the problem is this: facebook think i am a spammer/stalker/asshole,etc
If somebody block me for example, i will get an 7, 14 or even 30 days of "temporal ban" when i will not be able to add anybody to my list, or to send messages to them.

It's frustrating sometimes.. for example last time i talked with an ugly girl. I think she was psycho or something like that, and i ended up telling her "you are on ignore" and i blocked her. After 3-5 hours i think she blocked (&reported me off-course) and i got banned for 14 days
I put around 15 friends to add me... and the ban was not lifted

What i can do, to not have problems like this in the future. It's really frustrating to add 50 ex. high school mates (and girls of course) and if somebody click on reject/block my account to be blocked for 30 days because of them.

In this time i can just talk with friends from my list, not adding new people, etc.

Is this you trying to monetize or a personal account? (i can't tell)

If its monetizing, create new accounts - don't waste your time on a dead account.

You must know about ruls of facebook.If you make money from your facebook account,The best way is to make another account,don't waste your time on this dead account.If you use face book for dayting or person reason,wait a long time

Originally Posted by badguy_goodguy

the problem is this: facebook think i am a spammer/stalker/asshole,etc
If somebody block me for example, i will get an 7, 14 or even 30 days of "temporal ban" when i will not be able to add anybody to my list, or to send messages to them.

It's frustrating sometimes.. for example last time i talked with an ugly girl. I think she was psycho or something like that, and i ended up telling her "you are on ignore" and i blocked her. After 3-5 hours i think she blocked (&reported me off-course) and i got banned for 14 days
I put around 15 friends to add me... and the ban was not lifted

What i can do, to not have problems like this in the future. It's really frustrating to add 50 ex. high school mates (and girls of course) and if somebody click on reject/block my account to be blocked for 30 days because of them.

In this time i can just talk with friends from my list, not adding new people, etc.

There is no way around this, which is another reason why Facebook is going downhill.

The solution for Facebook is VERY simple.

If a person does NOT want to accept or talk to someone that is messaging them or befriending them, they simply hit "ignore" and it gets added to an ignore archive. This way, if the person wants to talk to that person again sometime in the near future, they can unblock them.

However, suspending peoples' accounts because of a report is just a waste of time and dumb on Facebook's part, which is why they are going down the drain.

And there is nothing I can do about it? Like: getting accepted by more friends , local pubs&clubs are easy to add and never hit ignore, adding more photos?
I see that if only 1 single person it's hitting ignore i get into trouble.
Why facebook think i am a spammer? I get an account for very long... a few years now.

FB really sucks now.
I liked playing the games but have now Uninstalled because it first blocked me for 7 days , then 14 and now I have a 30 day ban.
You need to add friends to play these games so am going to deactivate my account now.
I hope people and games get the message to go over to goolge+ FB could be like my space in a years time.

Facebook id just like any of the other major players they do what they want, just like the others the easiest thing is to make another account and move on

I also have same issue since i have about 3k friend. so i never send friend request to suggested by other people

use FB what it's for: money making
socialize elsewhere

and stop stalking ugly girls

ummm something smells funny...
and its not my dinner...

keep your pimp hand strong....:S

Originally Posted by ILoveCSharp

I also have same issue since i have about 3k friend. so i never send friend request to suggested by other people

Why not? I mean common...not even to "suggested people"?

Originally Posted by HoNeYBiRD

use FB what it's for: money making
socialize elsewhere

and stop stalking ugly girls

Dude, actually she added me first. She had me in Yahoo Messenger, so she invited all his Yahoo Address Book. easy no?

+++ I ignored her first. After 2 hours she ignored me back ,and booom !

Boom result = 14 days ban !

and all this ... for an 40 years old depressed "chick"

PS: I wrote an e-mail to facebook , but they don't respond.

I think you should make new account and be careful this time not to add unknown people for the safety of your account.

Um, if you are having to resort to posting on BHW to find a solution to your ban messages you probably are a stalker/spammer... read some posts, educate yourself and take measures to prevent his from happening again in the future.

FB isn't the playground that it used to be.

Its depends on the kind of account you have.

Bau ! again ! added 15 ex class mates, and one of them click reject/deny , and another ban for 14 days.. the rest of 14 added me... lol

FB can do what it wants, just make another account and message someone before adding them. Just like Messenger.

From what i've heard they should only care about what happened with my facebook account in the past 6 months... when adding bans and warnings.