dad but sure indeed he was a wise man..

Originally Posted by UberBots

sorry to hear that about your dad but sure indeed he was a wise man..

Thanks. He def taught me a lot so it's nice to just sit here and remember those talks

This guy called netmoney1 is making my browser's "Bookmarks" folder heavier than ever these days!

For point #1 in many countries/cultures there's "no room" for failure - it's not seen as a way to find something that doesn't work, but instead as just sucking in life - and thus most people give up so easily and go back to the more "secure" ways of life.

"You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to netmoney1 again"

Surround yourself with winners... I've heard that multiple times before and I've always tried to do so. However, it seems like every single skype group I've ever joined eventually dies off :/ It may be active for a few months, then people simply stop communicating or the communication is reduced to gibberish chitchat instead of IM. Have you faced this issue? What's the solution?

Originally Posted by crusher

This guy called netmoney1 is making my browser's "Bookmarks" folder heavier than ever these days!

Hope you can use some of the info and glad you like it!

Originally Posted by Oukast

For point #1 in many countries/cultures there's "no room" for failure - it's not seen as a way to find something that doesn't work, but instead as just sucking in life - and thus most people give up so easily and go back to the more "secure" ways of life.

The "safe" bet won't always make one happy. Life is so short, do what makes you happy!

Originally Posted by hitman247

"You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to netmoney1 again"

Lol appreciate it

Originally Posted by maestropanda

Surround yourself with winners... I've heard that multiple times before and I've always tried to do so. However, it seems like every single skype group I've ever joined eventually dies off :/ It may be active for a few months, then people simply stop communicating or the communication is reduced to gibberish chitchat instead of IM. Have you faced this issue? What's the solution?

Think outside of "Skype" - there are successful people in your area - not just IM people. Any business owner. Find local entrepreneur groups, etc. you need real world interaction.

I have to say, this is a good post, but I can't really agree with #2. Usually, those janitors and waiters that are stuck in that spot can give so much insight into the world, especially if they're old. You just can't neglect everyone like that. Sure, they may not have the same mindset, but you never know, they just might have some gems of wisdom in their head...

Originally Posted by hbeezy

I have to say, this is a good post, but I can't really agree with #2. Usually, those janitors and waiters that are stuck in that spot can give so much insight into the world, especially if they're old. You just can't neglect everyone like that. Sure, they may not have the same mindset, but you never know, they just might have some gems of wisdom in their head...

I think you are misunderstanding - not saying don't talk or associate with them. Some of my best friends are mechanics, landscapers, etc - but I wouldn't take business advice from them.

I agree about surrounding yourself with winners. Research has found that if you have fat friends, there is a 40% chance that you will be/become fat. They've found that it's NOT that they hang out at Dunkin Dounts, but that what we see becomes the norm. The point is hangout with whom you want to be, if best you can find is people trying really hard to get ahead, then lead them. If you can find successful people to hangout with, then do that. I run 3 business groups that meet on a regular basis and the people in them are more successful than me.

If you need help pm, I agree skype groups, does not work for me either. There needs to be more of a buy-in and social responsibility. IMHO

Another awesome thread by netmoney1. Keep up the great works since such threads are great for the newbies as they motivate them and continue their IM journeys and eventually succeed.

Originally Posted by lincolnave

I agree about surrounding yourself with winners. Research has found that if you have fat friends, there is a 40% chance that you will be/become fat. They've found that it's NOT that they hang out at Dunkin Dounts, but that what we see becomes the norm. The point is hangout with whom you want to be, if best you can find is people trying really hard to get ahead, then lead them. If you can find successful people to hangout with, then do that. I run 3 business groups that meet on a regular basis and the people in them are more successful than me.

If you need help pm, I agree skype groups, does not work for me either. There needs to be more of a buy-in and social responsibility. IMHO

Yeah, while skype groups are good for some things there is nothing like meeting up with a group of like minded people for happy hour on a Fri night or Sat morning coffee. That is where the real ideas are developed.

Great advices from your dad netmoney1, and thanks for posting them! I hope my parents planted mindset like this when I was young, re-writting your already set up 9-5 shitty values is very hard, but I'm willing to do it.

Another great thread by netmoney1. Thanks for the motivation!

Originally Posted by tomsko

Great advices from your dad netmoney1, and thanks for posting them! I hope my parents planted mindset like this when I was young, re-writting your already set up 9-5 shitty values is very hard, but I'm willing to do it.

All it takes is deciding that you are going to make it happen and going everything possible to reach your goals. Good luck!

Originally Posted by ShadeDream

Another great thread by netmoney1. Thanks for the motivation!

Thank you, glad you found it useful!

You man had an awesome dad! And some wise words he gave you! Thanks for sharing this with us. Bookmarked this page, this will help me with my journey for sure.

Great inspirational post bro.
Rip to your dad...

Originally Posted by BestarT

You man had an awesome dad! And some wise words he gave you! Thanks for sharing this with us. Bookmarked this page, this will help me with my journey for sure.

Originally Posted by twitterbitter

Great inspirational post bro.
Rip to your dad...

Thanks guys...he was awesome and greatly missed. Go after that $$ but always make time for family

I am so sorry about your dad, a wise man.
But i don't agree with #4, i have been in such groups, people are just bragging about their accomplishments and rarely share any useful knowledge. I have a few friends and they are not very successful - one of them is a high school teacher, one in the military and a few others that have even shittier jobs. But i know these people since childhood, so what i have to tell them "GO FUCK YOURSELVES, YOU ARE LOOSERS".
I don't have "winner" friends but that doesn't make me less motivated and i am doing pretty decent.

Originally Posted by lincolnave

I agree about surrounding yourself with winners. Research has found that if you have fat friends, there is a 40% chance that you will be/become fat. They've found that it's NOT that they hang out at Dunkin Dounts, but that what we see becomes the norm. The point is hangout with whom you want to be, if best you can find is people trying really hard to get ahead, then lead them. If you can find successful people to hangout with, then do that. I run 3 business groups that meet on a regular basis and the people in them are more successful than me.

If you need help pm, I agree skype groups, does not work for me either. There needs to be more of a buy-in and social responsibility. IMHO

This is bulshit. I am fat(well kinda) and it is because i spend 12-15 hours a day in a chair working and the rest of the time i am sleeping.

Originally Posted by theMagicNumber

I am so sorry about your dad, a wise man.
But i don't agree with #4, i have been in such groups, people are just bragging about their accomplishments and rarely share any useful knowledge. I have a few friends and they are not very successful - one of them is a high school teacher, one in the military and a few others that have even shittier jobs. But i know these people since childhood, so what i have to tell them "FUCK YOURSELVES, YOU ARE LOOSERS".
I don't have "winner" friends but that doesn't make me less motivated and i am doing pretty decent.


This is bulshit. I am fat(well kinda) and it is because i spend 12-15 hours a day in a chair working and the rest of the time i am sleeping.

#4 isn't just based on someones financial situation or career. I know negative people that are wealthy....and I also know poor people who are some of the most inspirational. This refers to getting rid of people that bring you down a level....has nothing to do with financial status...

This guy called netmoney1 is making my browser's "Bookmarks" folder heavier than ever these days!

Evernote is the way to go *

That's a tip OP didn't share but it is equal to success !!!

Words from the wise

Man, all I can say is thank you for posting this. I really needed to read this. Have heard these thoughts and ideas before but we really need to be reminded of them constantly. Just today I started making my exit plans for my cushy corporate agency job. I want to build my own dreams, not let someone hire me to build THEIRS... Thanks again bruh.

Originally Posted by politico

Man, all I can say is thank you for posting this. I really needed to read this. Have heard these thoughts and ideas before but we really need to be reminded of them constantly. Just today I started making my exit plans for my cushy corporate agency job. I want to build my own dreams, not let someone hire me to build THEIRS... Thanks again bruh.

Awesome, work hard and you will make those dreams happen

Great Post

Netmoney1 you sir are amazing. All your posts alone today made my day. And may your dad rest in peace bro.


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Netmoney1 is gonna be my favourite poster today!

You had indeed a wise dad. Sad he had to leave. RIP

I read "Think and get rich" by Napoleon Hill. He tells quite similar ideas! Loved the book

Originally Posted by sansarahub

Great Post

Thank you

Originally Posted by hithere

Netmoney1 you sir are amazing. All your posts alone today made my day. And may your dad rest in peace bro.


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Thank you I appreciate that

Originally Posted by mzonas

Netmoney1 is gonna be my favourite poster today!

You had indeed a wise dad. Sad he had to leave. RIP

I read "Think and get rich" by Napoleon Hill. He tells quite similar ideas! Loved the book

Thank you - that is a great book - anyone that hasn't read that is sure missing out

Think that you 'covered" all commons fail reasons,
I would like to add " Be yourself, trust in yourself, don't trust too much in fair tales other talk about".
And like netmoney1 told in previous post 100K year is not so hard to get it is just ~300/daily. When you reach that goal from 0, then making 1M/year or more is piece of cake. Take it on this way: 1 is ~ times larger than 0. an 10 is just 10 times larger than 1...

Awesome post! Stay hungry!
May your dad rest in peace bro

you are absolutely right! all common reasons covered! hopefully it will help some out there! thanks for your time

Originally Posted by SEOMagicianAL

Awesome post! Stay hungry!
May your dad rest in peace bro

Thanks, I appreciate that

My dad passed away when I was 11, it's sad I didn't have a chance to learn something valuable from him as a grown-up, not a kid. But it always reminds me that I have a bigger responsibility to carry now, I'd probably make him happy if he could see me now.

Originally Posted by lakim0

My dad passed away when I was 11, it's sad I didn't have a chance to learn something valuable from him as a grown-up, not a kid. But it always reminds me that I have a bigger responsibility to carry now, I'd probably make him happy if he could see me now.

Exactly. Just know that he is always there with you!

Sorry about your dad, RIP, all what you listed is what I advised a mate, he didn't listen to me until this year and took everything on board. To get successful with IM you will lose friends, and sometimes you might lose relationship because of that, just never give up and we will all get there.

Great story netmoney!

Your father gave you some great tips to follow during your "journey".

It's never easy to reach your goals.People should have that in mind always.

Thanks for sharing.

Damn, these are some pretty good advices out there. Only that I woulodn't surround myself with winners. These are the kind of people who like to sniff their own socks. Just don't surround yourself with idiots who would only drag you down. Anyway, thanks for that.

Originally Posted by cocococo

Sorry about your dad, RIP, all what you listed is what I advised a mate, he didn't listen to me until this year and took everything on board. To get successful with IM you will lose friends, and sometimes you might lose relationship because of that, just never give up and we will all get there.

Exactly! And thanks.

Originally Posted by no0ne

Great story netmoney!

Your father gave you some great tips to follow during your "journey".

It's never easy to reach your goals.People should have that in mind always.

Thanks for sharing.

Just have to work hard

Originally Posted by clpik

Damn, these are some pretty good advices out there. Only that I woulodn't surround myself with winners. These are the kind of people who like to sniff their own socks. Just don't surround yourself with idiots who would only drag you down. Anyway, thanks for that.

Just surround yourself with like minded people - its great to have people to push you and share ideas with